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Why would you want to marry in your 40's compared to your 20's?
04-30-2023, 05:02 AM
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Why would you want to marry in your 40's compared to your 20's?
20's:
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her 30's and probably divorced
- Wife has had dozens of dink with lots of baggage
- Wifes looks are fading away
- Wife will have trouble conceiving because of her age
- High chance of children turning out autistic due to old parents
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your 40s to get married is a stupid thing to do.
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her 30's and probably divorced
- Wife has had dozens of dink with lots of baggage
- Wifes looks are fading away
- Wife will have trouble conceiving because of her age
- High chance of children turning out autistic due to old parents
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your 40s to get married is a stupid thing to do.
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04-30-2023, 05:03 AM
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Lol at possible virgin in 20s. In what universe?
Lol at thinking you’re restricted to middle aged women when you’re 40, get some glow and you’ll still be banging 25 year olds
Lol so 20 year olds don’t work full time? Cope. Not to mention you are more financially well off in your late 30s
Who cares if I die. My job is to raise children to adulthood, that’s it
Lol at thinking you’re restricted to middle aged women when you’re 40, get some glow and you’ll still be banging 25 year olds
Lol so 20 year olds don’t work full time? Cope. Not to mention you are more financially well off in your late 30s
Who cares if I die. My job is to raise children to adulthood, that’s it
04-30-2023, 05:06 AM
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Why is virginity important to you?
04-30-2023, 05:08 AM
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Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka⏩
who tf wants someone that everyone has had? You nasty fukerWhy is virginity important to you?
04-30-2023, 05:15 AM
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I'm sure a lot of guys getting married in their 40's aren't necessarily looking to have kids
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04-30-2023, 05:50 AM
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Originally Posted By DavidEaslea⏩
Unless you have a lot of money, or live in a country where age gaps are completely normal?20's:
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her 30's and probably divorced
- Wife has had dozens of dink with lots of baggage
- Wifes looks are fading away
- Wife will have trouble conceiving because of her age
- High chance of children turning out autistic due to old parents
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your 40s to get married is a stupid thing to do.
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her 30's and probably divorced
- Wife has had dozens of dink with lots of baggage
- Wifes looks are fading away
- Wife will have trouble conceiving because of her age
- High chance of children turning out autistic due to old parents
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your 40s to get married is a stupid thing to do.
1. If you have money to your name, then just about anywhere in Eastern Europe, Latin America or Asia you are going to be in a position to wife up someone 20 years younger than you easily.
2. You have kids in your 40's, they will be in their 30's and 40 when you die.
3. No problems with her having kids, and the kids wont be rejects. All this talk about older sperm is crap, we all know older men in the west are dumping loads in women 35+ for their first kid
You build society around catering to womens feelings, you end up with the binary choices you think you have.
If you want a family and you are in your late 30's, early 40's GTFO out of any western liberal democracy pronto.
04-30-2023, 06:05 AM
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Originally Posted By DavidEaslea⏩
20's20's:
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her 30's and probably divorced
- Wife has had dozens of dink with lots of baggage
- Wifes looks are fading away
- Wife will have trouble conceiving because of her age
- High chance of children turning out autistic due to old parents
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your 40s to get married is a stupid thing to do.
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her 30's and probably divorced
- Wife has had dozens of dink with lots of baggage
- Wifes looks are fading away
- Wife will have trouble conceiving because of her age
- High chance of children turning out autistic due to old parents
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your 40s to get married is a stupid thing to do.
- Girl isn't through her sloot phase and is only getting married because her friends do.
- Girl has no earning potential and may be a train wreck career wise.
- Girl has learned sexual skills can be used as a weapon to lock men down.
- Girl can gain weight after getting wifed up because they stop caring.
- Girl is much more likely to cheat because her options are greater.
40's:
- Girl has figured out what they want and are much more stable.
- Girl has a good job and doesn't need a guy to pay for stuff.
- Girl is better in bed because they know what they like and can communicate it.
