My ex and I split a couple years ago. We still have mutual friends who we both keep in contact with and it was our friend's birthday the other night, so we all went out for dinner and drinks. I honestly hold no ill will or resentment toward her. If I did, I wouldn't have gone out with her being there. I think she can tell that I'm completely over our relationship and it bothers her. It must really hurt her ego that I got over us so quickly. We were together for 9 years and lived together for 8. When we split, I was down for about a month, then got it together and moved on, and have been happy ever since. I slept around for about a year, and now I'm just doing me and not worrying about what comes. I'm good.

Anyway, she was acting weird all night trying to joke with me and talk to me in front of everyone - basically acting like we were still together. I thought it was ****ing weird, so I was ignoring her the best I could, giving her one word answers, changing the subject, and being on my phone. After a while, I think she got frustrated with this, and somehow the subject or married life came up. She then made some comment like "I'm glad I'm not his wife anymore" or "I'm glad I don't have to deal with him anymore" - something to that effect, I'm not sure if the exact wording because I was on my phone.

Everyone kind of chuckled and she had this look like she was proud of herself, thought she had rattled off a real zinger. So in response, not even looking up from my phone, I said "you were never my wife'. The table kind of went quiet and she said what? In an almost soft tone. Then I looked up at her and said "if I wanted to marry you, I would have", and then took a sip of my wine and resumed my attention at my phone.

This was THE issue we fought about during our relationship and all our friends know this. She constantly badgered me to get married throughout our relationship and I never felt ready, mostly because she was a **** and I didn't trust her (I was right in the end). After a few seconds of silence, she got up and stormed out. I stayed at the table and my bro said I should maybe go talk to her. I said I'll give it a few minutes to cool down.

I then continued on my phone (was messaging a woman I've been seeing). I asked her what she was doing tonight and she said she wasn't doing anything and asked if I wanted to come over. I then told her to call me in a couple minutes. I finished my drink , then headed outside.

My ex was out there smoking and looking like she was crying (lol). I went and stood beside her and bathed in the silence. She was expecting me to console her. Just then, my "not yet gf" called, I picked up and made sure to turn up the call volume right away. She said "are you coming over? I could use you tonight" all sexy and flirty. I said I'd be there in 20 minutes and told her I can't wait to see her and hung up. There were cabs across the street waiting, so I walked over and tapped the window and the driver motioned for me to get in.

As the cab pulled off, I looked at my ex still standing there, and she looked right into my eyes, and I could see how hurt she was. The Masquerade was up. She was the one who still cared, not me, despite her telling our friends that she left me, that she could do better, and all kinds of other ****. As the cab rolled through the streets, I felt a calm, warm euphoria wash over me as I wondered if she went back in, and if so, what she told them.

No thx.

did not read a word. negged

How you have girlfriend of 9 year and not trust?

is not real girlfriend ?

Yeah bro, you really destroyed her so much that you had to write a novel on the misc telling us how you did it(if that's what the novel is about, didn't read a single word).

Who hurt you, bro?

Oh right, your ex. Otherwise, you wouldn't have written a fuking novel about it.

You reformatted out of the wall of text, so I'll reply.

Good on you for moving on. Most boyo's can't do that.

The way you acted was pretty petty though, even if she may have deserved it. You lowered yourself because of her. Better option would have to simply acted unphased and let her run her mouth.

Took me 5-10 minutes to write, on mobile lol, but yeah you can tell yourself whatever you want to

She did hurt me. And I hurt her. That's life. You'd know if you'd ever had a gf. Virgin.

I've been letting her run her mouth and been acting unohased for two years. I've moved on. She can't have it both ways - acting like we are close just like old times, but at the same time acting like she can do better, talking ****. Tonight she learned that. And yes, I did act petty, and I'm glad.

good for you

but 9 years ?

and why did you kept on looking att her while leaving in the taxi ?

Rejoice in lowering yourself to her level then.

Because I wanted her to know that this was all on her and that I wouldn't have done it if she'd have just let sleeping dogs lie.

Bruno brah asking the real questions here.

I do. Honestly, she probably thought she was going to charm me, and end up going home with me, and when she realized I had no interest in engaging with her, she got pissed which led her to make the comment.

9 years is a long time mane, why did it end?

This never happened

You handled the situation like a pro using few words in defense, moving on, and not looking back. Women these days act up with all kinds of entitlement and emotional outbursts. She fcked up and you let her know, and it was her decision to do it in front of all your friends/family.

lol you wasted your twenties with doe bird who you still see st diners. Plucking lol I ****ed about 100 sloots and about 100 whores during 20 to 30.


Both losers here.

OP says he destroyed his ex.

Then proceeds to detail how he has the cringeworthy revenge of a scorned and hurt 13 year old boy trying to make his ex hear him talking to someone else lmfao.

Nah bro. Your ex destroyed, and continues to destroy you.

I'm honestly nearly in tears laughing at the fact you not only think you're not the loser in this scenario, but then described it in great detail expecting people to applaud you hahahaha.

Not reading that novel, based on the replies u seem to think u "owned" your ex whilst posting a dear diary on the misc, she lives rent free in your head.

Mother ****er if you think I’m about to read that

It was worth it just for the part where she found out her vibrator batteries were flat that was LOL.

I see you acting this "new" version of what happened out with the shampoo and conditioner bottles in the shower the next morning after she probably wrecked you the whole night. The zinger you used at the table was probably stammered out and cut off by her with something devastating to you that made the whole group erupt in laughter.

no combat no care

He never said he see’s her at diners

I think I missed the part where you posted pictures...