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post 1679140393 03-17-2023, 05:24 PM
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Smashing chicks = being good at sales

I’m seeing a lot of despair from some miscers regarding dating apps and inceldom etc.

Here’s a piece of advise if you re struggling with banging chicks IRL: become a better salesman. And I’m not specifically talking about the book the game(although I’ve read it), but just general salesmanship.

Closing a chick is like closing a sale. Take this from an older dude who’s not a mega chad and who’s smashed some top level puss.

I often catch myself IRL or on apps using tactics I use in my actual career (I’ve been doing sales directly and indirectly for close to 2 decades).

Learn to be a better salesman = smash more chicks.
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post 1679140493 03-17-2023, 05:27 PM
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You say youre from Dagestan but youre living a haram lifestyle.
post 1679140593 03-17-2023, 05:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Getter_done⏩
You say youre from Dagestan but youre living a haram lifestyle.
Was born there but raised in wests degeneracy

Also not everyone is Muslim there, my family wasn’t
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post 1679140643 03-17-2023, 05:29 PM
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but what if you have social anxiety?
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Pounding h0es is literally about only 2 things:

1) Height
2) face

Some added bonuses, but not necessarily required:

3) full head of hair
4) big di/ck game
5) Non-autistic social skills
Everything I post is satire.
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post 1679140823 03-17-2023, 05:32 PM
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Funny, years ago I was watching some youtube video where some "increase sales coach"? was giving advice.

Something he said stuck with me even though I'm not in sales...he said "If you wanna close the deal send in your best-looking/handsomest sales guy."

Everyone laughed and he said "no I'm being serious".

So there is likely something to your post.
post 1679140853 03-17-2023, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted By r0undNr0und⏩
but what if you have social anxiety?
Find coping mechanisms and lower it acutely before going out.

Everyone has social anxiety at various levels. Mine for instance is lower to non existant after heavy squats, sauna, boating, fishing , etc

So before going to meet pussy or potential pussy I make sure to do any of the above.

Find what works for you (but also get better at sales)
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post 1679140903 03-17-2023, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
Non-autistic social skills
Originally Posted By andrepmeet⏩
"If you wanna close the deal send in your best-looking/handsomest guy."
fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
post 1679141393 03-17-2023, 05:44 PM
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It’s easy to sell candy to fat chicks
post 1679141913 03-17-2023, 05:56 PM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
Pounding h0es is literally about only 2 things:

1) Height
2) face

Some added bonuses, but not necessarily required:

3) full head of hair
4) big di/ck game
5) Non-autistic social skills
Look all of this definitly matters (and you ‘re missing status/money) but not as much as you think it does

Hot chicks are often hit on by chads and non chads alike in an constant stream of similar openers - how you make her FEEL is what will differentiate you.

And making the feel something is about salesmanship
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post 1679142163 03-17-2023, 06:01 PM
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Truth. I always looked at dating apps as a sales funnel. An important part of dating/smashing is also knowing when to move on and when to pursue. Qualifying skills etc. you want to spend as little time as possible with the ones who aren’t buying
post 1679142493 03-17-2023, 06:05 PM
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lol this is unironically good advice. I've read a bunch of mainstream sales books just to understand the basic psychology and tactics of selling a product. How to create a need, add value, overcome objections, etc.

You are the product and the sloot is the customer.
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
Car salesman makes 150K a year selling cars and he's an incel.
He didn't look at his face from enough angles.
post 1679142973 03-17-2023, 06:19 PM
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Arnold said in his book, no matter what you do in life you have to sell it.
post 1679143323 03-17-2023, 06:27 PM
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op is a *******
post 1679143763 03-17-2023, 06:38 PM
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You're not wrong.
Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
Car salesman makes 150K a year selling cars and he's an incel.
You didn't get the memo that he's married now?
Originally Posted By gorex⏩
Look all of this definitly matters (and you ‘re missing status/money) but not as much as you think it does

Hot chicks are often hit on by chads and non chads alike in an constant stream of similar openers - how you make her FEEL is what will differentiate you.

And making the feel something is about salesmanship
People think they're logical, but most are emotional buyers. This is exactly why guys who don't have much success online, can still do ok IRL. Online is just window shopping. Nothing beats building value in a product face to face.
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OP is right, I am a salesman and I am a vreat salesman because of my history with chicks.

All sales training is useful when tryna f*ck girls.

Sandler Sales Training pushes a step called "go for the no" wherein you actually lead with reasons why she should reject you, make it blatant and obvious, and when she doesn't reject you, you know the deal is in the bag.

