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post 1677557933 02-19-2023, 08:36 PM
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Married brahs…gtfih

How long long did it take before you proposed to your wife?

When did youknow? Was it something you saw in her or was it external pressures (her asking, family asking, etc)?
post 1677558053 02-19-2023, 08:38 PM
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Most marriages dont work out.

She will cheat on you and your kid wont actually be your kid.

Go NC immediately.

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post 1677558103 02-19-2023, 08:39 PM
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i usually wait for an ultimatum to make sure she really loves me and has no ulterior motives
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post 1677558303 02-19-2023, 08:42 PM
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Just over two years.

I *knew* when she took me on a weird date: it was freezing in rural Germany, and she brought blankets and a thermos of tea. She laid the blankets there and we watched my first ever 'shooting star' shower, and she said the game was to make wishes on those shooting stars for the things we most want in the world.

Something happened then, I don't know how to explain. I felt something align, in me, with the world around me. And that was that. It's ineffable, but I tried to explain the moment as best I could.

I never thought I'd get married until I met her, srs - I was 31.
post 1677558323 02-19-2023, 08:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
i usually wait for an ultimatum to make sure she really loves me and has no ulterior motives
This.

Wife put up with a lot of chit from me. Stuck around. Still here.
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post 1677558503 02-19-2023, 08:45 PM
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took me 2 months. She was an answer to my prayers in every way. No really. I had just become a Christian a year prior and prayed to God for everything I wanted in a wife. God told me to focus on Him first and He will deliver. He did.. married 18 yrs now
post 1677558563 02-19-2023, 08:47 PM
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Protip: don’t fukin do it


You gotta be retarted to get married in 2023
post 1677558713 02-19-2023, 08:50 PM
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5 years

Been together 16 now.

I knew when she stayed with me for 5 years and I was only taking in like 30-50k a year and was an alcoholic line cook. She will never cheat and she doesn’t care about money. She might kill me one day tho.
post 1677558803 02-19-2023, 08:53 PM
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Marriage is the biggest scam
post 1677559033 02-19-2023, 08:57 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Just over two years.

I *knew* when she took me on a weird date: it was freezing in rural Germany, and she brought blankets and a thermos of tea. She laid the blankets there and we watched my first ever 'shooting star' shower, and she said the game was to make wishes on those shooting stars for the things we most want in the world.

Something happened then, I don't know how to explain. I felt something align, in me, with the world around me. And that was that. It's ineffable, but I tried to explain the moment as best I could.

I never thought I'd get married until I met her, srs - I was 31.
Every marriagecel has a fascinating love story like that until they get divorced.
post 1677559073 02-19-2023, 08:57 PM
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We got married when we decided to have a kid. We had already been together for a lot of years and neither of us was going anywhere, but you need to formalise things when kids are involved.
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post 1677559423 02-19-2023, 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
Every marriagecel has a fascinating love story like that until they get divorced.
They do not, nor do all marriages end in divorce. But you know that already, so why quote my post? Did the story unsettle you?
post 1677559633 02-19-2023, 09:08 PM
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Proposed after 7 years. Will be 13 years total together in September (fuk me time flies. You really do just wake up old one day).

I was never really opposed to marriage like some brahs. Fortunate to have good examples of positive relationships in my life. Both my parents and hers are still married after 40 years. My grandparents are still alive and have been married for 65. So to me I was never afraid of it like some guys. Plus from a cynical misc point of view - I don’t have chit to lose in a divorce lol. She’s made more money than me every second we’ve been together.
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post 1677560163 02-19-2023, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
They do not, nor do all marriages end in divorce. But you know that already, so why quote my post? Did the story unsettle you?
My point was, almost every married guy has some sappy asssss love story to tell about their wives until chit really hits the fan somehow, then suddenly they don't. I've been there multiple times before; hell most of us probably have been at some point or another.

Stop thinking your situation is so unique and special, because it's not. 50% of marriages end in divorce, and another 40%+ eventually wind up miserable but staying together out of convenience. That's a 90%+ failure rate. You marriagecels aren't fooling anyone over the age of 30 who has experienced falling in and out of love at least once during their lifetime.
post 1677560453 02-19-2023, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Elvis.Costello⏩
Proposed after 7 years. Will be 13 years total together in September (fuk me time flies. You really do just wake up old one day).

