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Thread: Is it better to have a rotation or 1 solid main girl?

post 1697802893 02-13-2024, 11:22 AM
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Is it better to have a rotation or 1 solid main girl?

- starting to think it's better to just have one main girl - that I've been dating since early September. I admire her personality and actually enjoy spending time with her

- had a couple side chicks on the go to...but I'm starting to realize it can be a pain in the ass trying to keep up with a main girl that you really care about and some side girls that you don't really care about on that level

For example I'm sitting at work rn tired as fk , side girl trying to invite herself over for after work .it's tempting to smash, but man would I rather just have a peaceful quiet evening with no bs

- also I had an argument with another side girl and she blocked me. Don't really care because my main girl is what matters , but it still hits you with that waive of bad vibes and regret ...


My point is when you work a full time job and kinda busy , it can be down right exhausting to focus on your main girl and entertain sides like you will never have a free night to yourself


Never doing some bs on my main girl and mistreating her, because I really feel lucky we met

Thoughts?
post 1697803023 02-13-2024, 11:24 AM
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Depends on the main girl. If she’s truly solid, then no need to have a rotation.
post 1697803063 02-13-2024, 11:26 AM
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Make your own decisions dummy
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post 1697803113 02-13-2024, 11:26 AM
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didn't read a word, negged for no pics
post 1697803343 02-13-2024, 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka⏩
Depends on the main girl. If she’s truly solid, then no need to have a rotation.
Starting to feel that way bro

I think dealing with a lot of females just brings a level of confusion

And nobody I met even came close to my main , so I don't wanna fk around and lose her
post 1697803383 02-13-2024, 11:38 AM
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tell us the truth, bro
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post 1697803413 02-13-2024, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Starting to feel that way bro

I think dealing with a lot of females just brings a level of confusion

And nobody I met even came close to my main , so I don't wanna fk around and lose her
Good luck breh. Just go with what feels right. Don’t overthink things. Let love take over.
post 1697803423 02-13-2024, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
tell us the truth, bro
I don't get it lol
post 1697803473 02-13-2024, 11:42 AM
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Plainly better to have 1 solid girl.
post 1697803503 02-13-2024, 11:43 AM
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post 1697803643 02-13-2024, 11:47 AM
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Bro its whatever you want...

Personally, having a wify is ideal. Just one chick.

Are you trying to flex that you have so many options now or seriously can't just figure out yourself wtf you wanna do lmao
money, cars, clothes and hoes is all a miscer knows
post 1697803803 02-13-2024, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted By viccruise420⏩
Bro its whatever you want...

Personally, having a wify is ideal. Just one chick.

Are you trying to flex that you have so many options now or seriously can't just figure out yourself wtf you wanna do lmao
No it just that i used to think it was cool to be this big player dating multiple women

But now I realize it's actually time consuming and exhausting as fk...and can be emotionally draining

And I'm kinda asking myself now why do I bother when I met someone I consider wife material


Not trying flex or anything
post 1697804243 02-13-2024, 12:05 PM
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it's better to be a cuck and cry about some asian fob that doesn't even respect you then post about it about a dying forum and revolve your life around it

I think once you finally get laid, you'll find it's not all it's cracked up to be and that all women are the same.
post 1697804303 02-13-2024, 12:06 PM
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Idk how u ****** work a job & have time for rotations
I get home & im done with EVERYBODY. I got 3 hrs before i need to sleep u can bet ur ass im not entertaining no side chicks.
post 1697804383 02-13-2024, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted By truesteez⏩
it's better to be a cuck and cry about some asian fob that doesn't even respect you then post about it about a dying forum and revolve your life around it

I think once you finally get laid, you'll find it's not all it's cracked up to be and that all women are the same.
Post makes no sense bro
post 1697804453 02-13-2024, 12:08 PM
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Originally Posted By LonelyHustler⏩
Idk how u ****** work a job & have time for rotations
I get home & im done with EVERYBODY. I got 3 hrs before i need to sleep u can bet ur ass im not entertaining no side chicks.
This is exactly the mood I'm in

Off at 5 , I just wanna chill out and be done with the day .

