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post 1688815603 08-23-2023, 08:07 AM
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Can you turn around being 29 , no kids , no gf/ crush ? Life alone ?

- gonna be 30 in September

- absolutely no prospects for a girlfriend right now , and no viable girl that I'm even interested in

- seems like all my ex girlfriends moved on and are happily living life away from me ( which is a bit soul crushing)

- had the chance to lock down a good girl in my mid 20s but I fumbled and didn't envision life turning out this way for me

- I have a decent place to live , decent car , decent job etc ...but still can't seem to get anything going


What should I do ?

Money maxing gets tiring and trivial after awhile and seems to only attract the wrong type of girl

Is there hope for me ? Or in the climate we are now days is it basically over?

Sick of living the same routine pretty much every day of working and then from 5 pm - 12 am ....trying to fill my time in some sort of meaningful way after work gets done.

I go to the gym, I go play basketball, I grocery shop, I walk , I visit parents .

What's the best course of action to switch things up ?
post 1688815683 08-23-2023, 08:09 AM
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Moneymaxing achieves everything, you literally have freedom. I will never stop moneymaxing. Plus it elevates your status which makes you more attractive to any female on the planet (good or bad)

I just want a hot, submissive loyal teenage Girl with a low body count, that’s all that’s missing from my life
post 1688815693 08-23-2023, 08:09 AM
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no.
post 1688815743 08-23-2023, 08:10 AM
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Izz over srs
post 1688815823 08-23-2023, 08:11 AM
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The past is in ur head

The future is in ur hands
post 1688815853 08-23-2023, 08:11 AM
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Why are you so desperate to get a girl? Women don't like desperation.
post 1688815953 08-23-2023, 08:13 AM
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Most guys don’t even try to get women.

They’ve just given up, will sit and complain about being lonely.

If you want a woman you gotta put yourself out there OP.

Go to a bar/club ask out 100 woman.

Be prepared for rejection, most lonely guys scared of this but wear it as a badge of honour.

You can get rejected 99/100 times but all you only need to be successful once brah.
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post 1688815973 08-23-2023, 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
The past is in ur head

The future is in ur hands
Will take note

I have to forget about the past and stop beating myself up over decisions I made 5 years ago
post 1688816023 08-23-2023, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted By ATotemSwole⏩
Most guys don’t even try to get women.

They’ve just given up, will sit and complain about being lonely.

If you want a woman you gotta put yourself out there OP.

Go to a bar/club ask out 100 woman.

Be prepared for rejection, most lonely guys scared of this but wear it as a badge of honour.

You can get rejected 99/100 times but all you only need to be successful once brah.
Thanks

I'm not too scared of rejection

And actually have started bar maxing on the weekends agian after like a long hiatus of going

Hopefully I can meet some girls down there because this online thing is just played out for the most part compared to when I was in early - mid 20s
post 1688816083 08-23-2023, 08:15 AM
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Nope, you're fuked.
post 1688816103 08-23-2023, 08:16 AM
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Originally Posted By HacknyMarsh⏩
Moneymaxing achieves everything, you literally have freedom. I will never stop moneymaxing. Plus it elevates your status which makes you more attractive to any female on the planet (good or bad)

I just want a hot, submissive loyal teenage Girl with a low body count, that’s all that’s missing from my life
Exactly . That's all that's missing for me too

I have my own place to live , car , job, etc just no girl lol
post 1688816153 08-23-2023, 08:17 AM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Nope, you're fuked.
Seriously ?

So the ship has sailed huh
post 1688816223 08-23-2023, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Why are you so desperate to get a girl? Women don't like desperation.
It's not that I'm desperate I just feel like I have everything else set up nicely but just no girl

It's that excitement you feel when you meet a girl you actually genuine like

Haven't experienced that since December of 2021 now and that was a turbulent relationship from start to finish and ended horribly ...funny thing is I don't even worry about her anymore.. only regret is from the girl before her .
post 1688816283 08-23-2023, 08:19 AM
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ask FAPhggot
post 1688816353 08-23-2023, 08:20 AM
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You're a white dude complaining about life, despite JBW existing

Just rope
post 1688816393 08-23-2023, 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted By BrianDaMan⏩
ask FAPhggot
Impossible

He claimed to put me on ignore
post 1688816463 08-23-2023, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzabpress⏩
You're a white dude complaining about life, despite JBW existing

Just rope
Being white doesn't solve everything

You're just race obsessed


I seen a indian guy yesterday with a hot girl
post 1688816613 08-23-2023, 08:25 AM
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Yes.

I mean no one gets any guarantee, but 30 is plenty young enough, especially for a man. You should be able to date women from around 23 up to 33 if you want. All still young enough to start a family.

