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post 1691182023 10-05-2023, 03:49 PM
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Just Cold Approach Bro (lol)

https://old.reddit.com/r/askTO/comme...ing_for_dates/

You'll only get outed as a "creep" by the whole city
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post 1691182073 10-05-2023, 03:51 PM
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Cold approaching is awful. If I didn't have jobs where I interacted with chicks daily then I don't know how I'd have ever gotten laid.
post 1691182103 10-05-2023, 03:52 PM
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does toronto have dive bars
Make Europe Germany Again
post 1691182373 10-05-2023, 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
https://old.reddit.com/r/askTO/comme...ing_for_dates/

You'll only get outed as a "creep" by the whole city
Not if you’re good looking.
post 1691182573 10-05-2023, 04:00 PM
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Saw a vid of a guy that thought the same, "worse that can happen is that she says no" lol, so he approached a girl at the gym for the first time ever, he claims he had never approached anyone or talked to anyone until that day, never in his life, and the girl basically told him with an expression of disgust in her face that she was married, then went to the desk and complained about the guy, then he was asked by the staff to leave lol.


"just go for it bro" nowadays simply sucks as an advice. Id say become as high value and attractive as possible, then choose from the women that approach YOU. This comes with its bad sides tho, women that approach men are more often than not sloots/promiscuous, but i guess for just casual fun, it works wonderfully.
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
post 1691182603 10-05-2023, 04:01 PM
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Arcane needs to stick to the mall
post 1691182703 10-05-2023, 04:02 PM
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Were they talking about you, OP?
post 1691182803 10-05-2023, 04:04 PM
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Recent study reported that 75% of women wish they were approached more. Rediscover your balls gentlemen.
post 1691183403 10-05-2023, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuggettabowteet
Recent study reported that 75% of women wish they were approached more. Rediscover your balls gentlemen.
sauce?
post 1691183543 10-05-2023, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuggettabowteet
Recent study reported that 75% of women wish they were approached more. Rediscover your balls gentlemen.
by the guys they like in the first place.
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
post 1691183893 10-05-2023, 04:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
by the guys they like in the first place.
But if you don't try you'll likely never find out if they like you. So try or die alone.
post 1691183983 10-05-2023, 04:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuggettabowteet
But if you don't try you'll likely never find out if they like you. So try or die alone.
If you dont get signs that they like you, most likely they dont like you. A better advice would be to become a man that is liked by women, and also to learn to pick up the cues and signals that women that like you will give.
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
post 1691184203 10-05-2023, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
If you dont get signs that they like you, most likely they dont like you. A better advice would be to become a man that is liked by women, and also to learn to pick up the cues and signals that women that like you will give.
No, trying to interpret female signalling is a fools errand. Make your move. Doesn't have to be overly aggressive, but initiating without invitation is good. It shows confidence. Waiting for the right signal is very weak.
post 1691184293 10-05-2023, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
If you dont get signs that they like you, most likely they dont like you. A better advice would be to become a man that is liked by women, and also to learn to pick up the cues and signals that women that like you will give.
Waiting for signs can actually be better in a situation where you'll likely see them again, not in a brief encounter like a bar or the sidewalk.
post 1691184743 10-05-2023, 04:47 PM
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He didn’t approach me because I may not be his type. I saw him approaching mostly blonde skinny Caucasian women. I am NOT that. I almost called the security at the PATH on him
Call the college police on someone not hitting on them.
post 1691185283 10-05-2023, 04:58 PM
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Cold approaching is kinda weird though tbh.
Not in the AM
post 1691185423 10-05-2023, 05:01 PM
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post 1691186603 10-05-2023, 05:27 PM
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It takes a lot of practice to get comfortable with it. I say keep chipping away at it and feel the rush of stopping exactly who you wanna stop and striking up a pleasant conversation.
post 1691186673 10-05-2023, 05:28 PM
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Just don’t be weird. Dude in the story you posted is actually a creep. Also know your value, if you’re a 4 approaching a 9 you might get a worst reaction
post 1691187823 10-05-2023, 05:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Uhyeahokay
Call the college police on someone not hitting on them.
Lol I noticed this post when scrolling through the link.

Can tell deep down she was pissed off cause she didn’t get approached
post 1691187863 10-05-2023, 05:55 PM
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that reddit coulda gone completely opposite if he was Chad. woulda been "OMG I got a date with that guy who's always walking outside of the bank! Should i wear crotchless panties or nothing?"

instead...

Yes!!! Omg… Asian guy? I saw him 3 weeks ago at the PATH where I work. He was creeping and making conversation with women and I heard a girl saying “sorry I’m engaged” loudly and walk away and literally he started talking to another woman passing by. He didn’t approach me because I may not be his type. I saw him approaching mostly blonde skinny Caucasian women. I am NOT that. I almost called the security at the PATH on him.
post 1691188163 10-05-2023, 06:00 PM
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not a programmer but:

if Chad
run (approach.exe)

else
run (rope.exe)
post 1691188873 10-05-2023, 06:17 PM
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Such is life for Timothy
It is the current year.
post 1691189063 10-05-2023, 06:23 PM
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Cold approaching is a meme unless you’re in a bar and a girl is actually giving some sort of signals, even then it’s risky.

Doing it in public forget it unless you’re some mega chad.

Everyone meets through social media/IG/ dating apps these days.
post 1691190483 10-05-2023, 07:05 PM
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We seriously need to bring back androcentric societies. Why are we even asking, "What do women want?" Who gives a fuark? We should be more concerned with what little power men have these days. Society has been going downhill since chivalry became a thing.
post 1691192203 10-05-2023, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Vorago
We seriously need to bring back androcentric societies. Why are we even asking, "What do women want?" Who gives a fuark? We should be more concerned with what little power men have these days. Society has been going downhill since chivalry became a thing.
This 100%. Being afraid to approach means woman are above men. We live in fear of our superiors not accepting us. It's f*cking pathetic. Get some nuts. Grab em by the pussy. Or just sit back and hope she sends 10 billion signals that you'll just ignore anyway because you're actually a huge gay.
post 1691192503 10-05-2023, 07:59 PM
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lol @ being afraid of cold approaching.

got that over with around the time i was 18 years old
post 1691192573 10-05-2023, 08:01 PM
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Cold approach on a whim or premediated is borderline autistic (srs). Unless you’re a straight stunner, you have to read the room.
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post 1691192713 10-05-2023, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Vascularmanlet
Cold approaching is a meme unless you’re in a bar and a girl is actually giving some sort of signals, even then it’s risky.

Doing it in public forget it unless you’re some mega chad.

Everyone meets through social media/IG/ dating apps these days.
Agreed mostly. True cold approaching is only appropriate in certain situations. But one can always be generally friendly and talkative and see where it goes. But being overly forward in places where it's not socially appropriate or professional usually won't lead to good results.

Basically just use common sense and don't be autistic. Don't be corny or overly forward unless and until you see that she is receptive to that. Learn how to read the reactions and body language.
post 1691193103 10-05-2023, 08:16 PM
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literally met 90% of the girls i banged from cold approach

LOL if you dont have this skill

its like a hidden super power for dating

stay a incel
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