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post 1684492193 06-12-2023, 03:54 PM
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BPD Aware

Anyone else got some experience in dealing with BPD people?

I dated my ex for two (2) years, and looking back I was going through actual hell on earth. It's been almost a year since I broke things off, and I still have PTSD and srs issues with new relationships because of that.

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do not engage. ever. with a crazy hot bpd girl


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post 1684492293 06-12-2023, 03:56 PM
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post 1684492333 06-12-2023, 03:56 PM
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As soon as you figure out they have BPD, you should be planning your exit.

It doesn't matter if you feel bad, you need to look out for yourself.
post 1684492393 06-12-2023, 03:57 PM
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post 1684492493 06-12-2023, 03:59 PM
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Yeah, too bad as you get older most of the dating pool is cluster B
post 1684492503 06-12-2023, 03:59 PM
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post 1684492653 06-12-2023, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Getter_done⏩
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one of the few remaining pics i have of her,


think actual model tier, and getting tons of attention just by walking down the street
post 1684492813 06-12-2023, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Misc is well aware

There are at least 350 threads about this topic
And your threads are more worthwhile?
post 1684492963 06-12-2023, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted By zero100⏩
one of the few remaining pics i have of her,


think actual model tier, and getting tons of attention just by walking down the street
Mirin!
post 1684493163 06-12-2023, 04:11 PM
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post 1684493173 06-12-2023, 04:11 PM
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kill them all with fire
post 1684493393 06-12-2023, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Getter_done⏩
Mirin!
yeah in hindsight i think her looks are what kept me in for so long dead fkn srs

and with kept me in for so long, i mean my cawk in her p0say, cause the sex with cluster b is just on another ****ing level and i will forever be chasing a hoe just half as unbelievably dirty and bat **** crazy in bed
post 1684493503 06-12-2023, 04:16 PM
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I just divorced after 19 years with a BPD. So much to unravel and uncondition from
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post 1684493583 06-12-2023, 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Misc is well aware

There are at least 350 threads about this topic
this is a BDP that you got to avoid

srs
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post 1684493693 06-12-2023, 04:20 PM
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Originally Posted By TXBuddy⏩
I just divorced after 19 years with a BPD. So much to unravel and uncondition from
damn brah, all the best (no homo). i feel completely fucced in my head already after 2y. can't imagine what 10x will do to u.
tbh, i didn't even know bpd relationships can last that long - were u never 'devalued/discarded' ?
post 1684493953 06-12-2023, 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted By zero100⏩
damn brah, all the best (no homo). i feel completely fucced in my head already after 2y. can't imagine what 10x will do to u.
tbh, i didn't even know bpd relationships can last that long - were u never 'devalued/discarded' ?
makes it worse if you start to blame yourself for the misunderstandings and try to be logical when working out their behavior.
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post 1684494373 06-12-2023, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
makes it worse if you start to blame yourself for the misunderstandings and try to be logical when working out their behavior.
one of the worst falling-outs i had with her was when i logically, step by step, fully comprehensible and sensible, explained and showed her, how her thought process was paradoxial. I.e. in that discussion she literally contradicted her whole stance on the topic we were discussing on, two sentences apart from each other.

Showing her that her thought process is literally nonsensical made her fuarking devil-tier furious. Cause you know, how dare i point out that she doesn't make sense.
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Noticing there’s bpd thread at list once a month now…
If you work out she has bpd exit the situation. They love hard and the sex is usually wild. However they will destroy your life, destroy your mind and the exchange for those two things are not worth it.
They can not be cured. Ever. Sounds harsh but believe me it is true. Run OP
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post 1684494843 06-12-2023, 04:42 PM
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It hasn't been mentioned it but usually if you date a girl like thus long term usually you have issues yourself you should see a psychologist srs

A mentally healthy indivual with strong boundaries etc repel women like this
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I’m not BPD at all I just have autism.

Educate yourself srs
shush sloot, you don't even suck dick
Originally Posted By zero100⏩
one of the worst falling-outs i had with her was when i logically, step by step, fully comprehensible and sensible, explained and showed her, how her thought process was paradoxial. I.e. in that discussion she literally contradicted her whole stance on the topic we were discussing on, two sentences apart from each other.

Showing her that her thought process is literally nonsensical made her fuarking devil-tier furious. Cause you know, how dare i point out that she doesn't make sense.
that's a pretty surreal experience because you start to doubt everything. i don't know if they are self aware. i guess if time went by and you went back to this argument she would deny the details of it or try possibly to even shame you about it saying she is disappointed in what you said at that time. anything to take the focus off of her. it's pretty crazy how quickly an argument can escalate, because they are mostly in their feelings. and from declaring their undying love for you, they will ghost you

out of interest, what are yours or her birth month? she sounds like a water sign (no homo)
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
that's a pretty surreal experience because you start to doubt everything
I had to start keeping up a journal, since her perception of reality started to differ more and more to mine.

Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
i don't know if they are self aware.
i genuinely believe they are unaware of what's actually going on in their head. like subconsciously they may know that they are completely insane, but they aren't able to comprehend, as that would feel them guilty big-time > which leads to suicidal thinking - so therefore imo it's all a protection mechanism.


Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
i guess if time went by and you went back to this argument she would deny the details of it or try possibly to even shame you about it saying she is disappointed in what you said at that time. anything to take the focus off of her
i have so many stories where she completely rewrote history and gaslighted the **** out of me.
Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
out of interest, what are yours or her birth month? she sounds like a water sign (no homo)
kinda cringe bro ngl, but we are both cancer (although she is more than me).
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It really is mind-****ing to be idealized, then devalued and discarded.
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Im diagnosed with it. The highs are amazing. I feel like a god. The lows just as bad.
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Not sureifsrs.... all sloots are bipolar.
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Originally Posted By pengh⏩
Not sureifsrs.... all sloots are bipolar.
bipolar =/= bpd (borderline personality disorder)

completely different, boyo. bpd is way more extreme to deal with from what i've heard.
but ya, i guess in the end all sloots be crazy innit bruv
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BPD girls aren’t suitable for long term commitment, but they can be fun. If you’re weak they’ll ruin your life, but I’ve had my fair share of romances with them and came out fine.

They take whatever ground you give and gaslight you to insanity unless you’re absolutely sure of yourself. The key is, take advantage when they’re love bombing. They’ll do anything for you and it’s a lot of fun. Then when they “switch” and devalue you, tell them they’re being a monster and you’re done, then kick them out and ghost them with no remorse. Then do your own thing. When they come back sobbing for your forgiveness, enjoy a pleasant period of them doing anything they can for your approval.
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