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10-11-2022, 10:09 AM
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Misc prevent me from sending a birthday text to my ex
She ended it 4 months ago but it was on good terms.
I've been debating whether to text her on her birthday (on Friday).
Here's what I had in mind :
"Hello K, I hope you are well?
I wanted to wish a happy birthday to the most amazing young woman I know.
A woman who understood at such a young age that one of the main goals of life is not only to develop oneself and to constantly improve oneself, but also and above all to serve others and to take responsibility.
May you continue to have this opportunity for many, many years to come so that you can continue to leave your mark on this world and contribute in your own way to making it more beautiful, more just and more livable.
But above all, for the salutary effect you have on others.
You are in every way a beautiful and wonderful person.
Take care of yourself and enjoy this day and your close ones"
How cringe is it?
I've been debating whether to text her on her birthday (on Friday).
Here's what I had in mind :
"Hello K, I hope you are well?
I wanted to wish a happy birthday to the most amazing young woman I know.
A woman who understood at such a young age that one of the main goals of life is not only to develop oneself and to constantly improve oneself, but also and above all to serve others and to take responsibility.
May you continue to have this opportunity for many, many years to come so that you can continue to leave your mark on this world and contribute in your own way to making it more beautiful, more just and more livable.
But above all, for the salutary effect you have on others.
You are in every way a beautiful and wonderful person.
Take care of yourself and enjoy this day and your close ones"
How cringe is it?
10-11-2022, 10:11 AM
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10-11-2022, 10:12 AM
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A little cringe seeing she dumped you but ngl I have written novels like that to girls in the same situation
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Wish her happy birthday and see if you can spark a convo
But just make it a more normal greeting and cut out the touchy Feely etc or atleast minimize it.
Imo
Wish her happy birthday and see if you can spark a convo
But just make it a more normal greeting and cut out the touchy Feely etc or atleast minimize it.
10-11-2022, 10:13 AM
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It's extremely cringe. You're not together anymore. She's probably blowing and getting piped down by her new dude as we speak.
Do you want to get back with her? Because that's what I was getting from your post. If you don't want to get back with her, and you're legitimately on good terms and want to keep it that way, a simple "happy birthday" gets the job done. Even if you don't send her a happy birthday, I doubt she'll lose any sleep over it.
Do you want to get back with her? Because that's what I was getting from your post. If you don't want to get back with her, and you're legitimately on good terms and want to keep it that way, a simple "happy birthday" gets the job done. Even if you don't send her a happy birthday, I doubt she'll lose any sleep over it.
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10-11-2022, 10:14 AM
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lmao cringe. she'll be clowning your pathetic ass to all her friends...and the guys creampieing her on the reg
10-11-2022, 10:14 AM
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Imo send : hey k , happy birthday!!! How have you been? Reminder that time when ----- thought about you the other day
Send something simple opposed to something a grand father would send her grand daughter.. bc that's the vibe I'm getting from that msg bro
Send something simple opposed to something a grand father would send her grand daughter.. bc that's the vibe I'm getting from that msg bro
10-11-2022, 10:18 AM
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Don't do it ****g0t, she is going to receive as she wakes up from Chris her new mokeybranch dynk.
If you're lucky she'll take his dick out of her mouth when the notification pops up.
If you're lucky she'll take his dick out of her mouth when the notification pops up.
10-11-2022, 10:19 AM
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Don't ask her a question because you're opening it up for a conversation. Let her do her thing, wish her a happy birthday and be done with it. She'll probably say thank you, and that'll be the end of it.
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10-11-2022, 10:20 AM
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I have no intention of ever going back with her.
She's a wonderful person but she's crippled with deep rooted daddy issues that would make a marriage unbearable.
I could even be OK with her not responding at all.
She's a wonderful person but she's crippled with deep rooted daddy issues that would make a marriage unbearable.
I could even be OK with her not responding at all.
10-11-2022, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
So you wanted to be left unread? I bet you masturbate to cuck porn too.I have no intention of ever going back with her.
She's a wonderful person but she's crippled with deep rooted daddy issues that would make a marriage unbearable.
I could even be OK with her not responding at all.
She's a wonderful person but she's crippled with deep rooted daddy issues that would make a marriage unbearable.
I could even be OK with her not responding at all.
10-11-2022, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Then why send the message at all? You could just wish her well in your thoughts and be done with it.I could even be OK with her not responding at all.
10-11-2022, 10:28 AM
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You have blueberry **** calling YOU cringe. Let that sink in.
Shouldn’t message her anything. But especially not what you wrote.
I’ve sent my fair share of messages like that and I regret every one of them in hindsight.
I doubt there’s any stopping you tho
Shouldn’t message her anything. But especially not what you wrote.
I’ve sent my fair share of messages like that and I regret every one of them in hindsight.
I doubt there’s any stopping you tho
10-11-2022, 10:30 AM
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350 words, that’s it?
10-11-2022, 10:33 AM
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Bro do not ****ing send that
10-11-2022, 10:36 AM
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10-11-2022, 10:44 AM
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We only live once: maybe the cringe I will feel months down the line will prevent me from ever reaching out to her, out of shame.
I still have 3 days to think about it though.
Why can't people stay on good terms when there is no bad blood?
I still have 3 days to think about it though.
Why can't people stay on good terms when there is no bad blood?
10-11-2022, 10:50 AM
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couldn't get past the first sentence before i cringed so hard i didn't bother reading the rest. That's pretty much the exact same reaction she will have.
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10-11-2022, 10:51 AM
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it might be better just to say "hello k, i hope you are well. happy birthday -miscer"
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10-11-2022, 11:01 AM
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Every girl who has texted "hello, how are you doing?" ended with sex within 48 hours. Just say "I miss your pussy", because thats how it will be received.
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10-11-2022, 11:04 AM
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Didn't even read the post.
Could tell from the title what a pathetic, soy, beta thing sending an ex a birthday text would be.
Could tell from the title what a pathetic, soy, beta thing sending an ex a birthday text would be.
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10-11-2022, 11:15 AM
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You're such a fukn loser op. Tempted to neg because I know this isn't a troll post because it's you of all people.
No wonder she left you. It's because of your stupid insincere embellishment. You are so desperate you turn into some Romeo character because you think those fake words are the way to a woman's heart. Meanwhile she left for an actual man who just treats her like a normal person.
Stop being such a gigantic pussy. Also, update your real Timmy avatar because there's no way a dude who looks like Tyrone can be such a lil bitch.
Cheers.
No wonder she left you. It's because of your stupid insincere embellishment. You are so desperate you turn into some Romeo character because you think those fake words are the way to a woman's heart. Meanwhile she left for an actual man who just treats her like a normal person.
Stop being such a gigantic pussy. Also, update your real Timmy avatar because there's no way a dude who looks like Tyrone can be such a lil bitch.
Cheers.
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10-11-2022, 11:16 AM
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Ex means ex, know that.
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10-11-2022, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
I doubt he's playing a character for 8 years now. Dude has always been like this. He never learns.jesus christ
even knowing OPie's trolling, reading that legit made me mad lmao
you win this round, fgt
even knowing OPie's trolling, reading that legit made me mad lmao
you win this round, fgt
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10-11-2022, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Coal
Is it a crime to love ?I doubt he's playing a character for 8 years now. Dude has always been like this. He never learns.
She is gone, I have absolutely nothing to lose. This is a selfless messagz.
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