Could be worth thinking a bit about what you really want while you are single though as you don't have to take anyone else's opinion or plans into consideration. If the usual grind is leaving you cold is it lack of a female partner, or something else that is leaving you dissatisfied?
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post 1688816743 08-23-2023, 08:27 AM
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In the past month I took 3 bumble girls out and both failed :

1 ) 29 Ecuadorian girl . We went for a walk at the waterfront and got dinner. She was alright, but there was nothing pulling me back after the date. And also got the impression she was high maintenance and expected fancy dinners

2) 26 taiwanese girl- she was cute. We met for tacos . Talked after the date for a couple weeks until she just ghosted my last text and I never bothered to attempt a follow up

3 ) annoying korean girl who was like 33 . Met her 4 times ..by the end of the 4th date I was so finished with her.. she actually turned me off to the max. She got about 4 dinners out of me lol....




Gotta start cold approaching ...been bar maxing lately and it feels good to get out and get some in person interactions going
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Yes.

I mean no one gets any guarantee, but 30 is plenty young enough, especially for a man. You should be able to date women from around 23 up to 33 if you want. All still young enough to start a family.

Could be worth thinking a bit about what you really want while you are single though as you don't have to take anyone else's opinion or plans into consideration. If the usual grind is leaving you cold is it lack of a female partner, or something else that is leaving you dissatisfied?
STFU with this bullcrap bluepill advice you old hag

I'm 22 and have never had a women interested in me. I've already given up on life at 22 because I've been bullied by everyone. I'm indian which is the subhuman race

Dried up old women whores like you would never understand the struggles an ugly ethnic man has to go through
post 1688816893 08-23-2023, 08:28 AM
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Yes, I careermaxxed until I was in my mid 30's then met a 24 year old, bought a farm and settled down in the country. Expecting our first child next month. Never too late to make the life you want.
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post 1688816953 08-23-2023, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
In the past month I took 2 bumble girls out and both failed :

1 ) 29 Ecuadorian girl . We went for a walk at the waterfront and got dinner. She was alright, but there was nothing pulling me back after the date. And also got the impression she was high maintenance and expected free dinner

2) 26 taiwanese girl- she was cute. We met for tacos . Talked after the date for a couple weeks until she just ghosted my last text and I never bothered to attempt a follow up


Gotta start cold approaching ...been bar maxing lately and it feels good to get out and get some in person interactions going
You're just a privleged f*cking idiot. You're complaining about life despite getting matches on dating apps and getting girls to go out with you.

I never get matches and girls always ignore me. You should just rope.
post 1688817053 08-23-2023, 08:30 AM
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Im in a similar situation OP and if things don't get better I'm about to ropemaxxx.
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Originally Posted By HacknyMarsh⏩
Moneymaxing achieves everything, you literally have freedom. I will never stop moneymaxing. Plus it elevates your status which makes you more attractive to any female on the planet (good or bad)

I just want a hot, submissive loyal teenage Girl with a low body count, that’s all that’s missing from my life
lol you will never have a woman even close to that
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post 1688817083 08-23-2023, 08:31 AM
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No. Obviously not with your chit attitude.
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Originally Posted By dingler⏩
Yes, I careermaxxed until I was in my mid 30's then met a 24 year old, bought a farm and settled down in the country. Expecting our first child next month. Never too late to make the life you want.
This can only happen if you're white ^^^
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
It's not that I'm desperate I just feel like I have everything else set up nicely but just no girl

It's that excitement you feel when you meet a girl you actually genuine like

Haven't experienced that since December of 2021 now and that was a turbulent relationship from start to finish and ended horribly ...funny thing is I don't even worry about her anymore.. only regret is from the girl before her .
You sound like a sad puppy dog.

There are guys who don't even think about women, yet have numerous women wanting them.
post 1688817123 08-23-2023, 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Yes.

I mean no one gets any guarantee, but 30 is plenty young enough, especially for a man. You should be able to date women from around 23 up to 33 if you want. All still young enough to start a family.

Could be worth thinking a bit about what you really want while you are single though as you don't have to take anyone else's opinion or plans into consideration. If the usual grind is leaving you cold is it lack of a female partner, or something else that is leaving you dissatisfied?
Thank you .

Gotta stop beating myself up over decisions I made 5 years ago

Regret fumbling it with the girl I lived with ...and she apparently has a new guy. I keep envisioning them living a perfect life together...but I don't know what is really taking place , there could be problems with their relationship


But she's always been the type to just blow off old guys completely when she finds something new , I've lost touch with her for now.

My daily grind is annoying , and I want to take a break soon...but for now I have bills to pay etc and Gotta keep it up for now.
post 1688817183 08-23-2023, 08:33 AM
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Originally Posted By twovalvekid⏩
No. Obviously not with your chit attitude.
How can I fix my attitude?
post 1688817223 08-23-2023, 08:33 AM
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Nah being 30+ and single with no kids is much more common now.

With that said set your sights on younger women; they get much, MUCH worse as they get older.
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