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post 1670392503 10-31-2022, 02:40 PM
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What to do inbetween time she says yes and to the date?

It's Monday, you ask her out, she says yes, you schedule for Saturday. What do you do inbetween that timeframe?

Last time I just sent 1 or 2 lines per day and then got ghosted on the day of. Oof.
post 1670392613 10-31-2022, 02:43 PM
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Match her energy dude

Texting her will work in your favor
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post 1670392693 10-31-2022, 02:43 PM
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Basically this:

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post 1670392703 10-31-2022, 02:44 PM
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Ya don't do chit. Wait for the date. Don't cuck yourself.
post 1670392743 10-31-2022, 02:44 PM
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Jack off till ur dik falls off so you wont come on too strong during the date
post 1670392803 10-31-2022, 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx
Match her energy dude

Texting her will work in your favor
Thing is once you get past the pleasantries there's nothing to talk about. I need to see them in person.
post 1670393183 10-31-2022, 02:51 PM
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Jerk off before the date and cum on your ear without noticing, then when you meet her she'll use it as hair gel.
post 1670393793 10-31-2022, 03:00 PM
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Every person is different but I can tell you what works for me. If it’s only a few days away from your date from the time she accepted, then I’d want to get to know her a little better beforehand. That way, it doesn’t make the date more awkward when you finally meet. I’d start asking her the basics…if she’s a good, Christian woman or if she’s a virgin and whether she’s a liberal or a conservative. Also if she believes in abortion. That way you kind of know what to expect and what topics to avoid during the date.

If she doesn’t really give you clear answers, I’d definitely pry a little harder because there’s no way I’m meeting a stranger without AT LEAST knowing what kind of person they are. In my experience, if they say they are liberal, I usually tell her that I’m going to pound the liberal out of her after some rough doggy and that I’ll have her wearing a MAGA cap by the morning. It’s just playful, but slightly sexual banter…nothing too far. Don’t over do it.

Let us know how it goes OP. Good luck!
post 1670393853 10-31-2022, 03:02 PM
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say hi on thursday to confirm.


unless she starts trying to talk to you in between. then just go with it.

like brah said. match her energy.
post 1670393943 10-31-2022, 03:03 PM
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Date other girls during the week
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post 1670394323 10-31-2022, 03:12 PM
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Originally Posted By GaryRidgway
Date other girls during the week
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post 1670394413 10-31-2022, 03:15 PM
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post 1670394513 10-31-2022, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted By saltypits
Jerk off before the date and cum on your ear without noticing, then when you meet her she'll use it as hair gel.
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post 1670394613 10-31-2022, 03:20 PM
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If she wants to go out with you she will, if shes having doubts, then she wont go regardless of what you do, so its pointless to try to make everything perfect in order for her to go out with you.


Id just send her a meme or something saying "on saturday lol", some meme about a date or something, just something random so you can indirectly reconfirm the date. But listen its 2022, if she ghosts you so be it.

I remember one day a girl flaking on me half an hour before the date, she said some bull**** about her friends visiting her from out of town and she had to go out with them. I thought it was bull**** but i played it cool and told her that i was going to the beach the next day for the weekend and if she wanted she could bring her friends. Well surpringly she did bring her friends to the beach, i was with my friends, so we were 3 girls and 3 guys and i honestly had one of the best weekends of my life. Kept fuking that chick for about 2 years too, really hot 20 year old babe.

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post 1670394633 10-31-2022, 03:20 PM
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Don't keep the baggage of getting ghosted last time

Just follow up with her a little through the week

Just a little how's your night type stuff here and there nothing drastic
post 1670394673 10-31-2022, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
If she wants to go out with you she will, if shes having doubts, then she wont go regardless of what you do, so its pointless to try to make everything perfect in order for her to go out with you.


Id just send her a meme or something saying "on saturday lol", some meme about a date or something, just something random so you can indirectly reconfirm the date. But listen its 2022, if she ghosts you so be it.

I remember one day a girl flaking on me half an hour before the date, she said some bull**** about her friends visiting her from out of town and she had to go out with them. I thought it was bull**** but i played it cool and told her that i was going to the beach the next day for the weekend and if she wanted she could bring her friends. Well surpringly she did bring her friends to the beach, i was with my friends, so we were 3 girls and 3 guys and i honestly had one of the best weekends of my life. Kept fuking that chick for about 2 years too, really hot 20 year old babe.

This story has nothing to do with your OP i know, im just sharing a story kind of bragging too lol.
What happened after the 2 years
post 1670394953 10-31-2022, 03:28 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy
What happened after the 2 years
She's still on university, had classes on other state so i would only see her on holidays. Havent seen her since february
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post 1670395313 10-31-2022, 03:35 PM
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setting a saturday date on a monday either you are an idiot for not doing a closer date or waiting to ask her out until closer to saturday OR
you will be fine if you are VERY desirable to her

if you arent super HVM to her, then 95% chance she cancels by saturday morning.
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post 1670395373 10-31-2022, 03:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah
setting a saturday date on a monday either you are an idiot for not doing a closer date or waiting to ask her out until closer to saturday OR
you will be fine if you are VERY desirable to her

if you arent super HVM to her, then 95% chance she cancels by saturday morning.
Should have set it the day before
post 1670395803 10-31-2022, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah
setting a saturday date on a monday either you are an idiot for not doing a closer date or waiting to ask her out until closer to saturday OR
you will be fine if you are VERY desirable to her

if you arent super HVM to her, then 95% chance she cancels by saturday morning.
not really
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post 1670397293 10-31-2022, 04:16 PM
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I usually like to set the date two or three days before the actual date as well. Then build up the convo and anticipation until the date. If it’s five days or more then I find the convo and energy fizzles out because you either talk too much and ruin the mystery or you don’t talk enough and there’s less connection for the date. That’s just me though and I’m awkward

However, I have hit up a girl one month later out of the blue after never getting together and we hit it off pretty well once I asked her out again
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