I was never really opposed to marriage like some brahs. Fortunate to have good examples of positive relationships in my life. Both my parents and hers are still married after 40 years. My grandparents are still alive and have been married for 65. So to me I was never afraid of it like some guys. Plus from a cynical misc point of view - I don’t have chit to lose in a divorce lol.She’s made more money than me every second we’ve been together.
this is the only way it makes sense lol
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post 1677560593 02-19-2023, 09:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Elvis.Costello⏩
Proposed after 7 years. Will be 13 years total together in September (fuk me time flies. You really do just wake up old one day).

I was never really opposed to marriage like some brahs. Fortunate to have good examples of positive relationships in my life. Both my parents and hers are still married after 40 years. My grandparents are still alive and have been married for 65. So to me I was never afraid of it like some guys. Plus from a cynical misc point of view - I don’t have chit to lose in a divorce lol. She’s made more money than me every second we’ve been together.
Is her name Veronica?
post 1677560743 02-19-2023, 09:29 PM
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I knew the moment I met her.

We started dating two months after we met. One month later, I asked her to marry me. We're still together to this day and coming up on our 11 year anniversary next month.
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post 1677560863 02-19-2023, 09:32 PM
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3 years. I knew because she had every quality I was looking for in a wife. Some people don't like it when I post the realities of my life, so I'll spare the details, but in essence, she's as perfect as a woman is gonna get.
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post 1677561013 02-19-2023, 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
My point was, almost every married guy has some sappy asssss love story to tell about their wives until chit really hits the fan somehow, then suddenly they don't. I've been there multiple times before; hell most of us probably have been at some point or another.

Stop thinking your situation is so unique and special, because it's not. 50% of marriages end in divorce, and another 40%+ eventually wind up miserable but staying together out of convenience. That's a 90%+ failure rate. You marriagecels aren't fooling anyone over the age of 30 who has experienced falling in and out of love at least once during their lifetime.
And my point is, stop thinking that your failed marriage sets the standard, because it doesn't. You came to a thread asking questions from those married (which you are not), and your only posts ITT are to try to deride someone who put forward his story. Take a step back, for your mental health, and realize that just because you're unhappy with the way your life has turned out does not mean other people will end up in misery as you are.

Your inability to be happy for other people renders you a special sort of embittered divorcecel. Do you take solace in those numbers that you and the other divorcecels spew on this forum? Not everyone ends up like you. Look to your situation and consider how you ended up that way, before trying to undermine the experiences of others. You cannot.
post 1677561503 02-19-2023, 09:45 PM
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We were high school sweethearts. Started dating Sept 2000 when I was a senior and she was a sophomore. In spring 2003 I interviewed for a job 2 states away. She wanted to move with me if I got it. She was graduating high school and turning 18 that June. A week after she graduated, she went with me for my final interview. That night I got the job offer. I proposed right after. Mostly because I wanted to, partly because when I asked her dad after applying, he was worried that she wouldn't have health insurance if she went with me.

This July makes 20 years.

As for the cheating aspect, neither of us has ever cheated. Both of our parents are still married 40+ years, however her mom did have at least one affair.
post 1677561643 02-19-2023, 09:47 PM
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post 1677562063 02-19-2023, 09:55 PM
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12 years and 2 kids. gotta take your time in matters like these

edit: dont listen to the stupid **** immediately above me.
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post 1677562513 02-19-2023, 10:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Don’t recall date of proposal but we got married ten months after meeting.
Is meeting 10 months prior to your Indian arranged marriage normal practice?

How many goats did your parents have to pay to marry you off?
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Don't get married.

Live together. Be monogamous. Have kids but don't sign that paper
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post 1677563233 02-19-2023, 10:21 PM
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We took the yolo approach and started trying for a baby a few months into dating. We got married after having our first child and have been married for 2 years now.
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post 1677563543 02-19-2023, 10:27 PM
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Took me 7 years of waiting for her real personality to come out, and it never did. She was everything a man could want. Now that we've been married for several years and had 2 kids, everything is still amazing, other than the parting of the legs has become less frequent and unenthusiastic.

Hopefully just tired from the kids, otherwise I'll be stepping out sooner or later.



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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Don’t recall date of proposal but we got married ten months after meeting.

In general after one year absolute max you should propose and marry in second year. Otherwise you’re just wasting each others time.
Lol at 65 year old divorced women giving marriage advice
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post 1677563723 02-19-2023, 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted By MustardTiger17⏩
Lol at 65 year old divorced women giving marriage advice
Except SS isn't a "she"
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