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post 1670632893 11-04-2022, 12:05 PM
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Is NC the Greatest Misc Lesson, Philosophy, and Mindset?

Despite all the hatred, misogyny, racism, inceldom, misinformation, politics, shaming, ect that happens here, people get support when they make a genuine effort hoping for improvement or advice.

That being said, NC is the most powerful tool you can carry not just in regards to people, but the mindset itself might be the miscs greatest life lesson.

It might even be superior to Sloots gonna sloot

Any greater misc lessons?
post 1670636003 11-04-2022, 12:58 PM
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Right. Been here since 2015 and NC is by far the best philosophical lesson to come out of this message board.
post 1670636263 11-04-2022, 01:04 PM
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It's alright. If you abuse it, it's the fastest way to end up a loner ****. I find it much better to just be chill and not burn bridges, while keeping interactions to a minimum.
post 1670636293 11-04-2022, 01:04 PM
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It's pretty based. A lot of miscers don't understand it fully as I see a lot of posts asking "how long" should they go NC or "will going NC bring her back."

Need a thread of compilations of successful NC stories.
post 1670636493 11-04-2022, 01:08 PM
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No way to do a study about this but i legit think NO CONTACT increases your testosterone by defaulting you to having huge and unshaou jkable frame first by trying or faking it , next you just do it cause you are THAT guy . Your whole approach to little or big things changes , so naturally nature gifts you more testosterone srs
post 1670642153 11-04-2022, 03:08 PM
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I say sloots gon sloot but NC is up there
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post 1670642253 11-04-2022, 03:09 PM
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I do it because 95% of people are annoying and 99% of girls are so after u bang no need to talk or keep around
post 1670642573 11-04-2022, 03:15 PM
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NC is the crowning achievement of Misc wisdom
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post 1670643603 11-04-2022, 03:32 PM
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Agree on this. Not just for sloots, but in your personal life.

A recent NC story:

- I NC'd a couple of friends (not super close) a few years ago.
- Long story short, they blamed me for something that was really petty and also not my fault (we each had to pay ~$1.5k for something that was damaged when we were renting it, they blamed me for not renting from somewhere where we wouldn't have to pay if we damaged since I'm the one who arranged for the rental (there is no such place)).
- They were also generally toxic dudes (e.g., there would be something on the news that someone is missing, and they would be like "I hope he is ded, dude looks like a flaggot").
- I decided I had enough of them bringing up my "fukk up" every other time we hung out, and decided my time invested in that friendship was better spent in investing in other friendships
- Went NC on them
- When they have reached out to me directly I will still politely answer questions etc., but I will politely decline invitations to hang out and never initiate any conversation or anything else
- Its a nice feeling - feelings I had of resentment or being hurt just kind of disappeared and it is a true IDGAF feeling now
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post 1670644133 11-04-2022, 03:40 PM
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Ignoring certain people is one of the most basic power moves, but on the misc it's the "greatest lesson".
post 1670644493 11-04-2022, 03:48 PM
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Originally Posted By knightbefree
Ignoring certain people is one of the most basic power moves, but on the misc it's the "greatest lesson".
Its more than just ignoring ppl. Its a mindset of letting things go. Not trying to get revenge. Not trying to fix something that is broken or invest further sunken costs into something that is broken.

Reminds me of this song - when you aren't needed or wanted anymore, there is little to nothing you can do about it. Just accept it and move on, and don't be bitter - that's life.

mo e
post 1670644773 11-04-2022, 03:52 PM
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needed this thread
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post 1670645013 11-04-2022, 03:57 PM
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yes tbh srs
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post 1670645033 11-04-2022, 03:57 PM
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sometimes it backfires. and you lose your girl for good. and then 30 years later you regret it.
post 1670645553 11-04-2022, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX
sometimes it backfires. and you lose your girl for good. and then 30 years later you regret it.
lol NC is not supposed to be a game ppl play in dating. You go NC and commit to it and move on, not try and bluff the girl into capitulating to whatever dumb issue you have. In other words, it doesn't really backfire if you are doing it correctly. If you aren't prepared to "lose the girl for good," then you shouldn't go NC.
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post 1670645623 11-04-2022, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted By mulletwarrior
lol NC is not supposed to be a game ppl play in dating. You go NC and commit to it and move on, not try and bluff the girl into capitulating to whatever dumb issue you have. In other words, it doesn't really backfire if you are doing it correctly. If you aren't prepared to "lose the girl for good," then you shouldn't go NC.
This is just a warning to all the young Gs out there. So take these words of advice. And remember, you heard them from a poor sinner, got no more cause to lie.
post 1670645653 11-04-2022, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted By CoolKnees
It's alright. If you abuse it, it's the fastest way to end up a loner ****. I find it much better to just be chill and not burn bridges, while keeping interactions to a minimum.
Originally Posted By tripod29
It's pretty based. A lot of miscers don't understand it fully as I see a lot of posts asking "how long" should they go NC or "will going NC bring her back."

Need a thread of compilations of successful NC stories.
True and true.

Gotta know when NC is warranted.





MY top three Misc Lessons:

1. Sloots Gonna Sloot

2. NC

3. It's lower than you think
post 1670645693 11-04-2022, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX
This is just a warning to all the young Gs out there. So take these words of advice. And remember, you heard them from a poor sinner, got no more cause to lie.
Did you go NC on your air fryer? Been a while since we got an update.....
mo e
post 1670657003 11-04-2022, 08:22 PM
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I knew about nc ever since I was aware of myself. It wasn’t something that I learned here..

Surely we knew about how this worked prior to the misc?
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