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post 1687278163 07-27-2023, 05:58 AM
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Man can’t stand to Look at Wife anymore

A man on Reddit felt the need to get something about his wife off his chest, so he made a post on the “r/TrueOffMyChest” subreddit. He shared that he could no longer stand looking at his wife and that he had been planning on divorcing her.

Despite sharing some context on the situation and explaining the reason behind his aversion to his own wife, most people were not on his side when everything was said and done.

The man claimed that he can't stand looking at his wife because she's not as attractive as she was in college.

“When I, 27, met my wife, 27, in college. We were both in frats and sororities respectively,” he explained, “and not to make myself sound too self-obsessed, we were both really attractive at that time.” Around 22 or 23 years old, “right after college,” he said, he and his wife had gotten married, “and I think that’s where things started to go downhill.”

They had planned a lot of things together, and being the same age helped them move their lives in the same direction. The man explained they had talked about having kids recently, but something has been putting that plan on hold.

“We don't have any kids yet and we were actually planning on starting next year to try and have kids,” he explained. “The goal was to wait till we were financially stable, but it seems like the moment we got married my wife stopped trying.”

“I will be honest here. The main reason I fell in love with my wife was because of how beautiful she was,” he wrote. “Back then she was fit and energetic, but now it's all changed. Since we've been married she has steadily over time been putting on weight to the point where she has to be double the size she was when we got married.”

He claimed that he can no longer be intimate with his wife because of her looks.
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post 1687278393 07-27-2023, 06:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Islandboyo⏩
https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/man-...031500596.html
There isn’t anything wrong with this. Told my gf i’m done if she gained a max of 15 pounds of fat in our relationship srs
post 1687278443 07-27-2023, 06:07 AM
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Originally Posted By AWSbruh⏩
There isn’t anything wrong with this. Told my gf i’m done if she gained a max of 15 pounds of fat in our relationship srs
Would sloots find it acceptable if a man went from high earner, at marriage, to a low paying job or a NEET rotter? Of course not, women becoming fat pigs is about the female equivalent.
post 1687279293 07-27-2023, 06:28 AM
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Damn. That’s rough. Poor guy.

My wife got in BETTER shape after we got married. She was never in bad shape, but took it to the next level by doing all these insane trail races, running 14ers, marathons, triathlons, and even a few Ironmans. Even after she had our kid, she was completely back to her original weight in a couple months srs.
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post 1687279353 07-27-2023, 06:29 AM
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LOL @ you if you believe anything posted on that subreddit, just a bunch of nerds looking for karma
post 1687279363 07-27-2023, 06:29 AM
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makes sense.

being healthy when you're knocked up is better for the kid then if you're unhealthy.

dudes just looking out for his #1 sperm swimmer
post 1687279683 07-27-2023, 06:39 AM
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the guy messed up for marrying a women mostly based on her looks. looks are going to fade eventually so what do you got after that?

with that said, it is pretty unacceptable for a man or woman to completely let themselves go after marriage.
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post 1687280623 07-27-2023, 06:59 AM
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Originally Posted By AWSbruh⏩
There isn’t anything wrong with this. Told my gf i’m done if she gained a max of 15 pounds of fat in our relationship srs
Apparently the redditors disagreed and roasted him for body shaming his wife!
post 1687282643 07-27-2023, 07:49 AM
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Originally Posted By AWSbruh⏩
There isn’t anything wrong with this. Told my gf i’m done if she gained a max of 15 pounds of fat in our relationship srs
theres a lot wrong with the beginning

he was never in love

he was in lust


you dont marry someone because they're hot. you dont tell a girl you love her because shes hot.

thats not love.
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post 1687283113 07-27-2023, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted By CalmWind⏩
theres a lot wrong with the beginning

he was never in love

he was in lust


you dont marry someone because they're hot. you dont tell a girl you love her because shes hot.

thats not love.
then what is love? are you trying to convince other miscers that they should marry a woman for her personality? LOL. Never seen divorce between people who married each other for "personality", just kidding. Srs. I'd rather be dumped by a chad or stacy than be dumped by some ugly mofo.
post 1687283183 07-27-2023, 07:58 AM
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Originally Posted By MagicBear⏩
then what is love? are you trying to convince other miscers that they should marry a woman for her personality? LOL. Never seen divorce between people who married each other for "personality", just kidding. Srs. I'd rather be dumped by a chad or stacy than be dumped by some ugly mofo.
asking me to explain love to you...

lol

good luck
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post 1687283463 07-27-2023, 08:03 AM
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Well,thats life
she wont be around him
if he became jobless for months!

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post 1687283483 07-27-2023, 08:03 AM
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My skinny gf actually dropped a few pounds since we got together.
post 1687283533 07-27-2023, 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted By CalmWind⏩
theres a lot wrong with the beginning

he was never in love

he was in lust


you dont marry someone because they're hot. you dont tell a girl you love her because shes hot.

thats not love.
This is mostly right, you should not marry just for looks, but we really need pics for full assessment. If she let herself go badly, she's really not the same person. There is a limit to this.
post 1687283623 07-27-2023, 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted By CalmWind⏩
asking me to explain love to you...

lol

good luck
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post 1687283713 07-27-2023, 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Jayarbie⏩
This is mostly right, you should not marry just for looks, but we really need pics for full assessment. If she let herself go badly, she's really not the same person. There is a limit to this.
Agreed.

