so this situation is as follows:

I wanna get my gf some jewellry
I dont normally buy my girlfriends jewellry, but this time i think i might - its what she keeps hinting at.

turns out, decent jewellry is f*king expensive, and i didnt realise just how expensive until today

On one hand, i want to get her something nice but ive only been seeing this girl for just under a year, and honestly i feel a bit of a cuck for spending a load of money on her this early on

we met right before her birthday - so basically the gift would be for both anniversary and birthday combined. for that reason i can justify spending a bit more, but how much is too much ?

not to mention, in the back of my mind is the possibility that one day we might break up, and shes gonna be wearing it while another guy bottoms her out. that thought riles me

i have a decent paying job and i can afford a reasonable figure, i guess she question is should i, rather than could i.