It's not your income, your physique, your political opinions, your slay count.

What really makes people a loser is their fixation on what everybody else thinks. If they're around or exposed to a bunch of losers, they'll end up sharing the same opinions and energies. No hippie, but I really think if you're stuck with people who have zero drive, underwhelmingly limited goals, and weak ambitions for long enough you'll end up slowly adjusting towards that yourself.

What makes you a winner is wanting to always excel, achieve higher heights, never settling, asserting self value, and aspiring to live up towards the ideal version of yourself everyday. This exudes hope, breeds positivity, and makes you desirable.

This is the opposite of hippie logic

Even Confusious said you are the 5 people you hang around