Is it worth it? Just got out of a relationship and downloaded tinder. As far as I can remember, I used to pay like $3 per month for tinder gold 4 years ago. However, now the prices are like $20 per month. Lmao, anybody actually pay for that chit? Any advice for a brah that has become newly single? I'm 26 btw.

For your time:

doesn't work. meet women in real life, srs.

these apps are designed to take money and keep you on them for as long as possible, while also degrading your mental health.

I asked the same exact question like a month ago. The general consensus was its not worth it.

Plus, it seems I can score way hotter chicks irl than from online dating so def not worth it for me.

lol at paying for tinder

beyond pathetic, literally bottom of the barrel human

Might give that a try. I downloaded bumble and I paid $20 for a month trial yesterday, but hopefully it's worth it. Dating apps are trying to cash in hard, their premium version was like $35 a month, they're taking a piss, m8.

******** isn't bad, for a freebie. Hinge is like $35/month too.

I get gold everytime I go on there. dont have to swipe millions of bishes that dont want anything to do with you, already see the ones that like you. I would get like 500 likes in the first 24h

im not social tho (and dont plan to be)

Yes they are taking the piss, I had no issues paying like $3 for a month but it ranges from like $20-$30 a month. Of course you get a "discount" if you pay for a year but then its like $90 lmao. Thanks for the replies ITT so far brahs

You'll have to learn to be social anyway unless you are content with banging avg & below avg chicks.

i hear ya bro but you gotta try to step out of your comfort zone. i know this sounds like a broken record but going down the path of dating apps and spending money will just make your situation worse and you'll fall into deep depression.

i paid for these apps before and rarely got matches with women that were actually of quality or were attractive. everyone that was liking my profile on hinge, tinder, bumble, etc was fat or a single mom.

bump

I 2nd this opinion

if you are going to try and use the app to meet women (spoiler, online dating SUCKS now), it is worth the $20 so you can see who swipes on you. Then months go by and you've got zero swipes so you uninstall and call it a $60 lesson

Total waste of money.

Don't use any dating apps. Find your girl in rl

It works for me, you just have to have good pictures. Smashed 3 new girls this weekend, didn't pay for drinks/dinner, just a bit of text/snapchat and had them over.if your goal is to smash some strange, yes. $20 is literally two or three drinks, or one meal from ubereats. It's literally a nonfactor.

what are you looking for on tinder?

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...post1662405793

Take your pick, don't feel like uploading this past week's work. No offense taken bud. If you can't pull, I can only imagine you look far uglier than I do, especially since you don't have an AVI.

I sometimes buy a month for one of the buddies and they livestream their likes to the group.

Only worth if it says 99+ imo. I compare it to spending on a movie ticket.

women will come over and fk without a date - are you on crack?

Hood rats will

Good quality women ? Not really

I can pull

I just don't see the Merritt of banging 3 easy low hanging fruit in 1 weekend

And im only playing man avi looks fine brotha

my brother in christ there are no good quality women left. pack it in and enjoy degeneracy.

I had a couple girls come straight over

But none that youd be actually proud to date or be seen in public with

Lol true enough
Far and few between

U got me there

Alot of degens these days

you want a blackpill? catfish with a handsome guy's photos. or hell, just pm notbadnotbrad/nonsense for their tinder lineups. I guarantee you they're smashing 3+ points above me on the regular if they actually put in the effort, and they're still not bothering with dates.

every girl has had/will have a one night stand without the bullchit date. if it isn't with you, it's with someone else.

True enough
I actually tried that a couple years ago with a pic of a model i found online

Had straight 10/10s sexting me with degen lines lol


Once i also cat fished a attractive girls photo and realized most men just send bs i noticed a trend of like within the first 1 or 2 lines theyd wanna go out for a drink or something

Gold's not worth it, Platinum is the real deal because you can write message to 5 girls a day without matching with them
So you write nice hair or smile and they love that because they love the attention

It's no longer 2014 brah, I remember Tinder(especially for introverts like me) was a gold-mine for sloots as a lot of hot chicks were a good bulk of early adaptors. I don't remember when exactly, but when plus and superlikes got introduced(was like 8$/mo or something at the time), I got it and went quite a stretch of time easily setting up 1-2 dates for every weekend, almost always ending with smashing, would pick a few girls for rotation and unsub until I needed new ones... and I wasn't an exception when compared to any of my brahs.

As the early success stories made it explode, it rapidly turned into chit due to being overpopulated by basically the same dopamine-receptor-fried male majority that keeps onlyfans afloat, sugar-daddy culture, underhanded business tactics and algorithms that clearly bottleneck your matches, odds are that they literally poured millions into research on what results/outcomes keep you paying, my wild guess it's not having a rotation of 3-4 girls to bang with new candidates popping up on demand.

Last I was on tinder was before my current GF like 4 years ago(after a fresh break-up with the world's nastiest/filthiest sloot). I bought the plus, then upgraded to gold, bought a handful of boosts and it wasn't even remotely as good as the free versions were in the first few years(Tried in multiple countries too). Honestly, at first I was feeling like my mojo got stolen, or that maybe it is a game for University 18-21 year olds after-all. But now I think it's mainly due to how the platform changed over the years.

Regardless, for the first time since losing my virginity I had a sexless spell of like 3-4 months. I distracted myself with building a PC, lifting, side-hustles, BJJ. Eventually I started making an effort to try things where there actually are women, with the goal being to actually have fun, sex was back on the menu full-time. (having fun/being present is probably the most important thing and the best advice I ever got form early misc, very few things women are better at than men, but they completely smoke brahs at detecting desperation. Many brahs probably remember a time of approaching many girls and being turned down and then a time where you just had fun and got yucky with the boys, only to find a group of girls attached to yours.)

Don't want to go any more "dear diary" so I'll say that your best bet is probably to disregard tinder and get your head into some real-life things, even if they don't work for you and you want to online-game, the activities will help you set up a cooler Instagram page, which is imho way superior for pulling girls, even if it's a private one with 40 followers. The mates that I have that are still single all use tinder and insta, but pull the vast majority from the latter.

Can confirm. An insta page with 0 posts but those little story things detailing your places you've traveled/hobbies works wonders.

U pull the 0 posts look?