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post 1689082053 08-28-2023, 05:56 AM
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Women and empathy

Just like to here your thoughts on women and empathy.

Obviously women have empathy but I think is might be slightly different to how a man has empathy.

I might be wrong on this assumption but it come across to me is the women's ability to empathise is about how it makes them feel.

For example.... The come across a bird with a broken wing. The can show empathy, diligently and selflessly nurse it back to health. This feels good to them.

But I think without this emotion women find it hard to have empathy. Especially showing empathy to someone they have hurt or caused pain too, as to show empathy in this situation makes them feel bad, because they must perceive they have done something wrong.

So they are unable to empathise in this regard. To show empathy means accountability and this is something I rarely see from women.

Not true accountability anyways. You will hear statements like "I'm terrible mum, because of this or this", these statements are always exaggerated to enlist a response from the listener and to provide reasons she's not /stroke her ego.

This relates a lot to dating for obvious reasons.
post 1689083003 08-28-2023, 06:30 AM
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Women are like men, if you take away Logic, Reason and Accountability. So you are correct, sir.
post 1689083133 08-28-2023, 06:34 AM
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Women have empathy, but they also will fake it in order to extract benefits.

So you can't tell if they actually care or are faking it, and when you find out it was all a bull**** act it's not a good feeling.
post 1689083483 08-28-2023, 06:43 AM
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don't think it matters. Either you can maintain a coherent structure or not.

As long as men maintain, they fit in.
post 1689083723 08-28-2023, 06:47 AM
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post 1689085043 08-28-2023, 07:20 AM
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Empathy isn't a real thing. Its Sympathy and then jumps to compassion. You have no objective way to know what someone else is feeling even if you've been through similar experiences.

So no women do not have empathy, its just a word they use to try and feel superior to men, because in reality empathy is just narcissism. "oh something bad happened to you, let me tell you about something (maybe) similar that happened to me so we can talk about me instead."
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post 1689093053 08-28-2023, 10:03 AM
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Women are inherently selfish.

They have to be as they need to think of themselves and their babies first in the wild.

They have to consciously try to overcome this selfishness to be a better person. Most of them dont realize it and never even try.

This is why they get that entitled attitude and see nothing wrong with it.
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I feel like female empathy involves more butting in and trying to play therapist, while male empathy is saying "That sucks" and offers a beer as therapy.
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post 1689093963 08-28-2023, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted By crupiea
Women are inherently selfish.

They have to be as they need to think of themselves and their babies first in the wild.

They have to consciously try to overcome this selfishness to be a better person. Most of them dont realize it and never even try.

This is why they get that entitled attitude and see nothing wrong with it.
This. And this selfish behavior doesn't really go how they plan in the long term since it comes with lack of patience. Not-thinking long-term leads to catastrophe and many men fail in life since they give the lead to their woman. I cannot recall how many times I dodged a bullet by dumping chicks who were ready to sabotage my work so that they can get what they want ASAP.

One example is: A chick I dated once I set my boundaries by telling her to not interfere with my work-routine unless it is really something serious or has something nice to say. The chick never caught that and was always calling me mid-day/ first-day of work/ interview-day etc. to have a really toxic conversation about our relationship. Told her numerous to not do that since I could absolute fail at work if she does it and if she has something to say just wait the end of the day. Unfortunately this never happened and we had to seperate.

The stuff she wanted, she would have got them with a little bit more patience if she wasn't constantly trying to sabotage my workflow. Thus guys, never ever start dating seriously until you are sure you are in the right path to getting your shyt together.

Women will absolutely slow you down with stress, drama and other unnecessary bs. And they will never take accountability for wasting both yours and their time.
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