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ยป Made a plan with girl seeing Friday, but sisters birthday party also that night. What
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post 1692601613 10-31-2023, 09:09 AM
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Made a plan with girl seeing Friday, but sisters birthday party also that night. What

What do ***??
- been seeing this girl ever weekend past few weeks / months

- Friday she came up with a plan, I was suppose to go to her place eat dinner with her sister ( they live together )

- girl said Friday will most likely work, unless she has to drive back and fourth to another province that day for work...she said if she does , we can do it Saturday.

- my mom texted me last night said " ( my sister)--- wants to her her party Friday night " ( her birthday doesn't even fall on that day ) so leave it open "

- should I message girl and try to reschedule for Saturday since she already said that might be possibility?

* it's just, I try to be a man of my word and hate flaking on people. And technically we did make that plan before my sisters thing came up.

What would you do ? Ideally she would reschedule it on Saturday because she night have to drive long distance Friday...but it could be Thursday instead.
post 1692601883 10-31-2023, 09:16 AM
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sounds like you gotta attempt the fred flinstone be at two places at once thing



hopefully hilarity ensues for you brah
post 1692601903 10-31-2023, 09:16 AM
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family is more important than new sloot, tell her you gotta reschedule cuz its your sisters b-day

if she is worth keeping around she'll understand, if you aren't even in a place w/ her to invite her then definitely don't choose her over family

its tuesday, not like you're cancelling last minute

wtf did you make plans on your sisters birthday? that was stupid af
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post 1692602023 10-31-2023, 09:20 AM
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I would tell her you'd like to reschedule for Sat just to be safe, because you found out your sister's birthday party is Friday, and because she already told you Sat should work. To the extent you are potentially interested in more seriously dating this girl by this point, you could also invite her to your sister's party (likely depending on whether it's meant to be just a small family thing or not).
post 1692602043 10-31-2023, 09:20 AM
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pics of sister?
post 1692602093 10-31-2023, 09:21 AM
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah
pics of sister?
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post 1692602163 10-31-2023, 09:23 AM
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Unless your sister is gonna suck your peen, you already know what to do
post 1692602173 10-31-2023, 09:23 AM
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You are 4 days out. Cancelling with an automatic reschedule for the following day is completely appropriate.
post 1692602233 10-31-2023, 09:24 AM
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Send her a dink pic.
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post 1692602263 10-31-2023, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted By viccruise420
family is more important than new sloot, tell her you gotta reschedule cuz its your sisters b-day

if she is worth keeping around she'll understand, if you aren't even in a place w/ her to invite her then definitely don't choose her over family

its tuesday, not like you're cancelling last minute

wtf did you make plans on your sisters birthday? that was stupid af
Thanks bro

I made the plan because it's actually a few days before her actually birth date. She just wants to celebrate that day because she's busy on the actual date or something

I'll text her later and see what she thinks of Saturday ( the girl )

Don't wanna mess this one up with the girl because she seems cool and we been hanging out each weekend for a month or so now
post 1692602303 10-31-2023, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman
I would tell her you'd like to reschedule for Sat just to be safe, because you found out your sister's birthday party is Friday, and because she already told you Sat should work. To the extent you are potentially interested in more seriously dating this girl by this point, you could also invite her to your sister's party (likely depending on whether it's meant to be just a small family thing or not).
Thanks bro.
That's what I'll think I'll do . Just see if Saturday could work ..since she already said it might if she has to drive long distance Friday
post 1692602353 10-31-2023, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Austanian
You are 4 days out. Cancelling with an automatic reschedule for the following day is completely appropriate.
That's right

Will have to figure it out tonight latest

If she's down for Saturday, it will all work out
post 1692602393 10-31-2023, 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted By cobhc
Send her a dink pic.
Lol
post 1692602413 10-31-2023, 09:28 AM
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how old is your sister
post 1692602523 10-31-2023, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted By ProudKraut
Unless your sister is gonna suck your peen, you already know what to do
Lmao ,my first thiught was just to blow off the birthday party but I don't wanna be a dink . And if it can be reschedule for Saturday no harm.

And I have no real reason to tell me mom " yeah I won't be there as I'm hanging out with a sloot " doesn't sound right
post 1692602703 10-31-2023, 09:32 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy
Lmao ,my first thiught was just to blow off the birthday party but I don't wanna be a dink . And if it can be reschedule for Saturday no harm.

And I have no real reason to tell me mom " yeah I won't be there as I'm hanging out with a sloot " doesn't sound right
Is there a chance that you can tag the girl and her sister at the same time? If so, mom will understand. You can't blow a shot like that.
post 1692603613 10-31-2023, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Jayarbie
Is there a chance that you can tag the girl and her sister at the same time? If so, mom will understand. You can't blow a shot like that.
Just one of the challenges of living in the same city as family. They are always asking me to do things . But it's also a good thing.

Last couple weekends I had to blow them off. They kept wondering if I have a new girl


I had a rough break up , I am not ready to tell my folks I'm dating again. And certainly not gonna tell them I'm seeing a girl before I know for sure it'll work out.
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