I find when you get messing with multiple women, you WILL never have a night to yourself or very rarely
post 1697804533 02-13-2024, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By truesteez⏩
it's better to be a cuck and cry about some asian fob that doesn't even respect you then post about it about a dying forum and revolve your life around it

I think once you finally get laid, you'll find it's not all it's cracked up to be and that all women are the same.
Haven't talked to that bird in 1.5 years

I've smashed literally countless girls since then

And found a much better main girl im thinking about going all in with...talking marriage and kids
post 1697804553 02-13-2024, 12:09 PM
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1 main girl and it’s not even close.

The only thing better is a main girl who is cool with you banging whores on the side.
post 1697804573 02-13-2024, 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Post makes no sense bro
I knew you wouldn't understand
post 1697804583 02-13-2024, 12:10 PM
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What is with this guy repetitively posting on the same inane topic day in and day out I mean come on what kind of socially inept weirdo does that
post 1697804683 02-13-2024, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Thunderpants⏩
What is with this guy repetitively posting on the same inane topic day in and day out I mean come on what kind of socially inept weirdo does that
he's high from sniffing the fudge teriyaki anacondas his asian crush leaves in his apartment
post 1697804733 02-13-2024, 12:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Thunderpants⏩
What is with this guy repetitively posting on the same inane topic day in and day out I mean come on what kind of socially inept weirdo does that
Wouldn't call personal relationships a " inane " topic genius

And I barely make any threads anymore this is my first in what..a month?

If you're gonna troll , pay better attention . Thx
post 1697804833 02-13-2024, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted By GuineaDago585⏩
1 main girl and it’s not even close.

The only thing better is a main girl who is cool with you banging whores on the side.
Beginning to adapt your philosophy bro

I see something special in my main girl that all these others girls I encountered with lack

Might have to go all in

Very rarely I meet a girl I'm actually certain about..Can't lose it
post 1697804953 02-13-2024, 12:18 PM
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main not even close. sucks they're not replacible easily
post 1697805263 02-13-2024, 12:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Thunderpants⏩
What is with this guy repetitively posting on the same inane topic day in and day out I mean come on what kind of socially inept weirdo does that
MAN thats the problem with this fking website and the reason I rarely post a thread anymore

Ask something with complete sincerity and you get whack job trolls coming out of nowhere to neg you like this piece of work ^

What do u gain from this behavior? Does belittling others make you feel like a big man ? Fk outta here
post 1697805283 02-13-2024, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted By ithappenss⏩
main not even close. sucks they're not replacible easily
Right on bro

Thinking the same

Thx for your input
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
This is exactly the mood I'm in

Off at 5 , I just wanna chill out and be done with the day .

I find when you get messing with multiple women, you WILL never have a night to yourself of very rarely
Youre gonna atleast argue with one & ruin your sleep.
Thats what happens to me when im on the phone i try to go to bed by 8:30. End up staying up untill 1am
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Originally Posted By LonelyHustler⏩
Youre gonna atleast argue with one & ruin your sleep.
Thats what happens to me when im on the phone i try to go to bed by 8:30. End up staying up untill 1am
Yup had an argument with one side girl earlier today , broke it off , got blocked.

Other side girl still trying to come over


Talked to the side girl who blocked me for like a year too..I'm straight and not gonna be depressed or anything ..but that's enough for me to just regroup and refocus for tmrw
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depends on your values and what your end goal is...
I see no reason to have multiple chicks as an adult, unless you're mormon or something
sex is fun and cool, but I've always felt like the thrill is in the chase. I don't think banging a 10/10 who're would be as rewarding as banging an average girl I had a crush on
Maybe if the side chicks are paying for dinners/dates, and fukking you on command, but even then I'd feel so guilty if I had a girl I was truly into
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46⏩
depends on your values and what your end goal is...
I see no reason to have multiple chicks as an adult, unless you're mormon or something
sex is fun and cool, but I've always felt like the thrill is in the chase. I don't think banging a 10/10 who're would be as rewarding as banging an average girl I had a crush on
Maybe if the side chicks are paying for dinners/dates, and fukking you on command, but even then I'd feel so guilty if I had a girl I was truly into
I'm 30 now..can honestly see myself marrying or having kids with my main girl. Been dating hard since September...talking Like spending most weekends together etc

And my sides aren't as attractive visually either


The side that wants to come tonight is an easy smash but she's not as attractive . She offered to bring drinks and something to cook


Meeting up with my main obviously for valentines day tmrw


Think I'll cool it on the others for now and continue to focus on her...just get that feeling that she is a genuine good person
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