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post 1698183993 02-21-2024, 05:30 PM
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So 1st dates, what else are you guys doing after drinks?

Curious what some of you guys are doing now for a 1st date. I'm having a date on Friday and I need to start planning what to do after. Mini games? Timeframe important?
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Know your prey and then you'll know your course of action. Still, I suggest first dates should be relatively closer to her home in case things aren't going well, comfortable, not pricey, and casual where conversations could be had. Easy thing is grab dinner, museum or art expo, then a drink. A museum or art show helps because you can both comment on things and not stress about holding conversations. Easy dinner ideas are definitely sushi, especially when you sit at the bar so you can talk about that. Easy...
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drinks, if it's going really well, maybe ice cream. Either near her place or yours.

There's nothing wrong with just a few drinks for the first date while she gets comfortable with you. Depending how it goes, I usually offer to pick them up for the second date.
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Originally Posted By DeputyDong5⏩
drinks, if it's going really well, maybe ice cream. Either near her place or yours.

There's nothing wrong with just a few drinks for the first date while she gets comfortable with you. Depending how it goes, I usually offer to pick them up for the second date.
she'd just come here on the 2nd. we're a bit far apart. thanks for the rest of the input
so the other guy said drinks first hmm. not trying to get her too tipsy to drive. she hardly drinks at all so should be ok
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Go out for drinks, food, something fun, and then call the night. Don’t be eager to stay out all night with her SRS. No need to rush sex unless you just want to fukk and not date. Do that second or third date, IMO.
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Where are you two having drinks? What time?

Every girls different but PERSONALLY, when I go on dates I always love to get food first, like a little dinner or nice dinner, and drinks there as well. It shows me that we can actually have a conversation and also I love to get dressed, eat & try new restaurants lol. Then from there if it’s good I suggest a place for drinks, we go, it can go great there or we hit another spot, by then we’re both turnt and go back and smash almost always

However I’m also only ever taking girls on dates that I would take seriously / want to see again
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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah⏩
Go out for drinks, food, something fun, and then call the night. Don’t be eager to stay out all night with her SRS. No need to rush sex unless you just want to fukk and not date. Do that second or third date, IMO.
right this is a date with serious intentions. thank you
Originally Posted By Sevenlionz⏩
Where are you two having drinks? What time?

Every girls different but PERSONALLY, when I go on dates I always love to get food first, like a little dinner or nice dinner, and drinks there as well. It shows me that we can actually have a conversation and also I love to get dressed, eat & try new restaurants lol. Then from there if it’s good I suggest a place for drinks, we go, it can go great there or we hit another spot, by then we’re both turnt and go back and smash almost always

However I’m also only ever taking girls on dates that I would take seriously / want to see again
I don't know, we're far apart right now. I was thinking meet halfway but what do you guys think
edit: not as far as I thought but probably about 30 miles
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Originally Posted By ShakeBrah⏩
Go out for drinks, food, something fun, and then call the night. Don’t be eager to stay out all night with her SRS. No need to rush sex unless you just want to fukk and not date. Do that second or third date, IMO.
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So does everyone just f*ck on the first date? This does not seem accurate to me. Seems misc made up like how everyone is CEO 6'0'' Chad with a 9'' cock


It probably depends on your goal with this girl. If I'm trying to actually date a girl then I'm like 50/50 on whether I even want to kiss on the first date. If not the first definitely kiss the 2nd date though. As for sex I'm more than fine with it being 3-7 dates in before that happens if my goal is to date the girl.

If the goal is just f*ck her and you really don't want to do anything else with her then sure it's more of a ASAP goal.
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What's her interests? hobbies? Is this a blind date or do you know anything about the girl? If blind date then keep it simple; dinner/drinks/walk in the park or bowling, pool etc. I would not shag on the first date.
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Originally Posted By Shortfuze⏩
What's her interests? hobbies? Is this a blind date or do you know anything about the girl? If blind date then keep it simple; dinner/drinks/walk in the park or bowling, pool etc. I would not shag on the first date.
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Also where did you meet her? Online or IRL?
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Originally Posted By Shortfuze⏩
What's her interests? hobbies? Is this a blind date or do you know anything about the girl? If blind date then keep it simple; dinner/drinks/walk in the park or bowling, pool etc. I would not shag on the first date.
we've been talking every day since last week. she's cool and open to anything. she's already on a pool team so she plays pool often. i brought up museums or art gallery or arcade or fair and she's up to any of it.
Originally Posted By wampa⏩
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Also where did you meet her? Online or IRL?
i went to a valentine's day event and nobody showed up but the host hooked us up.
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I haven't had a first date in alongtime, but I used to use the theatre. Meet for one drink before you go in, have another during intermission, then if it's going well you can have a late dinner etc. If it isn't going well, you "have stuff to do the following morning".
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Originally Posted By TryingMen⏩
So does everyone just f*ck on the first date? This does not seem accurate to me. Seems misc made up like how everyone is CEO 6'0'' Chad with a 9'' cock


It probably depends on your goal with this girl. If I'm trying to actually date a girl then I'm like 50/50 on whether I even want to kiss on the first date. If not the first definitely kiss the 2nd date though. As for sex I'm more than fine with it being 3-7 dates in before that happens if my goal is to date the girl.

If the goal is just f*ck her and you really don't want to do anything else with her then sure it's more of a ASAP goal.
lol @ the retard above who is constantly craving validation on here from strangers saying he almost always smashes first date but also only dates girls he takes "seriously"

u wot m8.

I've never turned down sex on a first date but that automatically rules out anything serious developing. You were just one of many. That's turbosloot behavior.
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LOL @ these boyos saying to go to dinner on a 1st date. What the fuk is this, 1994?? I'm showing up an hour early to get a head start on drinks, having 2 more when she shows up, and then I'm bouncing. It's up to her if she wants to come along or not. If she says she not ready for the night to end = she's dtf. If you both say good night you come off as a gentleman. But LOL @ giving a sloot a free meal on the first date. She's gotta swallow a few kids before that.....srs, vry srs.
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Originally Posted By havoc00⏩
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Originally Posted By tripod29⏩
LOL @ these boyos saying to go to dinner on a 1st date. What the fuk is this, 1994?? I'm showing up an hour early to get a head start on drinks, having 2 more when she shows up, and then I'm bouncing. It's up to her if she wants to come along or not. If she says she not ready for the night to end = she's dtf. If you both say good night you come off as a gentleman. But LOL @ giving a sloot a free meal on the first date. She's gotta swallow a few kids before that.....srs, vry srs.
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If you want a relationship with the girl take her do something fun like top golf or go for a drive and sing to the radio.

If you just want to smash then go smash and drop her off.
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Don’t do food unless you know she is truly interested def fkn srs. Take her out for 1-2 drinks then gauge it from there. If there is a connection grab a slice of pizza after and that’s it. Keep the date under 20 dollars
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Depends on if you’re going for the free shag or not
I always try for something a bit active, like walking by some body of water or in the forest
Or as suggested walking in a museum or art gallery
Not just sitting


You should talk to her while doing this as well, ask her thoughtful questions about herself


Then you can go for half priced apps and dollaritas
Originally Posted By HairyWBush⏩
we've been talking every day since last week. she's cool and open to anything. she's already on a pool team so she plays pool often. i brought up museums or art gallery or arcade or fair and she's up to any of it.

i went to a valentine's day event and nobody showed up but the host hooked us up.
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