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post 1674200103 01-05-2023, 04:21 PM
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Why do girls never respond on tinder?

why tf even match with me then bish

apparently a lot of women like to see how many matches they can get and swipe right on everyone. strong everything

why they gotta waste my time with this chit
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post 1674200193 01-05-2023, 04:22 PM
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If you were badboy03 they’d message you first
post 1674200203 01-05-2023, 04:22 PM
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They probably didn't even read your message because they get so many. I almost never message sloots first.
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post 1674200443 01-05-2023, 04:30 PM
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Gotta go to Hinge, brah (srs).
Originally Posted By GaryRidgway⏩
They probably didn't even read your message because they get so many. I almost never message sloots first.
Also this.
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post 1674200453 01-05-2023, 04:30 PM
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you have to follow and message them on instagram brah, they dont like writing on tinder, its too complicated
post 1674200583 01-05-2023, 04:32 PM
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I created a fake female profile on tinder once and my god

got like 100 messages within minutes

the online dating game is hilariously rigged af

trust me its not even worth initiating contact unless they do it first

sloots gon sloot.
post 1674201373 01-05-2023, 04:47 PM
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I've matched with sloots I know IRL, get ghosted, see in real life days later and bang. Most girls use tinder as a way to guage what league they are in, or an attention stimulant.

Get number and get off app chat as fast as possible.
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post 1674201493 01-05-2023, 04:50 PM
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i think tinder employs people to be fake profiles srs
post 1674201573 01-05-2023, 04:51 PM
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They will reply if you sub to there OF
post 1674201583 01-05-2023, 04:51 PM
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I don’t have that issue. Your picture sucks. Girls will literally message you first ded fkn srs
post 1674201703 01-05-2023, 04:55 PM
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to be fair I used to just swipe right and filter out later, wouldn't respond unless she was hot. Would lol@some of the chicks who thought they had a chance with me, like I'm fit, have a great career, and have a mathematics/actuarial science degree, why the fuk would I be interested in your uneducated fat fuk ass. Probs how they feel about you op, sorry
post 1674201713 01-05-2023, 04:55 PM
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I'm not on Tinder, but occasionally peruse some other online dating shyt. I occasionally match/get messaged by sloots, and generally end up ignoring...or quit responding when that happens.

I don't even a tiny fraction of the attention/messages/etc. that an ugly woman gets...let alone an average or hot one. Think about how many options they have blowing up their inbox.
post 1674202193 01-05-2023, 05:05 PM
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Because 90% of them are only on it for attention or will only meet chad due to high competition. Not even that any half decent looking bird can get like 50-100 messages a day easily.

I’ve said this before, matches literally mean fuk all on tinder.

I had over 1k matches after a year in it with gold, probably only 30% responded, maybe 5% messaged first.

Even after getting there number or snap and agreeing to meet, 95% eventually ghost.

So after 1k matches, getting maybe 15-20 numbers I was only able to meet 3 sloots IRL (srs).

If they’re not down on meeting up it‘s pointless .
post 1674202533 01-05-2023, 05:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Because 90% of them are only on it for attention or will only meet chad due to high competition. Not even that any half decent looking bird can get like 50-100 messages a day easily.

I’ve said this before, matches literally mean fuk all on tinder.

I had over 1k matches after a year in it with gold, probably only 30% responded, maybe 5% messaged first.

Even after getting there number or snap and agreeing to meet, 95% eventually ghost.

So after 1k matches, getting maybe 15-20 numbers I was only able to meet 3 sloots IRL (srs).

If they’re not down on meeting up it‘s pointless .
It's tinder gold worth it?
post 1674202573 01-05-2023, 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Because 90% of them are only on it for attention or will only meet chad due to high competition. Not even that any half decent looking bird can get like 50-100 messages a day easily.

I’ve said this before, matches literally mean fuk all on tinder.

I had over 1k matches after a year in it with gold, probably only 30% responded, maybe 5% messaged first.

Even after getting there number or snap and agreeing to meet, 95% eventually ghost.

So after 1k matches, getting maybe 15-20 numbers I was only able to meet 3 sloots IRL (srs).

If they’re not down on meeting up it‘s pointless .
So we're basically fked is what your saying ?
post 1674202593 01-05-2023, 05:15 PM
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It's all bots mans or straight whores telling you to sub to their OF profile.

But just send them:

post 1674202713 01-05-2023, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
It's tinder gold worth it?
For getting matches yeah as you can use boost so you get seen more.

However when it comes meeting and smashing girls IRL that’s a whole different story.

