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post 1668213533 09-21-2022, 12:35 AM
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Normally I would ignore but what to text girl after first date (srs)

First date went really great, actually haven't had that much chemistry with a girl in a while. Asked to hangout the next weekend she made up some excuse. I said ok whatever I had other plans with a backup sloot but really wanted to hangout with her. Tried to make plans for this weekend and no response in a couple of days. Feel like first date went really well and I like her enough to just ignore this and move on.

Is there a good second message to send after that? Something like I'll try one last time but do you want to hangout again if not peace out have fun in life or something. Or should I keep my dignity... pls halp brahs.
post 1668213753 09-21-2022, 12:42 AM
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Texting "Please respond" usually works for me
post 1668214203 09-21-2022, 01:06 AM
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Say "wanna hang out again or r u good"
post 1668214233 09-21-2022, 01:08 AM
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it very sad




have good date



and good connection



but girl lie




and not feel same way




it hurt head
post 1668214263 09-21-2022, 01:09 AM
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post 1668214363 09-21-2022, 01:12 AM
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On to the next my friend. If she was interested she'd make plans. Shes talking to another guy that she likes more

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post 1668214733 09-21-2022, 01:27 AM
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If she was interested you guys would still be texting
post 1668214843 09-21-2022, 01:37 AM
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Originally Posted By TheM
First date went really great, actually haven't had that much chemistry with a girl in a while. Asked to hangout the next weekend she made up some excuse. I said ok whatever I had other plans with a backup sloot but really wanted to hangout with her. Tried to make plans for this weekend and no response in a couple of days. Feel like first date went really well and I like her enough to just ignore this and move on.

Is there a good second message to send after that? Something like I'll try one last time but do you want to hangout again if not peace out have fun in life or something. Or should I keep my dignity... pls halp brahs.
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post 1668214943 09-21-2022, 01:41 AM
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You already tried and got no response. It's over bro.
post 1668215383 09-21-2022, 02:14 AM
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Don't waste a lot of time thinking about it. Just say what's up. Maybe she was busy the last few days and will respond. But if not, she's not interested.
post 1668215593 09-21-2022, 02:26 AM
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sloot went NC on OP and he came crying to misc for advice

just wtf is this place coming to
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post 1668216943 09-21-2022, 03:54 AM
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She's had your pants down OP - Made you look a right fool.

Then you've compounded it by posting it to the MISC for everyone to laugh at. Genuinely, my sides hurt.
post 1668217173 09-21-2022, 04:10 AM
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post 1668217523 09-21-2022, 04:28 AM
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Girls are welded to their phones, and if they like you you'll get a response. Move on, she's not interested. As soon as she made an excuse not to hang the following weekend it meant she wasn't into you.
post 1668217583 09-21-2022, 04:33 AM
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There's 0 chance that she's into you. Move on or you will just end up looking and feeling pathetic. Don't text her again.
post 1668218243 09-21-2022, 05:07 AM
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move on

don't waste your time begging for a girl's attention. it's simp and beta behaviour that will likely bleed out onto other interactions and she'll go NC on you eventually.

if she was interested in a second date she would have responded to your message within 24 hours. no one is so busy they can't take 2 minutes out of their day to respond to one text. can be simple as them responding they'll get back to you or sure.
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post 1668218263 09-21-2022, 05:08 AM
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lol you feel it went well

she clearly doesn't feel the same way
post 1668218733 09-21-2022, 05:26 AM
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Originally Posted By beansieweansie
On to the next my friend. If she was interested she'd make plans. Shes talking to another guy that she likes more

See knackerjacked's sig
This.

It's over OP, once a girl finds someone she perceives as a better option than you there's literally no coming back.

Had this happen to me multiple times tbh, time to move on.
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Go nc
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Text her "I was hoping to give you my letterman jacket and it would go with your poodleskirt, then maybe we can go steady"
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post 1668219303 09-21-2022, 05:48 AM
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Damn bro....you fell hard.

She either.....

-Didn't have as good a time as you and was just being nice on the date.
-Did have a great time, but you're ugly
-Did have a great time, but isn't ready for someone like you/a relationship and just wants to get railed.
-Did have a great time, but you blew it and didn't invite her back to your place to smash and she's already moved on
-Is ded
-Just wanted a free meal
-Just wanted to use you to make some other guy jealous
....the list goes on


If she was interested AT ALL....she would not have denied your invite for a 2nd hangout and would be texting you back.

Keep your dignity and move on brother.



In the best case scenario she text you in a month after she goes through a few other diks, realizes she's getting used and remembers the nice guy that she actually may have had a connection with (that's you) and she text you out of the blue to hangout, says "sorry, I've been sooo busy with blah blah blah" but she wants to hangout again.......and when she does that, you either #1 Ghost her, #2 Text back "sorry sweetheart, you missed the boat" or #3 You meet up, smash and then ghost.

Good luck.
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To clarify I did smash in car but it wasn't amazing, lack of my own place is definitely cucking me at the moment. I don't think date went badly if she let me hit it and we then talked for like 2 hours after.

That's the only reason I was hoping it could be salvageable, never been in a situation where this happens usually either things keep going well or nothing comes of it if date was bad. I'm definitely ready to go NC was just hoping there was a decently crafted text message I could use in this case for those that have had this experience and they've been able to turn it around.
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Originally Posted By TheM
To clarify I did smash in car but it wasn't amazing, lack of my own place is definitely cucking me at the moment. I don't think date went badly if she let me hit it and we then talked for like 2 hours after.

That's the only reason I was hoping it could be salvageable, never been in a situation where this happens usually either things keep going well or nothing comes of it if date was bad. I'm definitely ready to go NC was just hoping there was a decently crafted text message I could use in this case for those that have had this experience and they've been able to turn it around.
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You can't really say or do anything EXCEPT see if she comes back, that's it, she'll need to make the next move, I doubt she will so move on.
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Originally Posted By TheM
To clarify I did smash in car but it wasn't amazing, lack of my own place is definitely cucking me at the moment. I don't think date went badly if she let me hit it and we then talked for like 2 hours after.

That's the only reason I was hoping it could be salvageable, never been in a situation where this happens usually either things keep going well or nothing comes of it if date was bad. I'm definitely ready to go NC was just hoping there was a decently crafted text message I could use in this case for those that have had this experience and they've been able to turn it around.
Wait....so you had a good date, smashed in your car and now you're developing feelings for this girl?

Yikes.......I'll bet it was her first time and that she never did anything like that before......

Just forget about her bro
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It’s probably over

One more message at most just to be sure then move on

And don’t make it some emotional guilt trip kind of message, keep it light.

Like others said, it’s probably over anyway for only god knows what goes through these slooots minds
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First date didn’t “go well” if it “went well” you would have smashed and not be in this current situation
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The only way to salvage any potential for a relationship with this chick is to immediately sleep with another girl that's in her circle.

It's over, tho, for real.
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