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» What does it mean when an ex texts you this after asking why she wants to meet?
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post 1667375343 09-05-2022, 05:15 PM
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What does it mean when an ex texts you this after asking why she wants to meet?

I dumped her and she broke NC with a call and some texts over the past few months.

She wanted to meet up with me a few times. I asked why she wants to meet and she texted back:

"Lol you don't seem to get it" and
"I'm trying to talk to you again"

What to make of these texts?
post 1667375423 09-05-2022, 05:16 PM
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Do you want to fuk her more? Or never see her again?

There’s your answer.
post 1667375463 09-05-2022, 05:17 PM
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Its really hard to tell and could be approached from tons of different angles. If I HAD to guess though, I’d wager that what she’s saying is:





Lol you don't seem to get it

She’s trying to talk to you again
post 1667375723 09-05-2022, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
Do you want to fuk her more? Or never see her again?

There’s your answer.
I can't do a relationship with her but I don't mind fukin her more. We didn't end on bad terms or anything and I was the one who dumped her. Just casual meetings would be ideal

But I know she's more into looking for a serious relationship rather than something casual. Is it even worth treading down this path again and getting involved? That's why I've ignored her questions about wanting to meet
post 1667375833 09-05-2022, 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813
I can't do a relationship with her but I don't mind fukin her more. We didn't end on bad terms or anything and I was the one who dumped her. Just casual meetings would be ideal

But I know she's more into looking for a serious relationship rather than something casual. Is it even worth treading down this path again and getting involved? That's why I've ignored her questions about wanting to meet
I’d be honest then. Say you would be up to chill but you plan on dating other people too.
post 1667375843 09-05-2022, 05:24 PM
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Going NC
Hasn't blocked her number yet

Pick one
post 1667375863 09-05-2022, 05:25 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813
I can't do a relationship with her but I don't mind fukin her more. We didn't end on bad terms or anything and I was the one who dumped her. Just casual meetings would be ideal

But I know she's more into looking for a serious relationship rather than something casual. Is it even worth treading down this path again and getting involved? That's why I've ignored her questions about wanting to meet
No, you’d just end up fukking up her head more.
post 1667381383 09-05-2022, 07:15 PM
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"I dumped her and she broke NC with a call and some texts"

"She broke NC with a call and some texts"

"She broke NC"

"She"


Just fukking lmao. The only one who broke NC is you by answering her you fukking phafgit
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post 1667381583 09-05-2022, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
I’d be honest then. Say you would be up to chill but you plan on dating other people too.
I was confused about what she meant by "you don't seem to get it"

Get what?


I have to think about if I even want to get involved with her again even for casual. When I dated her, I know she was looking for a serious relationship rather than casual stuff and it seems like a lot of future headache that I'd like to avoid.
post 1667381663 09-05-2022, 07:21 PM
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She literally said what she wanted in the second text, you stupid f@gg0t. (Ded fkn Srs)
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post 1667381703 09-05-2022, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813
I was confused about what she meant by "you don't seem to get it"

Get what?


I have to think about if I even want to get involved with her again even for casual. When I dated her, I know she was looking for a serious relationship rather than casual stuff and it seems like a lot of future headache that I'd like to avoid.
Yeah, but maybe she's just looking for someone to fuk until a more permanent option comes along. I'd have the chat, you might as well smash.
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