As the misc knows, my X brutally dumped me just about a week ago. In order to move on, i reached out to some chicks I talked to from hinge about a year ago. This led me to quickly lining up two dates this weekend.

My date friday night was a hook up (pics, convo, sex story included):
https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showt...post1704798061

My date last night led to no sex but was with a chick that is more attractive, and I do have more chemistry with her. We made plans to go lay on the beach at night and meditate. Here is the story:

I met this chick once less than a year ago. We really kicked it off, but i started dating my X instead of her. I always liked this chick though, but I had to let her go. I met up with her last week soon after my x dumped me and had a drink with her and it went well. We made plans soon after for our date last night, our third date technically.

I picked her up from her apartment around 9pmish. We head down to the boardwalk where there is plenty of restaurants and miles of beaches. I had a blanket in the car so that we could lay on the beach. The ride was about 10 minutes from her house to the beach. Just some small talk on the ride, no crazy vibes good or bad. I put my hand on her leg, she seemed receptive. I also glare at her a few times from the corner of my eye and she has a glowing cute good girl next door look. I also notice her giving me a very sweet heart melting look out of the corner of her eye. This isn't a chick I just want to fuk or something, although I would.

We get to the beach, park in the parking garage (16$ for parking wtf?). We were on the 4th floor of the parking garage and there was a long line of people waiting to get on the elevator. I fukin hate elevators and I was glad when she said "i never take elevators" so we took the stairs. That honestly made me semi hard because elevators are dumb af and I hate being trapped in there with other people. Most women i knew b1tch when i go for the stairs.

We get to the ground floor and walk on the boardwalk. She is holding the blanket in some kind of beach bag, i worry that if we walk to much her arm will be tired and as a man if i hold a little bag i ll look like a cuk. So i just try to be mindful of her arm. We get to the bathrooms and i take a gigantic piss. Felt like a river of relief. I look in the mirror and notice my hair looks puffy, probably from the wind when i was driving down with the window open. I adjust as best as i can. I walk out of the bathroom and i see she wandered down a little bit. I notice how huge her tits are. They are like DD. They are fake, she told me before. They might be to big, if such a thing? But at the same time i thought she does work out and has a big ass and thick thighs from training legs, so maybe she is proportioned in a way. I approach, we make some small talk and start walking.

We walk down the board walk and there is all kinds of chit going on. If front of one hippy shop there was a bunch of miscr's playing hackie sack. I honestly havent seen people doing that since the 90s. Up and down the board walk there are people with large wireless speakers blasting latina music dancing. As you walk by them, you notice they are half drunk and they often try to engage you and get you to dance. Another thing you see quite a bit is a bunch of angry incel miscr's cutting their e-bikes through the crowd 100mph not caring if they kill someone.

We keep walking further down, where the beach is a bit more quiet. There was still a good amount of people on the sand no matter where you went. It was probably like 80+ degrees out but there was a nice cool breeze that off set the warm air. We finally cut over to the sand, and find a spot where there wasn't that many people around. We lay the blanket out and instantly nest into each other. Bunch of small talk about stuff. We are laying on our backs and start holding hands. We listen to the waves, look at the stars, and talk like this for maybe 30mins. Sometimes moments of silence just at peace enjoying the beauty of where we are.

Finally, we say lets meditate. We both brought our ear pods with us. She had a 30 minute guided imagery prepared for both us to listen to. We start and begin to listen to it as we hold hands. For the first few minutes of it, I had a hard time disconnecting from everything. I could hear the Suttle noises of people around us, I kept thinking about my x, kept doubting that this guided mediation was going to do anything for me. Finally, i just kept listening to the music in the mediation, listening to the waves, listening to the words of the guided imagery, and finally let go. I reached some sort of place where i just felt negativity shooting out of my body, felt a golden pure sunshine reaching my soul, giving me goose bumps, making me feel euphoric. Best i can explain it. Also while in that state, i felt my hand melt into hers. Literally her hand disappeared into mine and at times i could feel this vibrant electrical charge going from my heart, down my arm, into her hand, into her heart, and back to me. It was an amazing feeling and it kept coming and going.

The meditation ended, she wiggled my hand to sort of "wake me up" from it. We both agreed it was amazing. She said it made her cry and she too felt her hand melt into mine. We both were super relaxed at this point, still holding hands, talking. I had a hard time explaining to her what i felt, but to me it was very vivid and spiritual. Almost as if I was on shrooms or some chit. I mention we should go get a slice of pizza or something as I saw a pizza place on the boardwalk, but we both agreed we didnt feel like moving and laying there was super amazing. We talked for about another 30mins or so and it was already close to midnight. I suggest we try to mediate one more time, she agrees.

