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post 1684503353 06-12-2023, 07:04 PM
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Turning 35 tomorrow

Feelsbadman

Feels like my youth is just about all dried up. Never had the sex life I wanted and now I'm too old to go after prime girls. Still single and never had a relationship that lasted more than a year. Never lived with a girl, never vacationed together, etc. I'd like to have kids before I'm 40 but idk how the fuk that's going to happen.

I continue to struggle with procrastination and lack of motivation. Some days I feel like I'm in such a rut that the pain of it motivates me for a while but ultimately negative thoughts creep back into my mind and ruin whatever motivation I had.

I hope I wake up tomorrow with a fire under my ass to make the changes in my life I want to make. The clock is ticking louder than ever.

I wish I could go back to being 18 and do it all over again. There are several changed I would of made that would of made a world of difference.
post 1684503593 06-12-2023, 07:06 PM
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According to misc 35 is a man's prime

post 1684503863 06-12-2023, 07:10 PM
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Originally Posted By ElonFan96⏩
According to misc 35 is a man's prime
Male prime is 27-32
post 1684503953 06-12-2023, 07:11 PM
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Seriously guys I'm flipping out
post 1684504143 06-12-2023, 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Gladi4tor⏩
Male prime is 27-32
I'd say anywhere from 22-31 for males

And for females anywhere from 16-24





You missed out bro. All you can do now is try moneymog to make up for it. If you acquire currency you can still get some of the girls you want
post 1684504193 06-12-2023, 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted By ElonFan96⏩
You missed out bro. All you can do now is try moneymog to make up for it. If you acquire currency you can still get some of the girls you want
That's not how I want to get them.
post 1684504393 06-12-2023, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Gladi4tor⏩
That's not how I want to get them.
Idgaf, you missed the boat. Stop talking like a sloot with that 'i want' chit

Unless you are chad and can still pass for 20s its over 4u
post 1684504453 06-12-2023, 07:19 PM
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post 1684505223 06-12-2023, 07:28 PM
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post 1684505343 06-12-2023, 07:29 PM
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Feels. I’ve been feeling that pain of regret as well. I don’t think there’s any way around it, just have to accept it brah
post 1684505373 06-12-2023, 07:30 PM
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Originally Posted By miscallday12⏩
feelz
I dont understand what you guys were doing in your teens and 20s? you Had like 15 years to get prime pussy
post 1684505663 06-12-2023, 07:34 PM
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Most famous male celebrities peaked in their mid 30s.
post 1684505893 06-12-2023, 07:37 PM
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I’m going to be 35 in a few months and I feel great. I’m doing BJJ, boxing, working out, six figure career and still smash girls in their early 20’s. The key to maintaining glow is a good facial routine (srs). People think I’m in my late 20’s.
post 1684506173 06-12-2023, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted By ElonFan96⏩
I dont understand what you guys were doing in your teens and 20s? you Had like 15 years to get prime pussy
Some people are psychological fuked from a fuked up childhood. When that happens you have no self confidence, no identity, no belief in yourself, poor social skills, etc. Those kinds of guys are failures with women.
post 1684506243 06-12-2023, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted By AJ1528⏩
I’m going to be 35 in a few months and I feel great. I’m doing BJJ, boxing, working out, six figure career and still smash girls in their early 20’s. The key to maintaining glow is a good facial routine (srs). People think I’m in my late 20’s.
Every time I read this, I ask the person WHERE DO YOU MEET THOSE GIRLS and they never reply.
post 1684506293 06-12-2023, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted By ElonFan96⏩
I dont understand what you guys were doing in your teens and 20s? you Had like 15 years to get prime pussy
Originally Posted By Gladi4tor⏩
Some people are psychological fuked from a fuked up childhood. When that happens you have no self confidence, no identity, no belief in yourself, poor social skills, etc. Those kinds of guys are failures with women.
feelz

What Gladi4tor said + having no money
post 1684506413 06-12-2023, 07:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Gladi4tor⏩
Every time I read this, I ask the person WHERE DO YOU MEET THOSE GIRLS and they never reply.
I do really well on Tinder and Bumble and the occasional friend of a friend.
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Originally Posted By Gladi4tor⏩
Some people are psychological fuked from a fuked up childhood. When that happens you have no self confidence, no identity, no belief in yourself, poor social skills, etc. Those kinds of guys are failures with women.
Sounds like cope

You should have fixed that chit by like 20 max. Then you still have 10 years to mog. Y'all are just incompetent (no hate, just facts)
post 1684506703 06-12-2023, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted By ElonFan96⏩
Sounds like cope

You should have fixed that chit by like 20 max. Then you still have 10 years to mog. Y'all are just incompetent (no hate, just facts)
You can't magically fix all these issues, esp at that age. You slowly fix one at a time and b4 you know it, 35 years old
post 1684507033 06-12-2023, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted By miscallday12⏩
You can't magically fix all these issues, esp at that age. You slowly fix one at a time and b4 you know it, 35 years old
Y'all sound like females srs
post 1684507093 06-12-2023, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted By ElonFan96⏩
Y'all sound like females srs
You had great parents and a great childhood. Congratz
post 1684507443 06-12-2023, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Gladi4tor⏩
Male prime is 27-32
By this logic I’m just about to enter my prime.

Feels like I’m on the decline tho ded fkin srs. Prime for me was 21-25.
post 1684507503 06-12-2023, 08:00 PM
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OP, how's the hair line? don't be afraid to hop on that dere finasteride and minoxidil when dat dere hair reaper comes for you.
IF YOU DONT SQUAT, YOU AINT SQUAT
post 1684507533 06-12-2023, 08:00 PM
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Originally Posted By miscallday12⏩
You had great parents and a great childhood. Congratz
I really didnt, I just wasn't incompetent.
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Originally Posted By GuineaDago585⏩
By this logic I’m just about to enter my prime.

Feels like I’m on the decline tho ded fkin srs. Prime for me was 21-25.
Just by your hand I can tell you look groce

Time to cut

post 1684507733 06-12-2023, 08:02 PM
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im your age and ive never smashed hotter girls at any point in my life. sounds like a you problem, boyo.
post 1684508093 06-12-2023, 08:07 PM
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I'm 35 RN, as far as motivation you just have to get to work to improve yourself. I know it sounds cliche but its so true. Start small and keep working up from there week by week. You will start to have more confidence and fulfilling life I promise. I was you when I was younger.
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post 1684508143 06-12-2023, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted By ElonFan96⏩
I really didnt, I just wasn't incompetent.
Has nothing to do with competence, you can't choose your parents. It's ok not to understand but realize your not chit.
post 1684508503 06-12-2023, 08:15 PM
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Originally Posted By miscallday12⏩
Has nothing to do with competence, you can't choose your parents. It's ok not to understand but realize your not chit.
I moved out when I was 16. I consider 16 an adult... even though western culture likes to infantalize people and pretend 21 is still a "child" *cringe*.

Like I said, I'd accept until 20 to get your chit sorted, maybe even 21, but beyond that you just need to grow the fuk up and stop relying on 'muh childhood' as a crutch to justify your inability to mog
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