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» Do you lose respect for a man as soon as he mentions having step-kids?
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post 1687118263 07-24-2023, 03:50 PM
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Do you lose respect for a man as soon as he mentions having step-kids?

How can young guys in their prime still be wifing up single-moms in 2023? A co-worker of mine today mentioned his step-kids giving trouble in school and I thought to myself how a man can stand raising another man's children? I would feel embarrassed if the real father saw me in public trying to deal with his ****ty kids, stressing myself out because he busted a nut in the sloot, dumped her, and I came along and decided to wife her up SMH!

I can't imagine the shame that this guy's mother has about knowing her son taking care of someone else's mistake. He never once mentioned having a kid that was biologically his own either. Guy his late20's/early 30's.

Can miscers who play step daddy chime in on the mindset that led you to being okay with raising another man's kids?



Also LOL at these Tinder sloots who openly state that you will never be a priority to them, and that their kids come first. What successful young man is going to be okay with that?



I legit saw a 23 year old tinder sloot mentioning her three kids on her profile! SAD!
post 1687118383 07-24-2023, 03:52 PM
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no i dont cuz they stepped up to take care

how wood you feel being fatherless?

at least they wanna
post 1687118563 07-24-2023, 03:55 PM
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Considering the average man is like 42 years old,makes 80,000, and has 1.5 kids do u expect that person to date 22 year old models with no kids?
post 1687118613 07-24-2023, 03:56 PM
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Automatically know they're a low value cuck.
post 1687119043 07-24-2023, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted By 129iq
Considering the average man is like 42 years old,makes 80,000, and has 1.5 kids do u expect that person to date 22 year old models with no kids?
I make exceptions for guys older than 37 as I believe they have crossed that line where anything goes.

But we are talking about men in their prime with good jobs/careers and a future ahead of them. Why settle for a dumb sloot that ****ed her own future up when you can be a bit more selective and find someone you can actually share the experience of child-birth with TOGETHER?

Even if you did have some of your own kids with the single-mom sloot it wouldn't be her first so it won't be as special to her. Total cuckery
post 1687119233 07-24-2023, 04:07 PM
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I know quite a few guys with step kids and they all love them just as much, you can see it in their relationship
post 1687119293 07-24-2023, 04:09 PM
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no. Because I have a stepfather. If my mother didn't remarry, I'd be a gangbanger right now dedsrs. Or already dead/in jail
post 1687119433 07-24-2023, 04:12 PM
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Imagine having a ginger step kid?
post 1687119473 07-24-2023, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted By MetroBrah
no. Because I have a stepfather. If my mother didn't remarry, I'd be a gangbanger right now dedsrs. Or already dead/in jail
But would you assume that role?
post 1687119603 07-24-2023, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By MetroBrah
no. Because I have a stepfather. If my mother didn't remarry, I'd be a gangbanger right now dedsrs. Or already dead/in jail
Sorry to read that broseph. Glad things worked okay.
post 1687120083 07-24-2023, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Islandboyo
But would you assume that role?
Wouldn't be my ideal scenario, but I don't want to say never either. Just seeing what my stepfather did for me, I'd like to say I'd give that chance to another kid if it came down to it.

irl, I ended up marrying a virgin though lol
Originally Posted By Lexira
Sorry to read that broseph. Glad things worked okay.
yea everything worked out well though, I can't complain about anything. My mom divorced when I was 3 and remarried two years later to a devout Christian engineer. Game changer
post 1687120683 07-24-2023, 04:45 PM
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Vast majority, yes. Not all

If they were grown children it's kind of a different story

Most guys are trying sooo hard to prove themselves they take any crumbs they can get. They're not worried about what the other person is offering, they're worried about what they themselves are offering

I wouldn't say your avg. Guy is "bluepilled" but I'd say willfully idealistic

I think the more women you get or have gotten the more red pilled you'd be cause you've seen what women do and don't trust them

Your avg. Guy has to make up for their effort
post 1687120893 07-24-2023, 04:49 PM
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Originally Posted By MetroBrah
no. Because I have a stepfather. If my mother didn't remarry, I'd be a gangbanger right now dedsrs. Or already dead/in jail
Das it, high five him for me.
I loe e.
post 1687120933 07-24-2023, 04:50 PM
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White people stuff
-->indian but yuge trump supporter crew
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-->structural engineer crew
-->meditation & astral projection crew
-->crew crew crew, nobody cares crew
post 1687122253 07-24-2023, 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted By viku_vv
White people stuff
I can just imagine a ****** bringing home a single mom and his mom disowning him on the spot. That kinda **** doesn't fly with asians typically
post 1687122663 07-24-2023, 05:27 PM
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Depends. Typically I'll view him as a cuck if he takes care of a lot kids that none of them are his. But I have a buddy that has a kid, got divorced, then just married another chick that has a kid of her own and they now have this little family that seems quite happy. That type of stuff is pretty legit.

I just see so much of the type of guy that cucks himself and is desperate so he gets with a sinlge mom and he becomes the pay pig and stand in for another man's children. Most of the time the kids don't even respect him much.

It's really a situational thing.
post 1687127813 07-24-2023, 07:06 PM
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post 1687129163 07-24-2023, 07:38 PM
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If no kids with said woman, then pathetic. Otherwise it's just the epitome of simping.
post 1687129563 07-24-2023, 07:43 PM
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have you heard the story of a man named brady who was busy with 3 boys of his own? they were 4 men living all together, yet they were all alone.
post 1687130103 07-24-2023, 07:54 PM
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"All about work and my daughter". Then why the fk are you on a dating app?
post 1687131123 07-24-2023, 08:18 PM
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I really don't care either way.
post 1687131213 07-24-2023, 08:19 PM
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"Man". Nice of you to still use that word on a person that will raise another man's kids.
post 1687131493 07-24-2023, 08:27 PM
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I've turned more conservative than the most cruel Japanese shogun.

The fuk LOL at any loser bumb that accepts a woman with crotch goblins from some dude she bent over for with no strings. I have more respect for hookers in 2023, at least they get something in return for lowering their self worth...Sluts and promiscuous women are lower than hookers in my book.
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post 1687131793 07-24-2023, 08:35 PM
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I think you can raise kids as a step father, but I'd never actually consider those kids my own in any way. I'd always refer to them as "my wife's kids".

So yes, if a guy is calling them his own, he's a cuck.
post 1687131963 07-24-2023, 08:40 PM
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If you asked me a few years ago I would have said yes, but my ex had a daughter and I loved that little shyt head so idk
post 1687132323 07-24-2023, 08:46 PM
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I’ve never met anyone who respects their step dad (srs).
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