So no wife, kids, family. But anything could happen and I don't want the state getting it and I don't want it to just go to some random relative although I am pretty sure I know who and I don't want anything going to him.

Give it to someone who could really use it. It could be a game changer in their life. Say a family of good people you know that are struggling. However, they haven't made the best choices in life, nor do they make good choices today. There is a chance they might squander it.

Give it to someone who doesn't need it. Someone already set up, but they will manage your assets well, most likely turn it into an investment and double the money.

bro what are u doing on the misc? go knock up a bitch.
ppl you leave it to are just gonna throw ur money away, no ones struggling that doesnt want to be struggling. so you might as well throw it away on something before they can.

how much total assets we talking about?

could set up some sort of scholarship that pays out X dollars to whatever kind of student you want for X years - set up strict requirements so they don't just give it to diversity/SJW bullchit