If I blew up to 300 lbs, I would not expect my wife to still be attracted to me, and vice versa. Not only would I look horrible, but clearly I stopped giving a chit about a lot of things if I were to let myself go that badly.

I'd still try to make it work, especially for our kid. But it would definitely put a chit load of strain on the marriage.
post 1687283823 07-27-2023, 08:09 AM
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Originally Posted By CalmWind⏩
theres a lot wrong with the beginning

he was never in love

he was in lust


you dont marry someone because they're hot. you dont tell a girl you love her because shes hot.

thats not love.
[No, but wanting to put your dick inside her is part of a relationship. Otherwise, you're just friends without benefits.

Everyone will age and sag. Can't do anything about that. One thing we actually CAN control is our diet. If you let yourself go to the point the person you're married to is no longer interested in intercourse, you've fukked up.
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post 1687283853 07-27-2023, 08:09 AM
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Can't believe they wrote a yahoo article about a reddit post.

When did some randoms love life become newsworthy
post 1687284193 07-27-2023, 08:16 AM
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Maybe she let herself go when she realized her husband was a Redditor
post 1687284363 07-27-2023, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted By Polaris⏩
Would sloots find it acceptable if a man went from high earner, at marriage, to a low paying job or a NEET rotter? Of course not, women becoming fat pigs is about the female equivalent.
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She was probably doing insane restricting, bulimia and overexercising in the sorority since they all do that.

Then once she stopped her body rebounded and put on a ton of weight.
post 1687285033 07-27-2023, 08:31 AM
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"Reddit didn't agree with guy whom isn't attracted to fat woman"

No surprise.

It's a tough situation no matter how you slice it. On both ends each person set a standard and they are responsible for maintaining that standard. Can't get mad at the other person for wanting the standard they always wanted.
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Originally Posted By sooby⏩
the guy messed up for marrying a women mostly based on her looks. looks are going to fade eventually so what do you got after that?

with that said, it is pretty unacceptable for a man or woman to completely let themselves go after marriage.
and you think women marry men for anything other than money and looks


lol at marriagecels. he can split up with her and enjoy losing 50%+ of his lifes earnings and assets
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A yahoo news article about a random post on reddit. This is real journalism here.
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Both people in a marriage are responsible to take care of themselves physically in a manner that comports with their shared goals and ideals.

If both people have communicated to each other that they are comfortable with letting themselves get out of shape, gain weight, or not care for their appearance, then so be it.

But it does show a lack of respect not only for one’s self, but also for their spouse, if someone lets themself go physically.

If a man became unattractive to his wife due to lack of exercise and poor diet, it would only make sense for her to feel less attracted to him. People can age gracefully and remain attractive to their spouse well into old age if they play their cards right.

We also can’t help who we feel attracted to.
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Originally Posted By Jayarbie⏩
This is mostly right, you should not marry just for looks, but we really need pics for full assessment. If she let herself go badly, she's really not the same person. There is a limit to this.
i said nothing about the weight stuff

all im saying, is you dont tell a woman you love her and ask her to marry you only because she is hot. that is ****ing shallow and deceitful, thats not love


you want to date someone whos hot, fine, be honest but dont ask them to marry you. marriage is a different beast.


thats all i am saying. i havent spoken to the issue about what happened after, re gaining weight
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Originally Posted By CalmWind⏩
i said nothing about the weight stuff

all im saying, is you dont tell a woman you love her and ask her to marry you only because she is hot. that is ****ing shallow and deceitful, thats not love


you want to date someone whos hot, fine, be honest but dont ask them to marry you. marriage is a different beast.


thats all i am saying. i havent spoken to the issue about what happened after, re gaining weight
You're a naive romantic.

I don't consider myself physically attractive at all, but when I tell women what my job is, the next thing out of their mouth is "let's fuk".

Women are even more shallow than men.
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Originally Posted By saltypits⏩
You're a naive romantic.

I don't consider myself physically attractive at all, but when I tell women what my job is, the next thing out of their mouth is "let's fuk".

Women are even more shallow than men.
what, why do you assume i dont know how the world works. i know.

you are talking to someone (me) who does not allow the world to tell me how to act, what to believe in, or what type of man i will be.


i have chosen to be the man i want to be, and believe in the things i want to believe in.

and I will put up a giant middle finger (figuratively) to the world and refuse to let them change me for the worse.
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Originally Posted By CalmWind⏩
i said nothing about the weight stuff

all im saying, is you dont tell a woman you love her and ask her to marry you only because she is hot. that is ****ing shallow and deceitful, thats not love


you want to date someone whos hot, fine, be honest but dont ask them to marry you. marriage is a different beast.


thats all i am saying. i havent spoken to the issue about what happened after, re gaining weight
Who said that was theonlyreason he married her?
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