Thread: Asked my gym crush out srs
11-18-2022, 11:19 AM
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Asked my gym crush out srs
She said she couldn’t because she had her kid. I asked for her number, she gave me her business card. Texted 72 hours later, asked if she wanted to go out. She said she was busy that night. Said ok and deleted number.
11-18-2022, 11:20 AM
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11-18-2022, 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
BrutalShe said she couldn’t because she had her kid. I asked for her number, she gave me her business card. Texted 72 hours later, asked if she wanted to go out. She said she was busy that night. Said ok and deleted number.
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11-18-2022, 11:27 AM
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Oh well, at least you tried
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11-18-2022, 11:30 AM
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Sounds like you've got the autism
11-18-2022, 11:30 AM
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11-18-2022, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted By carcano69⏩
Nah. Just go and say hi in passing, don't act butthurt and all will be fine.you might have to change the hours you go now/change gyms
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11-18-2022, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Evolutionary1⏩
Why? He got digits, shot his shot, deleted the number after a blow-off. That's what you should do. And lol at the real autists thinking the 72 hours made the difference.Sounds like you've got the autism
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What HE say brah?
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It's alright bruh.
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11-18-2022, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By GrandpaFeathers⏩
Lol'd at "I'd love to take you out sometime when you're less busy!"I hope you weren’t petty. It sounds like she’s either concerned about hurting your feelings with rejection, or she really is busy and doesn’t feel up to casual dating. Small chance she’s being completely honest.
Only difference I would have done would take place after the last message she sent. I’d say “Ii get it. ’d love to take you out when your schedule opens up. Is that something you’d be up for?”
If she’s undecided I’d say “had to take a swing, but I totally understand you’re focusing on other things- see ya around!”
Then every time you see her in the gym, give her a head not or a polite “hey Sammy!” Or whatever her name is. I would never try to force a conversation again but I’d be polite if she tried.
A lot of women have bad experiences with rejection. My gf of 3 yrs rejected me at first. She has always said that I was so graceful in defeat, it made her interested in learning more about how I operate in life. She asked me out like 3 weeks later.
Bagging women is a numbers game. Gotta put yourself out there by casting a wide net, and don’t destroy that net if it doesn’t catch anything.
Only difference I would have done would take place after the last message she sent. I’d say “Ii get it. ’d love to take you out when your schedule opens up. Is that something you’d be up for?”
If she’s undecided I’d say “had to take a swing, but I totally understand you’re focusing on other things- see ya around!”
Then every time you see her in the gym, give her a head not or a polite “hey Sammy!” Or whatever her name is. I would never try to force a conversation again but I’d be polite if she tried.
A lot of women have bad experiences with rejection. My gf of 3 yrs rejected me at first. She has always said that I was so graceful in defeat, it made her interested in learning more about how I operate in life. She asked me out like 3 weeks later.
Bagging women is a numbers game. Gotta put yourself out there by casting a wide net, and don’t destroy that net if it doesn’t catch anything.
The 50s are over brah, that type of chivalry won't get him any points. She made it clear she's not interested. How he handled it was fine.
11-18-2022, 11:47 AM
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Op has the worst luck with **** like this. Smh
Trying talking to her a bit via text, she may get comfortable then come around more.
Trying talking to her a bit via text, she may get comfortable then come around more.
11-18-2022, 11:48 AM
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lol @ texting 72 hours later
what PUA are you listening to?
what PUA are you listening to?
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11-18-2022, 12:02 PM
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Did you offer to provide for her child yet? Maybe try one more time leading with buying them something
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
None but I’ve texted right away plenty of times with the same results. Next time I’ll text right away. Then the next one I’ll wait 48 or something and report backlol @ texting 72 hours later
what PUA are you listening to?
what PUA are you listening to?
11-18-2022, 12:07 PM
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It's weird out there now girls have been conditioned the past 20 years not to like the buff alpha male they want the twinks even though they go to the gym. It was completely the opposite in the 90s and early 2000s by the way
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Trial and Error...IF at first you don't succeed..
11-18-2022, 12:14 PM
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Originally Posted By PantyPirate⏩
cuz most people are big/fat. seeing skinny/thin dudes is rare. if you are 6'+ lanklet you will be swimming in pussy on dating appsIt's weird out there now girls have been conditioned the past 20 years not to like the buff alpha male they want the twinks even though they go to the gym. It was completely the opposite in the 90s and early 2000s by the way
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Nah. Just go and say hi in passing, don't act butthurt and all will be fine.
Originally Posted By CuttyUnderleaf⏩
Don't listen to these sloots. Print out a ninja pic of her..jizz on it and text her the pic back. This gets them on board 60% of the time all the time. If not...SHE'LL switch gyms at the very least.Op has the worst luck with **** like this. Smh
Trying talking to her a bit via text, she may get comfortable then come around more.
Trying talking to her a bit via text, she may get comfortable then come around more.
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11-18-2022, 12:30 PM
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