- Girl has assets to contribute to the financial side of the relationship.
- Girl either has kids already or doesn't, but the decision is already made and guy can choose if he wants to be a part of it.
04-30-2023, 06:05 AM
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Originally Posted By MeSoHawny⏩
women in late 30's and early 40's having kids is a huge risk.Unless you have a lot of money, or live in a country where age gaps are completely normal?
1. If you have money to your name, then just about anywhere in Eastern Europe, Latin America or Asia you are going to be in a position to wife up someone 20 years younger than you easily.
2. You have kids in your 40's, they will be in their 30's and 40 when you die.
3. No problems with her having kids, and the kids wont be rejects. All this talk about older sperm is crap, we all know older men in the west are dumping loads in women 35+ for their first kid
You build society around catering to womens feelings, you end up with the binary choices you think you have.
If you want a family and you are in your late 30's, early 40's GTFO out of any western liberal democracy pronto.
1. If you have money to your name, then just about anywhere in Eastern Europe, Latin America or Asia you are going to be in a position to wife up someone 20 years younger than you easily.
2. You have kids in your 40's, they will be in their 30's and 40 when you die.
3. No problems with her having kids, and the kids wont be rejects. All this talk about older sperm is crap, we all know older men in the west are dumping loads in women 35+ for their first kid
You build society around catering to womens feelings, you end up with the binary choices you think you have.
If you want a family and you are in your late 30's, early 40's GTFO out of any western liberal democracy pronto.
04-30-2023, 06:08 AM
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because if you played your cards at 40 you should be quite high SMV.
Date a younger woman whos 25ish not from a western country where in their culture bigger age gaps are normal
40 is pushing it though. Early 30s you should be vetting
Date a younger woman whos 25ish not from a western country where in their culture bigger age gaps are normal
40 is pushing it though. Early 30s you should be vetting
04-30-2023, 06:15 AM
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Did you fail to realize a guy near 50 can still easily marry a filliping in her mid 20's
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just because your in your 40s doesn't mean you have to marry someone in their 40s too. it's actually a lot easier for a man to date a much younger women vs a women a much younger man
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04-30-2023, 07:58 AM
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if they're divorced in their 30s they were probably married in their 20s
04-30-2023, 08:17 AM
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Originally Posted By DavidEaslea⏩
In order to have a successful marriage you have to know who you are and so does the woman. You also have to LIKE EACH OTHER in an enduring way or it will fail.20's:
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her 30's and probably divorced
- Wife has had dozens of dink with lots of baggage
- Wifes looks are fading away
- Wife will have trouble conceiving because of her age
- High chance of children turning out autistic due to old parents
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your 40s to get married is a stupid thing to do.
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her 30's and probably divorced
- Wife has had dozens of dink with lots of baggage
- Wifes looks are fading away
- Wife will have trouble conceiving because of her age
- High chance of children turning out autistic due to old parents
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your 40s to get married is a stupid thing to do.
Marriage is absolutely nothing, it's just a word. Being married has no special power and is just an idea, so if the ideas ends up sounding stupid, the marriage will fail.
Knowing yourself: You have to know if you actually want to be married of will you suddenly switch goals and realize you would rather be doing something else.
Like: For people to like each other, they need the same general hobbies, cultural ideas, and so on in order to be "best friends" because if you aren't best friends with your wife you will grow to dislike each other.
People who are young are highly unlikely to be in control of their own minds to understand long term values and understand friendship. So, getting married is not smart.
Talking about "marriage" in generally shows a HIGH LEVEL of stupidity because it means the person believes "marriage" is some transformative experience but once you get married you will be the same people.
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Honestly for me personally, 40s would be perfect because I'll probably finish paying off my house, and a pre-nup would guarantee that if my marriage go bad and we get a divorce (50percent chance), I'll get to keep the stuff that I owned prior to marriage, such as the house.
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Marriage in the west is a pointless idea.
Unless you're a muslim or strict christian - forget about it.
