Cliffs

-Mom has section 8 and can't hold down a job
-Mom quit job last month and her lease ends in April.
-Mom was planning on moving to my house while she looks for new job/apartment in a different town.
-If mom doesn't find new apartment within 3 months she loses her section 8 and since she cannot hold down a job idk how the fuk she will support herself.
- I told my mom this idea is horrible and she should stay on the lease until she finds work/ new apartment and she can live with me sometimes if she needs to get away from her place because she hates her neighbors making noise all the time.
-she told me don't worry she won't live with me for more than 3 months I said how TF are you gonna find a new apartment in 3 months she said she will just live in a rooming house with druggys and **** I said no ****ing way. She starts crying because I called out her plan as ****ing stupid.


-GF wants key to my house
-GF keeps pressure me to marry her
-Worked things out with GF told her yea next year when things are better financially we can get engaged
-thought we were good went to see her this past weekend she starts crying again after seeing her friend saying that she doesn't know where I stand and blah blah I thought we already worked this **** out so I said here's my key to my house you win I'm not in the mood to argue these days



AM I BEING MANIPULATED

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but do you really even have to ask?

If your mom moves in, shes never getting out.Offer to pay for a motel room or something.

Cliffs for cliffs?

I'm broke I can hardly offer much to her my mortgage alone eats up 60% of my income but I cannot fuking understand her reasoning for me questioning this whole gameplan she has I think it's in woman nature to manipulate I love my mom she knows I won't allow her to be in a rooming house Idk if she's trying to stay in my spare bedroom permanently I like having my space I don't want her living here permanently.

Today o just found out she doesn't have to commit to another year to stay in her current apartment so I said what the **** then why don't you just resign it and live with me, on paper you live there and keep section 8 until you find a better spot but you can stay with me like 3 weeks per month until then after i said that she got all defensive and sad thats when k started Wondering if i am being manipulated she left that information out

Chitty situation brah. I couldn't live with mom again. She 100% won't leave once she moves in so be prepared for that

Giving your GF a key makes sense, but the idea of marriage when not financially ready is definitely manipulation

Mom is using you and if you continue to offer her support she will never be able to understand the stupidity of her choices. She is an adult and needs to act like one and make smart choices. She has a safety net already of the section 8 so she doesnt need more.

Its not a real stretch to ask her to make the choice of keeping a roof over her head. Soon as she gets into your place she will never pay rent or leave. What will you do if that happens?

Now imagine what will happen when she moves in, wont leave, wont pay rent, quits her job. Then add your girlfriend moving in on top of that. Hell, you might as well move out at that point and keep paying all the bills because thats a recipe of how that happens.

Not trying to be a dick but you have to look after yourself first. Others will think of themselves only but tell you otherwise.

your mom is acting that way because she hasnt had some dick in a while. you got to find a guy to fuk her good and then she will chill out. maybe one of the older guys at work that are divorced, introduce your mom to them.

Did you mean rarely or really?

My mom has government support I don't understand her judgement right now she has her own place and section 8 why do I have to support her? I already did tell her if she's set on living in a rooming house she can just stay with me at that point it's just checkmate on her part because I won't let it happen but I feel like I'm being manipulated idk what is going on in her head this judgement is completely irrationalRepped great inputI think it has more to do with her hating the town she lives in and hating the neighbors she has for being noisy. She is really blowing my mind with her life choices. She quits every job within 3 months, then says she is depressed when she doesn't work. She says she hates being stuck in her town but refuses to drive out of fear. Now she had zero gameplan on what will happen if she loses her section 8 she has no money and no retirement funds what the fuk do I have to deal with here I told her that her judgement is clearly ****ed right now and to talk to her therapist. Regarding her personal relationship life I don't even wanna think about that lmao

Pics of mom & gf ?

Go back to germany, you leech.

You're always posting about wanting to cheat on your gf


Hopes she fuks you over

"I raised you"
"We're not having sex until we're engaged!"

This but with them kissing and touching each other's boobs.