Overall I’d say no unless you’re a chad.
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you need a good opener, register to some PUA forums for ideas. Try this one:

'Oh my god'

Just message that, it will pique her interest and she will say what? However many hours it took her to reply, you must double them before you reply back to her. Obey this rule and you will subconsciously break her down into meeting you.
post 1674203203 01-05-2023, 05:28 PM
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Originally Posted By OneLegSquats⏩
you need a good opener, register to some PUA forums for ideas. Try this one:

'Oh my god'

Just message that, it will pique her interest and she will say what? However many hours it took her to reply, you must double them before you reply back to her. Obey this rule and you will subconsciously break her down into meeting you.
lmao.
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Originally Posted By OneLegSquats⏩
you need a good opener, register to some PUA forums for ideas. Try this one:

'Oh my god'

Just message that, it will pique her interest and she will say what? However many hours it took her to reply, you must double them before you reply back to her. Obey this rule and you will subconsciously break her down into meeting you.
will try this out thanks
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post 1674203503 01-05-2023, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Goodguy03⏩
will try this out thanks
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You must have at least one pic of you and a dog too. Preferably outside with branded clothing on. Make sure teeth are white with a fresh hair cut. At least 2 pics of you doing outdoor activities too. If you don't do any you can photoshop your face to a generic climbing/hiking pic etc.
post 1674203653 01-05-2023, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted By OneLegSquats⏩
you need a good opener, register to some PUA forums for ideas. Try this one:

'Oh my god'

Just message that, it will pique her interest and she will say what? However many hours it took her to reply, you must double them before you reply back to her. Obey this rule and you will subconsciously break her down into meeting you.
Lol at this cope.

‘Game’ is irrelevant ESPECIALLY on online dating as a girl can only judge your photos, it all comes down to looks/how attractive they find your pics.

If they’re really interested they’ll meet up regardless of if you just say hi.

Aslong as you don’t send dick pics or say something grossly offensive it doesn’t matter what you say.
post 1674203743 01-05-2023, 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Lol at this cope.

‘Game’ is irrelevant ESPECIALLY on online dating as a girl can only judge your photos, it all comes down to looks/how attractive they find your pics.

If they’re really interested they’ll meet up regardless of if you just say hi.

Aslong as you don’t send dick pics or say something grossly offensive it doesn’t matter what you say.
That's cope for laziness and a way to deny responsibility for your own self improvement.
'Getting a career is all about who you know not what you know, if the employer doesn't know you you will never get the job'. Pure laziness and admitting defeat without even entering the race
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet⏩
Lol at this cope.

‘Game’ is irrelevant ESPECIALLY on online dating as a girl can only judge your photos, it all comes down to looks/how attractive they find your pics.

If they’re really interested they’ll meet up regardless of if you just say hi.

Aslong as you don’t send dick pics or say something grossly offensive it doesn’t matter what you say.
Agreed, maybe a pick up line works drunk at a bar, but no chick is gonna date you're ugly ass just because said something funnier than the other hundreds of ugly dudes berating her for attention.
Dick pics and anything sexual is a bad idea, bro they can fuk anyone and they know it. Wearing a hat in pics is bad too because it implies that you're bald lol
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46⏩
Agreed, maybe a pick up line works drunk at a bar, but no chick is gonna date you're ugly ass just because said something funnier than the other hundreds of ugly dudes berating her for attention.
Dick pics and anything sexual is a bad idea, bro they can fuk anyone and they know it. Wearing a hat in pics is bad too because it implies that you're bald lol
There's hundreds of guys messaging her a pickup line they found on google, actually maybe from the same forum that OneLeggedSquats sent

The whole thing is cringey when you think about it

Doing all this jesterring for a girl you wouldn't even look at twice irl
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
There's hundreds of guys messaging her a pickup line they found on google, actually maybe from the same forum that OneLeggedSquats sent

The whole thing is cringey when you think about it

Doing all this jesterring for a girl you wouldn't even look at twice irl
Yeah true bro

Half those girls would be nothing with out all those BS apps

Wouldn't even be worth a double take
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It's been proven a majority of users on Tinder are male (legit 80%) and only a small percentage of the female profiles are NOT bots, and an even smaller percentage are there to meet anyone. Most legit females on Tinder polled have said there are just there for attention and to waste time.

Also keep in mind Tinder is an old app now, so anyone and everyone going on that chit is obviously just looking to get laid. Like those guys who get Fresh to Death (tm) before hitting up the club; everyone knows you're there hoping to find a girl. Women know they have all the leverage and use that to toy with you anyways. Plenty of women in the dating scene are narcissistic as fuk and are mostly there to game men and humiliate them; a lot of women will get dressed up and dolled up just to reject a guy and friendzone him.
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Originally Posted By LDARidonot⏩
It only gets worse the older you get. I don't think theres any combination of pics, fun, nature, haircut that would get tinder to deliver a positive result.

It worked about 9 years ago. the app hardly works now for probably most people.
How old r u ?

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