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post 1667314693 09-04-2022, 03:46 PM
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Why are OK looking, jacked dudes struggling to get laid?

It's crazy how such a basic requirement for good mental health such as sex is such a foreign thing for so many men. (the brain can tell the difference between ejaculation via masturbating vs sex)

I get that the misc would have you believe you gotta be driving around in a lambo ceo10k a day to get some ass. But nah.

Why are there ok/decent looking dudes, in good shape beating off instead of getting laid?

Srs
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post 1667314763 09-04-2022, 03:47 PM
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Because they’re not driving around in lambos
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post 1667315133 09-04-2022, 03:55 PM
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A big part of it is women and social media. They're obsessed. They also don't have boundaries at it. My ex fwb for example would get so many messages on instagram from randoms, would have snapchats from so many guys, etc that it was actually mind blowing. She was having sex with me though, but at the same time was still entertaining all of it. You don't think chicks in actual relationships are doing this too? Most are. If the man even mentions to her to stop he is labeled insecure.

What happens is that most typical females have unlimited options and can drop a guy or be picky about a guy over something ridiculous. A lot men just don't want to deal with it.

When I downloaded hinge the other month I eventually got a lot of matches. But talking to them was like talking to a wall. Short basic texts with zero substance. I just removed them. A waste of time. How many do you think these chicks are talking to?

There are a plethora of reasons, but that is a major one I see.
post 1667315213 09-04-2022, 03:57 PM
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Because they're boring and stupid as phuck

Nobody wants a conversation about how Star Wars and Lord of the Rings was ruined by woke culture, nor do they want to listen to how Jordan Peterson and Andrew Tate are actually right
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post 1667315363 09-04-2022, 03:59 PM
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post 1667315373 09-04-2022, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
A big part of it is women and social media. They're obsessed. They also don't have boundaries at it. My ex fwb for example would get so many messages on instagram from randoms, would have snapchats from so many guys, etc that it was actually mind blowing. She was having sex with me though, but at the same time was still entertaining all of it. You don't think chicks in actual relationships are doing this too? Most are. If the man even mentions to her to stop he is labeled insecure.

What happens is that most typical females have unlimited options and can drop a guy or be picky about a guy over something ridiculous. A lot men just don't want to deal with it.

When I downloaded hinge the other month I eventually got a lot of matches. But talking to them was like talking to a wall. Short basic texts with zero substance. I just removed them. A waste of time. How many do you think these chicks are talking to?

There are a plethora of reasons, but that is a major one I see.
yeah but if you're decent looking and get semi decent exposure girls are sliding into guys' DMs everyday too
post 1667315913 09-04-2022, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
yeah but if you're decent looking and get semi decent exposure girls are sliding into guys' DMs everyday too
Yea but most guys just don't want to deal with these women anymore. I don't want to bang sloots like that even if it is easy sex. Females don't realize they are deluding their own value that way. I would say most of these guys want a relationship and to get married eventually, and dealing with cheating sloots isn't worth it to them. Men are being more careful these days.

As another miscer pointed out too is that a large portion of women don't take care of themselves anymore. The one's that do are entertaining and focusing on the top guys. You think a fit guy is going to settle for a lazy overweight chick that is annoying?
post 1667316103 09-04-2022, 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Yea but most guys just don't want to deal with these women anymore. I don't want to bang sloots like that even if it is easy sex. Females don't realize they are deluding their own value that way. I would say most of these guys want a relationship and to get married eventually, and dealing with cheating sloots isn't worth it to them. Men are being more careful these days.

As another miscer pointed out too is that a large portion of women don't take care of themselves anymore. The one's that do are entertaining and focusing on the top guys. You think a fit guy is going to settle for a lazy overweight chick that is annoying?
lol... yeah ok
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Yea but most guys just don't want to deal with these women anymore. I don't want to bang sloots like that even if it is easy sex. Females don't realize they are deluding their own value that way. I would say most of these guys want a relationship and to get married eventually, and dealing with cheating sloots isn't worth it to them. Men are being more careful these days.

As another miscer pointed out too is that a large portion of women don't take care of themselves anymore. The one's that do are entertaining and focusing on the top guys. You think a fit guy is going to settle for a lazy overweight chick that is annoying?
First thing you have to do when you actually get with a girl is reign in her social media. If she's hiding her phone or getting late night texts from other dudes tell her to go kick rocks.
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post 1667316183 09-04-2022, 04:14 PM
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Originally Posted By PissantSoldier⏩
Because they're boring and stupid as phuck

Nobody wants a conversation about how Star Wars and Lord of the Rings was ruined by woke culture, nor do they want to listen to how Jordan Peterson and Andrew Tate are actually right
This. Girls just want to have fun. Most are pretty basic and simple. I'm guessin the dudes OP is referring to is miscers.




I don't know any guys IRL that struggle to get laid.
post 1667316203 09-04-2022, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
First thing you have to do when you actually get with a girl is reign in her social media. If she's hiding her phone or getting late night texts from other dudes tell her to go kick rocks.
Good luck with most of these chicks nowadays. I agree 100%. Even the holiest of chicks can get tempted. All it takes is one doctor or athlete to peak their curiosity.