We put our earbuds back in and i play this for us:


Same thing happens again, i feel doubt that this wouldnt work, my negativity takes over my mind. Eventually i just keep listening to the music and the women's beautiful voice, feel the wind, feel my dates hand melting into mine, and I finally drift way. I feel a golding aura shooting out my body, kind of like dragon ball z when they go super saine. But this golden energy shooting out of my body is pain. It's pain I felt from my x and some other things. My body feels euphoric, tingly, goose bumps everywhere. I m melting into the sand, i feel her next to me, she is so sweet and loving. Similar experiences like this happen over the next 30 minutes. Eventually i start to awaken from it and realize its getting late. I wiggle her hand to snap her out of it. She opens her eyes and tells me the moment she opened her eyes she saw a shooting star.

We lay there another 30 minutes talking about how healing that felt. I really have a hard time expressing to her what I experienced, but it was deep. She tells me about a dream she had recently, and i m so relaxed and zen'd out that I experience it as she talks about it. At this point she then turns into me and hugs me tight and is rubbing my backs and arms. I kiss her on her forehead and she lifts her chin up and we kiss. At this point, I state its getting late and we should head home. She agrees.

We pack up our stuff and head back to the car. It's almost 1am. You'd be surprised how many people were still out. Blasting music on their speakers trying to get us to dance as we walk by. She starts to dance a bit and i just smile. We get to the car, i open the door for her and we cruise out of there. I keep my hand of her leg and she puts her hand on top of mine. I get to her place, take off my seat belt, grab her and kiss her, she kissed me back. We do this for a minute and it ends naturally. She says she had a nice night, i say me too. She heads out.

Chat gpt cliffs (please read the whole thing *******s)
-Brutally dumped a week ago, reached out to an old connection from Hinge.
-Set up a date with her. She is attractive. We have some chemistry.
-Picked her up, drove to a lively boardwalk by the beach.
-Shared a quiet, meaningful connection despite the bustling atmosphere.
-Laid out a blanket at the ocean, on the sand, relaxed, held hands, and talked.
-Meditated together, initially distracted but eventually let go.
-Experienced a deep, spiritual connection: felt negativity leaving, golden energy, and hands melting together.
-Both were profoundly moved by the meditation, leading to a serene and healing night.
-Ended the evening with a peaceful drive home, sharing a kiss before parting ways.

imagine opie didn't provide those cliff and you read that bull**** to find out opie is a hippie and went on a hippie date. but good for you opie for getting back on the horse and not dwelling on being dumped.

Send it to Penthouse Forum. No one hear wants to read all your little horny school-boy fantasies.

read it *******s, there are cliffs too. But read the whole thing what are your thoughts

You're too old for this chit

to old for what

I just read that whole thing and… wow. All I can really tell ya OP is that I'm completely joking I didnt read a single word of it LOL.

Why would you not call the first chick back? She seems great.

Honestly though, OP. You seem super fuking anxious and need to chill the fuk out before you start fuking with other chicks. Take a trip overseas somewhere for a couple weeks just to relax and get back to normal.

I read the first sentence and stopped.


Will you stop being a bitch already?


Just shoot some loads in a few girls and get this estrogen out of your system.


We don't need a deer diary unless you have a cool starry bra.


( I did however cllick on your link to your last thread, and only viewed the pics. That's more the type of thread we want here on the MISC, so repped)

Age: 37

Christ, lol. Talk about a late bloomer. Every word of this read like some 18 year old kid’s first semester in college.

Op why are you responding

I still text the first chick. There was just no chemistry to make me go after her hard. she was cute and had a nice puffy booty for sure and The sex was good too. but thats not enough for me man, i ve experienced real chemistry with women. That's where its at.

Going over seas would probably be good. I just took 3 weeks of vacations I can't go away for a couple months. Right now reading, meditation, journaling, gym, running, maybe a bJJ/Judo gym are what i ll focus on. I really like the chick i meditated with last night, i wont rush anything with her. Read what happened with her. She's really sweet.

didnt read but why didnt you fingerblast her on the blanket?

Is the first chick a butterface or something? With a body like that, it seems like something worth keeping around…

The first chick has a nice body. My x had a just as nice of a body give and take here or there. My x def had a hotter face. Her face was so hot she d get grilled by every guy no matter where we went. Hated it. The first chick has a cute face, but my standards are high now thanks to my x.

The second chick has a better face for sure. Somewhere in the realm of my x. I like the second chick much more than the first chick. The second chick is a good catch.

At one point she had both her legs wrapped around one of my legs. I could feel the warmth radiating from there. Even though it was dark There was still some people around us. If I was desperate I could have give her a little rub but I didn’t care that much in that exact situation. If you read the post you ll understand.

OP how old were both women? Did they care about your age?

Did you bust a nut in girl #1?

No way. Faped on her ass while it was poped up

I ll rep someone if they actually read the op

Age: wrong side of middle aged

no fuking chit.jesus christ