It's my favorite tactic because it cuts through the chaff so fast. You can tell when a girl is stringing you along or not by going for the no.
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But can an attractive woman, who is good at sales, sell a $5000 Rolex watch to an incel???
Never send a Christian lawyer to go after a Jewish judge.

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post 1679144523 03-17-2023, 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
You're not wrong.

You didn't get the memo that he's married now?

People think they're logical, but most are emotional buyers. This is exactly why guys who don't have much success online, can still do ok IRL. Online is just window shopping. Nothing beats building value in a product face to face.
You can most definitly make her FEEL feels online, texting etc. I constantly do this on tinder/bumble and am amazed at miscers saying theses apps are dead. They are far from dead for me.

Your replies or silence, questions you ask, your passive agression, negging her while complimenting her, the mistery you float around some subjects, cracking a joke, giving her a command at the right time, etc etc etc this is exactly what salesmanship is.

And chicks are not used to this feel or vibe, simply this (even if poorly executed) will set you apart

In contrast with Johnny who’s fkn complemented her pic or said hey how was your day today beautiful
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post 1679144623 03-17-2023, 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted By gorex⏩
You can most definitly make her FEEL feels online, texting etc. I constantly do this on tinder/bumble and am amazed at miscers saying theses apps are dead. They are far from dead for me.

Your replies or silence, questions you ask, your passive agression, negging her while complimenting her, the mistery you float around some subjects, cracking a joke, giving her a command at the right time, etc etc etc this is exactly what salesmanship is.

In contrast with Johnny who’s who complemented her pic or said hey how was your day today beautiful
Do you have any books/videos to recommend? Obviously nothing beats practical experience, but some theory’s always nice.
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I get what you're saying OP, but a salesman is only as good as the product he's selling.
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
Car salesman makes 150K a year selling cars and he's an incel.
Car salesman making 150K a year selling cars and is also and Incel … is NOT a good salesman.

He’s a journeyman that does smtg to pay the bills and makes a good living. He likely experiences cognitive dissonance.
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post 1679145013 03-17-2023, 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja⏩
I get what you're saying OP, but a salesman is only as good as the product he's selling.
Hahaha oh my. This what bottom tier low performing salesman give as an excuse all the time bro. Meanwhile the rockstar salesman outperforms everyone despite a competitive disadvantage (a lesser product.). I’ve done this both in career and in romance.

That said, there is a limit to this logic. You can’t expect to be an incredible salesman at 300lbs of fat with no hair and glasses and pull puss
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OP I think your wrong.

I’m in sales for a long time.
A lot of customers are women or couples.

They see me they wanna walk out of the door….

They walk out of door with a sale however because they want the product.


I’m 6’2 but for some reason ppl don’t like me.
I’ve literally been refused service in stores, bars etc when I go in alone by women and men who worked there, would be bad for business….

I coulden’t open a bank account at the first bank of my preference the first time, because they didn’t like the way I look.

Yet I still make sales, no problem.
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Originally Posted By PotatoGuy⏩
Do you have any books/videos to recommend? Obviously nothing beats practical experience, but some theory’s always nice.
Here are three you can start with

1. The game

2. How to win friend and influence people (I was lucky to have read this book in my formative years, the **** stuck with me in adulthood)

3. Any book by Robert Cialdini, my favorite: influence
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
lol this is unironically good advice. I've read a bunch of mainstream sales books just to understand the basic psychology and tactics of selling a product. How to create a need, add value, overcome objections, etc.

You are the product and the sloot is the customer.
Elegantly put. Repped.
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Probably true.

Casual sex is for trolls after a certain point.

I'd rather integrity in life and a relationship or maximally casual sex, not seducing someone with the least desirable job on the planet in a lot of my free time.
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
OP is right, I am a salesman and I am a vreat salesman because of my history with chicks.

All sales training is useful when tryna f*ck girls.

Sandler Sales Training pushes a step called "go for the no" wherein you actually lead with reasons why she should reject you, make it blatant and obvious, and when she doesn't reject you, you know the deal is in the bag.

It's my favorite tactic because it cuts through the chaff so fast. You can tell when a girl is stringing you along or not by going for the no.
Thanks for sharing will look into Sandler sales training
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That's it bro.

ABC man ABC

Always be closing.
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if you just compliment them a lot and make them feel like you like them more than they like you it prettt much always works (ded fkn Srs)
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