Currently in a shaky relationship. Fights are frequent... partner nitpicks at small issues (which she says I'm gaslighting her by telling her it's a small issue and not a big deal). She frequently has an attitude (but is getting better). Basically... not that agreeable and cooperative girlfriend material all the guru's say you should end up with. Not deeply in love. I can see myself marrying and having kids with her, but I'm not madly deeply in love with her. I'm currently seeing two therapists for my issues (I take things too personal and can't see things from others' perspectives... why would I if I think your concern is dumb??).


Pros:
- goes to the gym and is fit
- takes care of herself
- nice legs/feet
- tall
- 7.75/10
- educated
- wouldn't wilt in a relationship/marriage
- similar interests
- life skills in cooking and cleaning
- probably has a higher sex drive than me and can go much longer than me
- emotionally intelligent
- has tried hard to be the girlfriend I need her to be

Cons:
- 31 years old
- we have different humor
- "outspoken"
- not very submissive
- got offended that I asked her to twerk for me and when I randomly grab her ass in the house (it's not often... done this like once in 3 months)
- fights over small things
- only promises one kid and the rest would be surrogate when I want 3 kids at least


Whoremaxxx:

Pros:
- no relationship BS and arguments
- can travel and do things I want without consulting anyone
- feel good about having sex with lots of women
- the thrill of the chase
- multiple FWB's
- can settle down when im 40 with a younger woman
- just starting life... finally make a lot of money. think 300k+

Cons:
- feel like a degenerate trash looking at old text messages of hookups
- hookups are not high quality... very rare I think I'd find someone as attractive as current GF

pics of her feet

Sounds like the Saving Silverman movie situation.

You're already having issues before marriage and you're still thinking about it?

Forget it. Break up and cut bait and you can find another girl that you are more compatible with, especially if you continue to work on the issues you know you have.

Ask if she would be open to inviting one of her friends into the relationship.

Inb4 her friend's name is Bill.

Are you seeing the therapists to work on yourself??

Why would she get pissed that you randomly grab her ass? I grab my gf ass and tits all the time and she doesn’t care

because she's a feminists and finds it degrading. aka op needs to run away

sounds like you have a bad case of "the grass is greener on the other side".

I could't imaging being single and dating in this market.

I think you would bang 1 or 2 girls then proceed to feel empty while loathing on the fact you gave up something better... and meaningful.

Yes, I have issues I think with keeping my emotions in and letting things boil when they reach a breaking point (still I'm not yelling at the top of my lungs or anything, more so passive aggressive stuff). I also might be autistic or ADHD so tells me I don't things so she has to constantly repeat herself. I "lack common sense". My ex gf also said similar things


...

added another con that we disagree on the number of kids we want. and I somewhat agree with her. I like the idea of having a bigger family but I know I'm lazy and like having my own time and things, but realistically, u dont know how even raising 1 kid would be like.

I did feel emptiness. I'd rather have a gf, meet her parents, be ingrained into each others life, and build something together

When I was single, being in a relationship, having someone during the holidays and valentines day was all I wanted and could think about

granted, I'm not THAT sexual to begin with. it's not something I am doing every day of the week... nor week...

she says she feels sexualized/objecified and asked "hmm... how would u feel if I just randomly touched and grabbed ur balls"

this. Hate those slootsThat’s what any man wants. Bush sounds lame AF

Stay with her for the meantime but look for an upgrade on the side, I’m srs. Once you And the upragde girl are cool then dump this bish

pics of feet pls. and yes whoremaxxing worth it.

Got yourself about 5 mins OP