Anyone ever been in a long distance relationship fir whatever reason? If so explain what happened,

How long do u expect eachother to be faithful?

Ex.

You leave your girl/wife back home because you found good paying work that elsewhere but can't take her yet, what's realistic as far as she being faithful ? How many years ?

Well ???

When you arent there multiple times/week, giving them the attention they so badly crave, even the attention from an average at best guy in her vicinity consistently will be impossible for her to resist.

If you’ve known each other for a long time, and the situation is temporary (light at the end of the tunnel, MAX 2-3 months), AND you can see each other consistently (every 1-2 weeks), then it’s possible. If those criteria are not met, guaranteed there will soon be something poking the end of her tunnel.

Sloots will sloot, it is just a matter of time.

Long story short.....Back in 2014 gf and I had been together for 4.5 years at that point, met and started dating in Georgia, moved to Kansas City together after being together for a year

-Lived together for 2.5 years.
-She decides she wants to move back to GA to get her Masters (went to SCAD)
-I didn't want to move back yet, job was too good.
-She moves, I stay and "we'd see each other every 4-6 weeks" until we figure out the next move.
-I felt a relief and sense of freedom and loved it
-She was hanging out with a new group of people and getting real "friendly" with one of the guys
-I was hanging out with a different group than our normal one in KC and 2 of the girls knew gf was 1200 miles away and were getting real "friendly"
-Saw where everything was going, was glad to be on my own and I knew I was going to stray
-Lasted about 4 weeks...I broke up with her over the phone.
-She "is completely blindsided"....yea ok.
-Haven't talked to her since I hung up the phone in 2014

We were on rocky ground before she left anyway, she just refused to see it......the only reason it probably lasted as long as it did was b/c we lived together. We had been growing apart pretty much since we got together.

long distance will never work

she has needs you have needs. If neither of you are willing to sacrifice... either to stay or to leave, then maybe you don't care about each other as much as you thought.

OP is a tier 1 retard but to anyone else reading...

It's called being homosexual op

Forget that mexican girl OP, let her recover from the beat downs you gave her

Long-distance relationships are not real relationships. They're bullchit, and you're a complete fool if you make it past your early 20's and still actually believe in that crap. Even military families can't stay loyal to each other for chit when they're dealing with years long deployments. End of story.

2019-2020 before 'rona my gf visited me each weekend. best year of my life. srs

Long distance relationship? I think you mean open relationship OP...

Tried it I was playing a lot of league of legends so couldn't text back for 30-45 min and she was getting pissy so it didn't work

imo, you're being optimistic to think sloots these days could go 2 or 3 months of "LDR" mode without cheating. Half the zoomer and millennial chicks I know can't go one fukkkking work day without getting overly flirty towards a male coworker or three when their bf/husband isn't right by their side to make them not do it.

Yet we got these dudes who are so desperate, they wanna go as far as to hope a sloot can resist straying for *months* or longer? It's like these guys have never been around women much in general. Even a hugless virgin dude who has never so much as held hands with a woman before can figure out that the concept of LDR's is laughable just by observing how women act in workplaces and such.

There was a couple at my job who divorced a couple years ago. They met at work and everything, but worked different areas, so there was some amount of seperation in that sense. However, it was the opposite of an LDR. The guy took all the heat and blame for the divorce because she apparently caught him cheating on her. That might have happened, and he was a POS if that's true, and I can believe it happened tbh. Thing is, the broad worked directly in my work group during that time, and I can tell you she was CONSTANTLY flirting with other men the entire time she worked there - before she met the husband, when they were dating, and during the entire ~2 year marriage. I guarantee she legit fooled around some too, but even if she didn't, she crossed a metric chit ton of boundaries on the guy at a minimum.

So, she was hardly innocent herself. Everyone cracked jokes about how she needed constant attention and validation from guys even as a married woman, and laughed when her hubsand would call our office all worried about what she was up to (it turned into a complete chit show, which is extremely common when workplace relationships break down), because we all knew she was acting slootier than any of us would have considered okay if it were happening to us. Yet the dude took all the heat for their breakup even though she slooted just as much, or more than he did. Last, but not least, she started having "wine nights, heehee!" with a bitter 40 year old sloot at the office who is well known to purposelly try to sabotage other peoples' relationships/marriages, and they remain good pals to this day, becoming more bitter and jaded with each passing year.

But yeah, go ahead and try an LDR, OP. I'm sure you'll be among the 0.3% of cases where it truly works out with zero infidelity from either of you.

Brutal AF
I guess it ain't the old days no more

LDR never work.

Why would you waste your time when there's tons of local women and one of them might be an even better match?

The only way I would even attempt it is if a relationship was already well established and it was short term. Otherwise if you're really committed one of you bites the bullet and moves so that the other one can get a better job, go to school, etc. When I was engaged and my girl got offered a really good job in another city, I moved with her and found a job there.

Have had two and neither worked out of course. One she cheated and the other we just went in different directions and grew apart because we weren't in the same place.

There ya have it, OP. Even when one partner is willing to sacrifice to make a relationship work, the ol' "sloots gonna sloot" line usually ends up holding true at some point or another. Your risk of ending up dealing with sloot behavior is bad enough by default, no need to add an extra layer of risk onto it.

Besides that, how would an LDR be worth it even if she were loyal to you? It's a fast lane ticket (and often a one-way ticket to failure, at that) to being asked to put up with all of the bullchit of dealing with a woman/relationship, minus the positives. Why waste your time on a sloot who can't even be bothered to have a real relationship with you in terms of proximity when there are endless local women who would be just as good as she is if you could just take the blinders off for a bit to see it? Piss on that LDR bs man, that's just code for the woman being in an open relationship while the guy bs's himself into believing otherwise.

lmao my brother blew over 200k on BOTH of his ****ggot kids going to that school. Now they both live in Brooklyn in some chithole working chit jobs

Pretty desperate when theres a million other chicks nearby...