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post 1705245451 08-19-2024, 04:07 PM
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Anyone else feel bad for their exes? Srs?

Browsing Instagram I had a friend suggestion of my ex from about 7 years ago. We were together for about 5 years before I got tired of all the moping around, barely holding jobs, didn't cook, barely cleaned and blaming it all on trauma from her dad.

When we broke up I wasnt mad I was just done and the breakup was basically amicable as could be expected and she went back to her parents and I moved to CA from Washington. Scrolling through her posts briefly seems like she is now on the strugglebus right now, trying to build a place for herself and her now fiance, getting food from food banks and asking for help to pay rent via donations on gofundme.

Apparently she's become a great cook which is ironic cause I couldn't even get her to cook Ramen but at the same time, she is still not working years later, her fiance has a decent job but they are on strike for months and she has no kids so there's no excuse for her to not work.

Times change and people do not so it wasn't suprising to see but I had a very brief urge to donate anonymously as that is someone I still shared good times of my life with along with the bad but I snapped to my senses when I remembered she's still being a leech all these years later.

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post 1705245691 08-19-2024, 04:13 PM
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post 1705246251 08-19-2024, 04:25 PM
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A few. Some women are just too damaged to continue a relationship with. If they couldn't get along with me, they won't get along with anyone.
post 1705246441 08-19-2024, 04:27 PM
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only one, the rest are doing great
post 1705246631 08-19-2024, 04:31 PM
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The first one, a must read.

She cheated on me and after we broke up she started sl*tting around, she eventually got a new boyfriend, he came to speak with me one day to find out why we broke up so I told him, he said he was karma and would do the devil's work, he got her hooked on drugs and beat her, she was free anytime she wanted to be but of course she wouldn't leave him instead sleeping with his brother because she needed someone to fund her new drug addiction in exchange for sex, because of her drug addiction she lost her kids years later to CPS, I somewhat feel bad for her but she will never change, she knows what she wants and that is to get all the cok she can.
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post 1705246651 08-19-2024, 04:31 PM
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I don't have a clue what any of them are currently doing.

But I generally dont wish ill will upon them. Most didn't work out because of proximity. Only one was a true breakup where I genuinely hated her afterward and never wanted to see her again. That being said, if I ever connected with her again I'd smash super hard.
post 1705246881 08-19-2024, 04:34 PM
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post 1705247591 08-19-2024, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted By volleys
A few. Some women are just too damaged to continue a relationship with. If they couldn't get along with me, they won't get along with anyone.
Yeah it's just wild for see how their lives change. Now she's eating veggies from a food bank and making a post saying "let's make 48 bucks last a week" and meanwhile I made a grand in OT last Saturday.

On the plus side I guess the Honda I replaced the head gasket on all those years ago is still being reliable so I did my good deed
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post 1705247821 08-19-2024, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
I don't have a clue what any of them are currently doing.

But I generally dont wish ill will upon them. Most didn't work out because of proximity. Only one was a true breakup where I genuinely hated her afterward and never wanted to see her again. That being said, if I ever connected with her again I'd smash super hard.
I honestly hope my last ex dies of liver failure. I spent over a month taking care of her grandmother, who was in hospice care at home and she didn't come visit her once. and then after she passed away, she didn't even make it to the funeral and showed up, right as everyone was leaving...in stained sweats, drunk off her ass and blacked out in the walkway between the chairs

But man when she was sober the head game was immaculate
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post 1705247831 08-19-2024, 04:50 PM
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I only know of what happened to one. She was a truly soulless girl. She approached me at a party once. We messed around for a bit, stopped, then she circled back around and asked to live with me. I agreed cause she'd cook whenever I wanted, and I told her she'd have to put out deadsrs. All around laughable relationship and I'm pretty sure she was fuking other guys anytime I was out of the house. She had low self esteem so it was this weird dynamic where we were both using each other in one way or another. She was terrible though, constantly lied, and stole money from her own dad when he tried to help her. I saw texts of him talking about how he had no money left, pleading for her to stop using his credit card. Even got evicted towards the end of our relationship. She was only 22 or 23 at the time too.

She was really pretty though. Other guys put her on a pedestal but I hated her guts...barely wanted to be out in public with her. Couldn't believe how her exes simped for her. Found out via ******** that this crazy bish had a KID. So not only do I feel bad for her, but that kids life is over already. Top 2 worst people I've met and she ain't #2.
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post 1705248801 08-19-2024, 05:12 PM
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I do feel bad for a couple of them

Ultimately I wish them all the best. I know what I dealt with when dating them, and thereby what they dealt with just by living. Must suck to live life like they do, which is why I have sympathy. Because being WITH most of them was a fukin nightmare...couldn't imagine actually being that person.
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I never loved any of my exes srs. One of them was this cute Italian sloot who became a single mom, she got knocked up at like 18 and became a junkie. I dodged a bullet with that one. No surprise since she dumped her boyfriend to be with me (borderline cheating). Another one of them is a turbo-feminist, she was this hnnnng down to earth Jew broad when we first met but like millions of other women she was corrupted in college. Another bullet dodged.
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Originally Posted By ChrisLS8
Browsing Instagram I had a friend suggestion of my ex from about 7 years ago.We were together for about 5 yearsbefore I got tired of all the moping around, barely holding jobs, didn't cook, barely cleaned and blaming it all on trauma from her dad.
and that's where I stopped reading!
post 1705249641 08-19-2024, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted By ChrisLS8
Browsing Instagram I had a friend suggestion of my ex from about 7 years ago. We were together for about 5 years before I got tired of all the moping around, barely holding jobs, didn't cook, barely cleaned and blaming it all on trauma from her dad.

When we broke up I wasnt mad I was just done and the breakup was basically amicable as could be expected and she went back to her parents and I moved to CA from Washington. Scrolling through her posts briefly seems like she is now on the strugglebus right now, trying to build a place for herself and her now fiance, getting food from food banks and asking for help to pay rent via donations on gofundme.

Apparently she's become a great cook which is ironic cause I couldn't even get her to cook Ramen but at the same time, she is still not working years later, her fiance has a decent job but they are on strike for months and she has no kids so there's no excuse for her to not work.

Times change and people do not so it wasn't suprising to see but I had a very brief urge to donate anonymously as that is someone I still shared good times of my life with along with the bad but I snapped to my senses when I remembered she's still being a leech all these years later.

Sloots gonna sloot boyos
No, and you shouldn't either. Women don't feel bad for men after breakups - matter of fact, they actively sht on them and tarnish their reputation with lies.
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post 1705249961 08-19-2024, 05:41 PM
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I am conflicted.

On the one hand I think she is an amoral, disingenuous, self serving kunt.

On the other, I feel sorry for her as she makes horrible choices and is at the same time so sure of herself, I feel bad for her because I realise she is operating at the best of her capacity and all of her thoughts, feelings and behaviour is determined by her genetics and environment. Such is life for someone (me) who has taken the neuro/psychological blackpill of no free will.
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