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01-14-2024, 02:46 PM
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How strong is your ability to stave off temptation?
If a pretty 8/10 sloot (your definition) was in your bed, wearing only a thong and asking you to fuk her, would you be able to simply walk away and not do anything?
Scenario A: you’re in a committed relationship with a girl you love and have been with for multiple years
Scenario B: you’re married with kids
Scenario A: you’re in a committed relationship with a girl you love and have been with for multiple years
Scenario B: you’re married with kids
01-14-2024, 02:50 PM
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01-14-2024, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Composed⏩
YeahIf a pretty 8/10 sloot (your definition) was in your bed, wearing only a thong and asking you to fuk her, would you be able to simply walk away and not do anything?
Scenario A: you’re in a committed relationship with a girl you love and have been with for multiple years
Scenario B: you’re married with kids
Scenario A: you’re in a committed relationship with a girl you love and have been with for multiple years
Scenario B: you’re married with kids
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01-14-2024, 02:57 PM
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The key to dealing with temptations isn’t having a strong will power. It’s staying mentally true to how you live your life.
If you are committed and in a relationship, not watching porn and fantasizing about banging other people, not thinking about hooking up with other women as a possibility, not entertaining those notions, creates less possibilities of temptation.
That being said it takes more will power to change your thoughts than anything else and we aren’t always rational beings. But a big key I would say is organizing your thoughts so there isn’t any rational possibilities, like the scenario you posted where behavior you wouldn’t actually do is mentally acceptable.
If you are committed and in a relationship, not watching porn and fantasizing about banging other people, not thinking about hooking up with other women as a possibility, not entertaining those notions, creates less possibilities of temptation.
That being said it takes more will power to change your thoughts than anything else and we aren’t always rational beings. But a big key I would say is organizing your thoughts so there isn’t any rational possibilities, like the scenario you posted where behavior you wouldn’t actually do is mentally acceptable.
01-14-2024, 03:01 PM
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I have extreme high level will power srs
01-14-2024, 03:02 PM
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This has less to do with will power and everything to do with morals.
Unfortunately most men are anti moral degenerates. So most would smash regardless of the consequences
Unfortunately most men are anti moral degenerates. So most would smash regardless of the consequences
01-14-2024, 03:08 PM
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In either scenario it’s a really dumb idea to throw away years with a partner over one bout of sex, no matter how hot she is.
01-14-2024, 03:15 PM
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01-14-2024, 03:27 PM
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I would definitely get an eye full for a moment, maybe even say a few flirty things back and forth quickly, but then ultimately leave without smashing or going any further if I was in a relationship and cared about the girl. This is like the dream of a pre-sex teenager, where that scenario, in their mind, is the greatest thing ever that could happen. Once you have had some 8/10s (to you), it is still great, but the hype goes down and you just enjoy it for what it is.
Wait, she is in MY bed? I guess I have to ask her to get dressed and leave, then change the locks. Its my obligation to watch her get dressed and leave though (I want to make sure that she doesn't steal or purposely leave something for the girlfriend to find later).
Wait, she is in MY bed? I guess I have to ask her to get dressed and leave, then change the locks. Its my obligation to watch her get dressed and leave though (I want to make sure that she doesn't steal or purposely leave something for the girlfriend to find later).
01-14-2024, 03:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Duckliver⏩
This is true. If you have conviction it's really not that tough. But you have to be mentally tough and live by a specific moral compass.The key to dealing with temptations isn’t having a strong will power. It’s staying mentally true to how you live your life.
If you are committed and in a relationship, not watching porn and fantasizing about banging other people, not thinking about hooking up with other women as a possibility, not entertaining those notions, creates less possibilities of temptation.
That being said it takes more will power to change your thoughts than anything else and we aren’t always rational beings. But a big key I would say is organizing your thoughts so there isn’t any rational possibilities, like the scenario you posted where behavior you wouldn’t actually do is mentally acceptable.
If you are committed and in a relationship, not watching porn and fantasizing about banging other people, not thinking about hooking up with other women as a possibility, not entertaining those notions, creates less possibilities of temptation.
That being said it takes more will power to change your thoughts than anything else and we aren’t always rational beings. But a big key I would say is organizing your thoughts so there isn’t any rational possibilities, like the scenario you posted where behavior you wouldn’t actually do is mentally acceptable.
01-14-2024, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
It's only hard when someone is faking it. Because they are consciously trying to be someone they are not.This is true. If you have conviction it's really not that tough. But you have to be mentally tough and live by a specific moral compass.
"it takes a wise man to know when he is in error and a noble man to admit to it"
01-14-2024, 03:43 PM
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01-14-2024, 03:49 PM
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The key to staying faithful is not putting yourself out n situations where something like this can happen.
Take Kevin Hart for example, what is he doing riding alone in the backseat of a limo with a female that isn’t his wife?
I tell all the young people this. Do not be alone in the room with the opposite sex. Boys and girls will always eventually end up fuking if they are alone together long enough.
Take Kevin Hart for example, what is he doing riding alone in the backseat of a limo with a female that isn’t his wife?
I tell all the young people this. Do not be alone in the room with the opposite sex. Boys and girls will always eventually end up fuking if they are alone together long enough.
01-14-2024, 03:55 PM
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when ive been in love ive never really desired to cheat, except for that one time big titties followed me home after work but we were on a break so it all worked out fine.
that being said it depends on the girl and my frame of mind at the time, id never cheat on a girl who couldnt handle it mentally but most if not all women ive been with would take sharing me instead of losing me over cheating
that being said it depends on the girl and my frame of mind at the time, id never cheat on a girl who couldnt handle it mentally but most if not all women ive been with would take sharing me instead of losing me over cheating
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