More men should (and are) following in the footsteps of Leonardo DiCaprio.
Treat sloots as an accessory, not the priority.
Unless you're a muslim or strict christian - forget about it.
More men should (and are) following in the footsteps of Leonardo DiCaprio.
Treat sloots as an accessory, not the priority.
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Most miserable dudes I know are the ones who married in their 20's. At that age you haven't plowed enough to be happy with life, your finance are crap and will forever be since marriage and family stagnates your personal growth unless you are half the time a deadbeat towards your family.
Best age for a dude to get married is mid 30's - you should be well established financially and will get a high-grade women way easier. Your looks as well peak during that phase if you take care of yourself.
Best age for a dude to get married is mid 30's - you should be well established financially and will get a high-grade women way easier. Your looks as well peak during that phase if you take care of yourself.
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Originally Posted By DavidEaslea⏩
Lol ran through multiple 20 somethings for years and years till finally getting together with my wife who was early 20’s while I was late 30’s. This is the way.20's:
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her 30's and probably divorced
- Wife has had dozens of dink with lots of baggage
- Wifes looks are fading away
- Wife will have trouble conceiving because of her age
- High chance of children turning out autistic due to old parents
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your 40s to get married is a stupid thing to do.
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her 30's and probably divorced
- Wife has had dozens of dink with lots of baggage
- Wifes looks are fading away
- Wife will have trouble conceiving because of her age
- High chance of children turning out autistic due to old parents
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your 40s to get married is a stupid thing to do.
Lol at your scenario.
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Originally Posted By DavidEaslea⏩
Fixed it for you.20's:
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her late 20's/early 30's.
- Wife started dating you in her early to mid 20's and was a virgin when you met.
- Wife looks like she's still 24
- Wife will easily get knocked up by your magic spermaxxing
- High chance of children becoming moggers to all the brokecel's kids.
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler, if you're black.
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young, and they can really mog their peers with their massive inheritance.
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your Late 30's/40ish to get married is a wise choice
- Wife is in early 20's and a possible virgin
- Wife is at her physical peak
- Wife will provide the healthiest children
- Have lots of energy to work and raise the kids
- Kids will be well into their middle age once you pass away
- Grow up old with your wife
40's:
- Wife is at least in her late 20's/early 30's.
- Wife started dating you in her early to mid 20's and was a virgin when you met.
- Wife looks like she's still 24
- Wife will easily get knocked up by your magic spermaxxing
- High chance of children becoming moggers to all the brokecel's kids.
- No energy to work full time and raise a toddler, if you're black.
- You will die from old age when your children are still pretty young, and they can really mog their peers with their massive inheritance.
Conclusion: Waiting until you're in your Late 30's/40ish to get married is a wise choice
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Originally Posted By EdwardTheGreat⏩
This is the only way!Lol ran through multiple 20 somethings for years and years till finally getting together with my wife who was early 20’s while I was late 30’s. This is the way.
Lol at your scenario.
Lol at your scenario.
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just get late 20's like 26-28 is perfect
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My wife and I were both 46 when our daughter was born.
She exceeds every developmental metric.
We have the money and the experience to fit our careers around our daughter, instead of the other way around.
We each WFH 2-3 days a week, so that one of us is always with her. If it ever became an issue, we could both retire tomorrow if we needed to.
We are in the position to be far better parents than we could have been in our 20s.
She exceeds every developmental metric.
We have the money and the experience to fit our careers around our daughter, instead of the other way around.
We each WFH 2-3 days a week, so that one of us is always with her. If it ever became an issue, we could both retire tomorrow if we needed to.
We are in the position to be far better parents than we could have been in our 20s.
Screw nature; my body will do what I DAMN WELL tell it to do!
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If you live in a city, it's totally normal to get married for the first time in your 40s. People have a lot of things they want to accomplish prior to getting married, and it's ok to accomplish those things. It's mostly poor people getting married early. Or people who are wealthy and can't resist family pressure.
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