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post 1681953563 05-03-2023, 07:01 AM
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How the fk do you get over this feeling

I had sx with the hottest chick I've ever fked a few days ago. Not bragging or anything, but most people would consider her hot. She had a solid personality too, was actually really good company. I'm on the comedown now from it and feel like **** because she's way out of my league and there's no way I'd be able to maintain a relationship. She has way too many better options. I also feel like wtf is the point of pursuing anyone else. It was a really good night but somehow I feel worse for it? Like I've had a taste of a life I'll likely never have. I'm trying to tell myself to enjoy it for what it was and to be happy I at least experienced it. This must be what a junkie feels
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post 1681953633 05-03-2023, 07:03 AM
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Just keep hanging out with her and fukkin her you idiot. Sounds like you’re shooting your self down meanwhile literally nothing went wrong.
post 1681954063 05-03-2023, 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted By seeker477
Just keep hanging out with her and fukkin her you idiot. Sounds like you’re shooting your self down meanwhile literally nothing went wrong.
We're based in different cities. Fk she was enthusiastic af and we've got lots of common interests - sx related and otherwise. She's far better socially connected than I am so no doubt there's more attractive guys overall interested in her. We texted a bit afterwards and she seemed to genuinely enjoy our time, but I'm just not settled enough in life to compete with the other guys she likely mixes with.

Maybe I'm being harsh on myself a bit. I think I'm mostly being realistic. Feel like I'm on this neverending hamster wheel of self improvement and I'll never be good enough
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post 1681954153 05-03-2023, 07:15 AM
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You have already put way too much value on her and your relationship with her.

Additionally, you have unnecessarily defeated yourself.

stop thinking, stop making stuff up. Just enjoy her and be your sincere self and if she keeps going cool, if not, that is okay too. Throw out any expectations you have.

GL bro. srs.


also, negged. obviously.
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post 1681954263 05-03-2023, 07:16 AM
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Wow never thought I'd see a post like this. Few men will actually understand OP
I am ugly but did sleep with a decent girl for a short period just got lucky and she was on the rebound
There is no cure
You'll always think about it and after some time just accept it that you gotnlucky that one time and go back to smashing fatties annduglies
post 1681954693 05-03-2023, 07:23 AM
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Originally Posted By TOUCHEDbyMany
Wow never thought I'd see a post like this. Few men will actually understand OP
I am ugly but did sleep with a decent girl for a short period just got lucky and she was on the rebound
There is no cure
You'll always think about it and after some time just accept it that you gotnlucky that one time and go back to smashing fatties annduglies
Bro I don't even waste my time with fatties and uglies. Time heals all I guess...but I'm spellbound for now, as pathetic as that sounds
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post 1681954843 05-03-2023, 07:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet
You have already put way too much value on her and your relationship with her.

Additionally, you have unnecessarily defeated yourself.

stop thinking, stop making stuff up. Just enjoy her and be your sincere self and if she keeps going cool, if not, that is okay too. Throw out any expectations you have.

GL bro. srs.


also, negged. obviously.
I know I'm simping way too hard here, but I honestly haven't met a woman like her
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post 1681955103 05-03-2023, 07:30 AM
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The majority of dudes I've fukked have been way out of my league. The cure is simple. Be humble and work hard on your own interests. They will keep coming until you shut yourself away.
post 1681955473 05-03-2023, 07:38 AM
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Try to become famous
post 1681956053 05-03-2023, 07:45 AM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot
The majority of dudes I've fukked have been way out of my league. The cure is simple. Be humble and work hard on your own interests. They will keep coming until you shut yourself away.
Your opinion means nothing you dumb bitch. All you had to do was spread your legs and call daddy over.
post 1681956163 05-03-2023, 07:47 AM
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Negged for putting yourself down. With that type of beta talk, you definitely don't deserve her.
post 1681956893 05-03-2023, 08:01 AM
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Originally Posted By nn586
Your opinion means nothing you dumb bitch. All you had to do was spread your legs and call daddy over.
Well since you were busy fukkin him I was SOL, sweet cheeks. You should consider leaving some dick for the rest of us, pico sloot.
post 1681957773 05-03-2023, 08:19 AM
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That’s why you don’t catch feelings you simp. Negged
post 1682026223 05-04-2023, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Cite
That’s why you don’t catch feelings you simp. Negged
Your neg comment is what my advice would be to someone in my position. Here's the thing, just fkd someone else and it felt like I was just going through the motions. Interesting conversation etc during the date, but just doesn't compare. Was thinking about the other chick most of the time during the act
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post 1682026823 05-04-2023, 09:38 AM
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You are lucky you got to smash at all with that beta mentality ****g9t.

Use her to level up, low-key make sure everyone knows you smash that.

Raises your stock on other females' eyes.
post 1682027323 05-04-2023, 09:47 AM
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She was the best man
post 1682027433 05-04-2023, 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot
The majority of dudes I've fukked have been way out of my league. The cure is simple. Be humble and work hard on your own interests. They willkeep coming until you shut yourself away.
Let’s get started.
I loe e.
post 1682027533 05-04-2023, 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Goat_187
You are lucky you got to smash at all with that beta mentality ****g9t.

Use her to level up, low-key make sure everyone knows you smash that.

Raises your stock on other females' eyes.
The problem is I can't seem to give a single fk about other woman rn. Even when fking them. I don't know if there is a level up - when you take looks, personality and sx into account
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post 1682027593 05-04-2023, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By MrSchons
She was the best man
I think you're right lad. Simple as
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post 1682028463 05-04-2023, 10:11 AM
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why dont you both move into a house together and get married?

have children?
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Dont even think about what her "social value" is, whatever happens happens and you have to be okay with it. Thats life son. Dont self sabotage for no fukkin reason other than your overthinking. You realize your brain is made to just produce thoughts 24/7? You gonna listen to every single one of them? You already banged, dont be a fukking retard
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Originally Posted By BanjoBilly
I know I'm simping way too hard here, but I honestly haven't met a woman like her
Why does that matter?
“The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.“

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Originally Posted By MegaSloot
The majority of dudes I've fukked have been way out of my league. The cure is simple. Be humble and work hard on your own interests. They will keep coming until you shut yourself away.
Lol at this detached and delusional nonsense.

Two requirements for a man to **** a woman.


1. Have a vagina
2. Don’t be fat


that is it.

This conversation has nothing to do with you or your experiences. You have nothing to contribute here.

Also, any external validation you felt you received from them was completely made up in your own mind.
“The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.“

PS: Don't eat poop, just don't let the idea of it stop you from living life to its fullest.
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I know how you feel, I’ve been seeing an attractive woman for the last 8 months and now we are taking time apart this summer it is for the best she made me feel real special at times then I found out she lied to me about her age she is 37 not 33
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Try not to overthink it. My first opportunity with a lil hottie was one doing her post doc. I didn't even have a formal education or money, but she was interested enough for sex and hanging out for over a year mostly due to my looks I guess. She mentioned my passion for things and vision was a turn on tho.

With most women it's just your turn, more so when they actually are successful, good looking, and top tier. Just use her to your advantage to both learn about the opposite sex and enjoy the time spent together. Most relationships fail due to timing as well and no fault of your own.

Getting anywhere with a good woman is extremely hard to do for the avg male, so keep that in mind and don't be hard on yourself or doubt yourself. And at some point maybe she'll explain what she sees in you to build your confidence. Use her to your advantage.

Just enjoy the moment and see where it goes.
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