I don't understand this mentality on here. I NEVER put down someone down on here about how they look? Who really cares about a bunch of strangers on an internet forum to insult a random woman and be mean to her? What did I do to deserve this? Just because I had sex with younger men when my husband stopped having sex with me and I told him look, if you don't do it I'll go elsewhere.

Do you think my Grandmothers worried about how they looked in their 50s in comparison to their 20s? Of course we look better in our 20s. Men in their 20s loo better than men in their 50s. Water is wet.

How many women do I know in their 50s who get ripped on that they don't look like 20 year olds? This place has the most ****ed up mentality.

What do you expect us to do when we age? It's inevitable for all of us?

Like I said in my earlier thread I used to stress out about my size SO much in my 20s and hear a guy say that 135 was too much and feel bad that I weighed 140, or read husband's Playboys and see that my measurements were bigger than the models. Instead I could have been worrying about much healthier issues? Wouldn't it be better to worry about your children and raising them properly over your own measurements and how they align with what men want?

It's so nice to not worry about that, to not try to get attention from men on the street and measure my wroth by how many whistles I get. It's very freeing. I felt that way when I was pregnant as well.

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