Girlfriend went on vacation with her mom to Norway and Iceland for 2 weeks and had to fly straight to a business meetings in NYC to meet with other executives until Thursday. I dont mind cause we are going on vacation for a week in August and then 2 weeks in February to Argentina and then an excursion to Antarctica and I only have so much PTO. I love my girlfriend and she loves me. She cries Everytime she leaves for more than a few days because she knows she will miss me. And I have never cheated on any of my girlfriends and would never cheat on her. However that still doesn't make temptation easy to turn down...

Today the hot weight lifting coach/trainer texted me about a deadlift competition and is still trying to hang out and replies with hearts and stuff when she finds out we will be at the gym at the same time. I'm friendly but always remind her I have a girlfriend. Saw her at the gym and she came up and we talked for like 20 minutes like usual. I keep things casual and she is cool so whatever but she always mentions how she'd like to see me soon. And I always reply, "well I'll be here tomorrow" lmfao.

Then I'm working at this apartment complex and this chick who makes my sandwiches at publix sees me working and approaches. Haven't seen her without her work uniform on and shes really cute. She tells me how it's really good to see me and points out her apartment unit and tells me shes always really excited to see me when I show up while she's working. We talked for a little bit but I kept things casual. She's really cute, probably early 20s with a perky body. Kinda had a feeling she was into me but yeah she was definitely into me.

Then I'm at the gym and this smoking hot south American chick I hadn't seen before was working out. I kinda glance in her direction after a set, made eye contact and she smiled and waved at me. I smiled and waved back to be nice but didn't approach obviously and left soon after. Chick was gorgeous with perfect Brazilian proportions, huge ass and natural tits with a small waste.


Sorry for the vent thread but it always seems to happen when my girlfriend is out of town and haven't gotten laid in a while. White chicks generally expect men to make the first move even if they are into you so it's pretty easy if you just don't talk to them. unless they have high self confidence and are bubbly like the trainer chick. Latina women are different though, they will approach and make moves. I do right thing and have good intentions but it's still not easy. I'm not sure men are really wired to easily say no.

In before pics. Only have pics of the coach/trainer and I've posted them before.

How many different men have rearranged her guts since she has been out of sight? You know its happening pal, we all do.

Its time to move on anyway, you need to go up to these smoke shows and just say "Hello"

You're gonna fuk up the perfect life you have that millions of guys would love.

You should've dead those women a long time ago. Hi and bye. As big as you are it ain't hard to be stern and tell them to fuk off. But you're slowly entertaining them

Your girls belly is full of sperm while you turn down smoke shows

Meh if you’re not married I wood do em…however, if its somebody that my girl may bump into in the future or both of yall, different story

When I ever did it, it would be out of town and in a hotel or something

The casual excursion to Antarctica

I make it very clear. Now the gym chick wants me to go to a drag race with her and I shut that down. But yeah maybe need to lay the law down a little harder.

My coworkers don't help lol... They are all south and central American like the chicks and when we are at lunch they will literally tell the waitresses, look at this jacked white boy, you should fuk him. They do it to fuk with me lol, but the chicks are generally intrigued and then I have to immediately say no I have a girlfriend.

You know your girl is taking at least one dick on her trip.

strong this.

and doubt the entire story anyways tbh.

100%. The reason a girl like that dates a guy from Wyoming of wherever OP is from is so she can get away with cheating behing his back and assuming he's too naive to even consider it. She lives in Miami, so she obviously isn't some "non sneaky" chick...

Not sure why'd you come to the misc with this dilemma. Most have zero morals and are porn obsessed.

Just stay strong OP. The devil tries to tempt with momentary pleasures at the expense of long term fulfillment.

Jesus Christ you are going to ruin the perfect life you have for some attention seeking whores?

These women want what they can’t have.

Watch porn, play call of duty mobile( btw this **** is addicting), learn a hobby or skill, start prepping for the coming world war.

Reps

No you don't. This seems to be a regular thing with you, (even when your gf is home.) You like the attention and you keep it going.

Tread lightly my friend...

Lol no you don’t
Bro seriously what the **** are you doing?

Grow some balls and lay down the law. Put boundaries. If she randomly texts you whatever bull****…ignore.

The Devil is laughing his ass off

Oof

Strong hip check

brb sloots look at OP and OP thinks they want him lmao

Morally it really makes fuk all difference at the end of the day OP, provided you don't get caught, dont tell anyone and want to think it all the way down to the wire e.g. no harm no foul etc.

If you tell anyone, even your best friend, they will permanently have a different and most likely more negative view of you.

If you get caught by you woman, your relationship is over.

What it really comes down to is what your conscience can manage aka what kind of person do you want to be? I could live with it, but I would like myself less, I wouldn't respect myself and would feel like a fraud every time she said "I love you" and I reciprocated.

For some people, the guilt is not even there or if it is it's fleeting. They consider it about as much as choosing between a Big Mac and a Quarter Pounder.

Guaranteed she got FUUUUKKKED by tall athletic Norwegian chads...