The other part though is men are such cucks these days they just let their chicks do whatever they want and they don't respect them because of it.
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because they just that... OK looking not Chad looking
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post 1667316353 09-04-2022, 04:20 PM
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pussy inflation where ugly sloots think they are hot
post 1667316383 09-04-2022, 04:20 PM
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why lift when it's all about the face
post 1667316443 09-04-2022, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Good luck with most of these chicks nowadays. I agree 100%. Even the holiest of chicks can get tempted. All it takes is one doctor or athlete to peak their curiosity.

The other part though is men are such cucks these days they just let their chicks do whatever they want and they don't respect them because of it.
If you're going to date a girl there are a few simple standards.

No snapchatting dudes. No texting dudes. No bikini pics on Instagram. Etc. Also doesn't hurt to take a peak at her texts/social media on occasion to make sure she's adhering.




If she's not willing to agree to that just plow her without getting emotionally attached and bang others on the side until you find a new girl.
post 1667316473 09-04-2022, 04:21 PM
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Why lift when it's all about the face
post 1667316613 09-04-2022, 04:26 PM
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It's a solid mix of higher female standards due to social media & autism. Srs.
post 1667316763 09-04-2022, 04:28 PM
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In on 100th misc redpill/incel thread of the day. A couple of things:

1. Leanness >>> muscle. Don't be a twink, but the average woman will be more impressed by 13 inch arms and being lean than being a bloatlord with a high powerlifting total who has a gut from dreamer bulking.

2. More importantly, being jacked isn't a substitute for personality. If you're a dud to talk to or have a chit job/career, a girl isn't going to get wet over you just because you're huge
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Most men are boring and live in regions that have no opportunities for woman. Woman don’t want to settle down in some rural town in middle of nowhere in a poor state which is basically
Bankrolled by the us government aka the south.

They want to live in cities. I’m having no problems smashing young single and I’m 37 with kids. You gotta live in a major center, I’ve never had this problem because so don’t feel the beer to settle down with some annoying ****.

Mgtow lol more like mstow.

This post affects 95% of the misc hence why the misc is full of sex less plebs now with nothing to do on weekend but I got maaa worthless land lol take that rentcell hahahahha bunch of clowns
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Boring.

Poor social skills.

Lack of opportunities. (no social circle, doesn’t approach, doesn’t do anything where they would meet chicks organically, etc.)

Relies on online dating. (less than ideal for many guys)
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hypergamy. only ugly girls want to meet off hinge and i alwaysbget the no sex on first date speech despite being out of their league
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Originally Posted By Composed⏩
Boring.

Poor social skills.

Lack of opportunities. (no social circle, doesn’t approach, doesn’t do anything where they would meet chicks organically, etc.)

Relies on online dating. (less than ideal for many guys)
boring doesnt matter. girls laugh at my terrible jokes all the time. when asked about college "i was probably too drunk to remember hahah!" (i dont even drink)
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
boring doesnt matter. girls laugh at my terrible jokes all the time. when asked about college "i was probably too drunk to remember hahah!" (i dont even drink)
sure they do ****g0t why are you frauding so hard sad, nice "$20k" seiko lol
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Originally Posted By 7empest⏩
It's crazy how such a basic requirement for good mental health such as sex is such a foreign thing for so many men. (the brain can tell the difference between ejaculation via masturbating vs sex)

I get that the misc would have you believe you gotta be driving around in a lambo ceo10k a day to get some ass. But nah.

Why are there ok/decent looking dudes, in good shape beating off instead of getting laid?

Srs
except that the brain can't tell the difference between porn and fapping to real women. So you porn/fap so much that when you go out in public your brain can't muster up the strategy to talk to a real female. because there are hundreds of hotter, better looking females who takes zero effort once you get home and fire up the tube
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Originally Posted By Techriding101⏩
except that the brain can't tell the difference between porn and fapping to real women. So you porn/fap so much that when you go out in public your brain can't muster up the strategy to talk to a real female. because there are hundreds of hotter, better looking females who takes zero effort once you get home and fire up the tube
pretty sure your brain knows when there is body contact with another person and when there isn't.

That's the #1 difference between sex and fapping
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Originally Posted By Sil3nt1⏩
sure they do ****g0t why are you frauding so hard sad, nice "$20k" seiko lol
how are these red squares?
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
how are these red squares?
shut the fuk up fuking fraud like I give a fuk ****g0t nice "$20k" seiko bitch

already negged you twice
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Originally Posted By GeezersPalace⏩
Most men are boring and live in regions that have no opportunities for woman. Woman don’t want to settle down in some rural town in middle of nowhere in a poor state which is basically
Bankrolled by the us government aka the south.

They want to live in cities. I’m having no problems smashing young single and I’m 37 with kids. You gotta live in a major center, I’ve never had this problem because so don’t feel the beer to settle down with some annoying ****.

Mgtow lol more like mstow.

This post affects 95% of the misc hence why the misc is full of sex less plebs now with nothing to do on weekend but I got maaa worthless land lol take that rentcell hahahahha bunch of clowns
Lol, the part about girls wanting to live in cities is 100% correct. And many want to live in the best cities, not just any city. It's 100% the fault of Social Media, because even like 4-5 years ago it wasn't like this.

I was down in Brazil, and I even had Brazilian girls trying to play hardball with me because I didn't live in one of the cities they knew in the US. It was hilariously mind blowing. These were girls around the age of 30 who didn't have money and were within a year or two of hitting a wall and having no chance of ever moving out of the place they live. One of them said, "She would come vidit me if I moved to California" and it just made me laugh.
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