Just got told
To stfu about my mom’s dad and stop talking about him. Korean War vet, big drunk and never was around for my mom and her siblings. Neither was the mom- she was a drunk too

My dad just politely yet sternly told me to stfu about them, that family is scum they never did anything.

Kinda feel all weird about that considering it’s still my blood. But idk maybe he’s right

there's a lot to unpack here

Family. Drama.

Holy fuk

The best way to deal with family drama is to not deal with it

Was "the mom" your mom, or are you talking about your grandfather's wife?

i am Korean War vet, big drunk and let me tell you, being Korean War vet, big drunk is actually a great thing. we have beautiful people and we have ugly people. just like any race. I for 1 am a great person, have great friends, and i take care of every one that is in my life and i am glad to do it, and for that i have people that love me around me. also, Korean War vet, big drunk parents are one of the best parents you can have. sometimes they can be really strict, but they will take care of you no matter what, and they will buy you what ever it is that you need. as long as your not a selfish ****head. Also, we all have great jobs, lots of money and a family that we all love and take care off. suck my dick op suck my dick.

So they’re almost 100? Just wait a few years

My grandma. She was chit when I was a kid- my mom raised all her siblings.

I would never in a million years deal with this stuff. Such low class behavior.

I went to a bachelor party a few months ago, and my buddy had this old guy there who is kind of his “mentor”, but the guy treats him like a son kinda. This guy was yelling at me for being drunk, and eventually after like 10 min of this old guy yelling I just got up and left back to my hotel and booked a flight out the next morning. In my late 30s, I’m not willing to deal with anything like this. And it devalues you as a person if you sit there and take it(or get involved with it).