Other than SS on here. They will hook up with young guys a few times after divorce but then go for a guy their age or older for a relationship, especially when they see the cost of living on your own.

My friends all plead with me to find an older guy. I was just talking to one age 41, but he said, "congratulations on the new house" in regards to my move. I said I own a house but I'm moving to an apartment, which I know sounds weird, so he asked me why and I said I own the house with my ex. Then he said, "if you're divorced haven't you split the assets". Anyways any guy over 35 does this, whereas guys under 35 don't care that I'm legally married still.

My divorce could take years as my ex is stalling and after 30 years of marriage we have a lot of assets.

Anyhow I joined this forum because I figured younger men could offer advice about younger men, and it has helped as I was delusional many years ago that I could get a young guy for a relationship as 3 of my friends did and one married a guy 15 years younger. Well those 3 haven't worked out.

One of my Mom's friend's marriage with a 20 year age difference (he's younger) has worked out. They met at work and he doesn't want kids. I'm sure it was weird in the beginning that he was close to her kids' age, but they have stayed married for 20 years. He's kind of nerdy, though, so I may have to go that route if guys my age don't work out and stop seeing the Chads.