Spent mostly all of my 20's focusing on myself and because of that my social life has been almost non-existent. My 30's are approaching and im doing extremely well financially and im not broken down physically/mentally. I don't feel like I have hit my stride though. Things are going really well but I still feel like a loser. Has anyone here gone from being a nobody in their 20's to being a somebody in their 30's?

Yeah it's kinda funny how people who were peaking in their 20's seem to crash hard in their 30's, and people who were struggling in their 20's are doing well in their 30's.

I haven’t peaked yet.

God, I hope so.

Everyday I’m peaking dawg

I spent my 20's dreaming that I would hit a million and roll up to my high school reunion in a lambo or that I could tell a woman im rich and she would fall over me. Now I don't even want to let people know what I do for a living and I don't want a woman interested in me for money. Meanwhile my peers are probably wishing they have what I have and im over here wishing I had what they had/have. life is weird, life is strange.

No peak crew

ya i was was pretty much a complete degen. broke and lost in life. never held a job longer than 6 months.

into my mid 30's. Met my wife right after turning 30 btw.... she helped me piece my life together. eventually i held down a good staffing job and became a director within 2 years. bought a place together. never missed a payment. still living that broke life together. had kids, living frugally. saved some and invested some.

then this year in January, I sold my place for a net profit of over 700K at the absolute peak of the real estate market.

just as the real estate market is tanking here.

the way the market is looking right now, I'm going to be a mortgage free at 40 when I buy back in.




EVERY DOG HAS HIS DAY.

The Chinese century has started.

I’m 37, and have never been better than I am now. Srs, no cope. I have zero envy for anyone else in this world.

when did things turn around?

We gonna make it brah.

i just want girlfriend to play with doodle? Is too much ask?

It should be like a bell curve, but mine was the opposite. Starting at 14 then peaked 17 then down hill to 25 then around 30, back up....
Now 40 and i talk about doing nofap and shot (pure cope) manhood is going south, son.

Hell naw, but most women would rather tinker with their phone then do that. To many social media addicted buffoons'.

I really want a girlfriend more so to get the 2 for 1 special at Ihop or denny's. That way I can eat her bacon and eggs.

You're a man, you can afford to fck around in your 20's though. And seems most men these days only get their sh*t together in their 30's.