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post 1481699111 02-01-2017, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted By batspoof
The patriarchy would never ask you for the time. Any man who looks in your direction is definitely planning to rape you.
He's already raped her in his mind/with his eyes
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Originally Posted By l2ambo
People will only fuk with me if they're in groups, I'm sleeping, or I've drank too much and I'm stumbling. Otherwise everyone generally chits themselves. One perk of being 6'4" 225. It's funny because I've had a lot of guys that want to fight me out of pure jealousy and I hear it from multiple people but no one has pulled the trigger. If someone ever does decide to attack me, I have a lot of built of anger so I don't imagine it would end well for them.

Edit: I have one buddy that's 5'10, 170 that's built like a tank, We had a short grappling sort of match in his backyard when I had recently injured my ankle and had been off work and sedentary for over 2 months, muscle tightness, anterior pelvic tilt, and muscle atrophy like crazy. I gave about 15% effort and used my weight and he wasn't even able to move me. I generally try to let people win now and again though so I don't shatter their ego. In a serious fight I'd probably just run up and bear hug slam someone to the ground like a rag doll and drop elbows to the dome until their out.

Edit2: Idealy I'd learn BJJ so I'm not really hurting anyone.
Anyone else get the weirdest boner reading that second paragraph?
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Originally Posted By janglingjack
Anyone else get the weirdest boner reading that second paragraph?
No, I was too busy LOLing at his 170 lbs friend who is "built like a tank". ROFL
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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646
Yes.

Also you keep the headphones low so you can hear what's going on around you.

I carry this little guy around too

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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646
Yes.

Also you keep the headphones low so you can hear what's going on around you.

I carry this little guy around too

LOL yeah but do u know how to use it????

At school?
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Originally Posted By Mrlooker
Not read thread, but I am always on alert. Would never walk through a park or alleyway when it is dark.

Shocked when I see women walking through parks, crazy stuff, stick to well lit, populated areas if you are alone.
You should read the thread, according to some not walking through the park for safety reasons means they have a big ego.
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Originally Posted By batspoof
No, I was too busy LOLing at his 170 lbs friend who is "built like a tank". ROFL
You don't think 5'9"-5'10" 170lbs @ 7-9% BF is tankish? he's prob around 180 fed, carbed, waterweight etc. Does that help your assessment? lol
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Originally Posted By mm394006
My default is orange to red lol. I'm a paranoid fool.

I remember I got on the train one night and this Asian girl sat across from me. I was just space gazing all over the train, but I felt like she kept looking at me so every once in a while I would glance at her again. Her legs or arms weren't crossed, she wasn't rolling her eyes when I glanced at her, she wasn't making an exasperated sigh, so i thought this was all in my head. My stop comes up, and she gets up first and walks to the train door right next to where I'm sitting. i get up and am standing behind a few people waiting for the train door to open. I take my time and walk out just to put some extra distance between me and her because i felt a little weird. She glances behind at me and starts walking faster up the stairs. I'm like oh, i wasn't being paranoid. Something was off. So i walk even slower. Now I feel like Jason as she's looking behind again and walks even faster while my pace slowed down a lot. I get up out of the train station and I see her look behind one last time before she breaks off in a full on sprint.

I was so rustled I had to laugh. There were at least 10 women on that train that looked better than she did, and she thinks it was her I wanted to make a lampshade out of, smh.

Edit: I have 5 sisters, so I'm all for women defending themselves. Dudes can be thirsty and make women uncomfortable. It's situations like the one i posted that rustle me a little when they act fearful for no reason.
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Originally Posted By YeahImMad
What if they were just going to ask the time tho
I mean if someone started yelling abuse at you and grabbed you.

I personally do not walk around thinking I'm going to get attacked. I have even walked home from the train station at 11pm I live in bush area, I just think if someone is going to attack me they would either be A. following me to begin with or B. Random driving around hoping they would bump into someone walking alone *which is highly unlikely because no one walks around my area, if someone was going to do this they would go were the possibly of finding someone is higher.
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It's smart for women to be very aware of their surroundings. Absolutely. My wife is 100 pounds soaking wet and couldn't defend herself against anyone. So she tries her best to be smart. The world she deals with is night and day to mine and its eye opening to really think about. Girls I've known over the years who liked to run were always very nervous about getting raped. I can't wrap my head around that being a fear you actually have to acknowledge and live with. Me, I've worked in one of the worst areas of my city for years now. There is a HUGE homeless population anywhere you go within a mile or two of my office and with them, plenty of drugs and issues with cracked out people harassing people at random. Over time you kind of learn what to watch for whether you are doing so on purpose or on a subconscious level. I'm not a small guy by any means and I've boxed (for fun) since I could walk, but dudes on meth give no ****s about any of that. Still, it doesn't make me nervous and I never worry about getting raped just for living my life. Women have to deal with some real ****.
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Originally Posted By l2ambo
You don't think 5'9"-5'10" 170lbs @ 7-9% BF is tankish? he's prob around 180 fed, carbed, waterweight etc. Does that help your assessment? lol
I'm 6'0 and when I weighed 170 lbs I was pretty much a twig. I cant imagine somebody the same weight being built like a tank when they're only 2 inches shorter.
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Originally Posted By Mrlooker
Shocked when I see women walking through parks, crazy stuff, stick to well lit, populated areas if you are alone.
Or at an ATM machine in the middle of the night in the bad part of town.

See that happen too many times. Back is turned - anyone can come up behind you.
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Originally Posted By AmIGoodNuff
So in class we were discussing society and different views and problems we may encounter and somehow we got to talking about the difference in a male going to class and a female going to class.
He asks the guys how its like and do we check our surroundings and we all said no or just didnt answer. Then he asked the girls the same thing and they start listing chit like. Parking next to a light at night, checking their surroundings at all times, bring a buddy with u, keep headphones so no one talks to you, walk fast, etc. One girl even said as she walks she checks for escape routes in case something happens. I never thought about any of this as a male.
Yes, and there's a good reason why. Check out this subreddit where people post creepy stories of stalkers, rapists, encounters with serial killers, etc. Unlike other subreddits, it's all true stories and not made up. The stuff that the women post is scary as **** and you realize that they're both targeted 10x more and are 10x less capable to do anything about it.

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Originally Posted By batspoof
I'm 6'0 and when I weighed 170 lbs I was pretty much a twig. I cant imagine somebody the same weight being built like a tank when they're only 2 inches shorter.
He's closer to 5'9". You can safely expect an 8-10lb gain per inch in height when it comes to males that lift. I used to be 175 skinnyfat gamer @ 6'4" hit 200lbs in 2 months of lifting as a newb and had less bodyfat. Nowadays It's pretty easy for me to hit 230 and stay relatively low in BF when I'm actually lifting.
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They did a study a while back and surveyed thousands of people about what they were afraid of the most.

Womens greatest fear was being beaten to death by someone they know...

Mens greatest fear was being laughed at (rejected) by a women...
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
I recently went out on a date with a woman.

Her drinks apparently hit her harder than she expected.

So, she asked me if I had put something in her drink.

I was like wtf, no. Why is your first thought after having a stiff drink if I had spiked your drink?

she apologized, and said she didn't mean anything by it


Then I asked her what she would have expected me to respond if I had in fact put something in her drink, "yes, yes I did put something in your drink"
Lulz, what did she say.
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroc****
Yeah I'm aware of my surroundings at night. There's a difference between going places where bad stuff is known to happen, but being alert and just walking without giving anything regarding your safety a mere thought.

Where you live/used to live when you grew up, could very well be a big reason for why you're aware or not aware or your surroundings.
If you replied "I DON'T BECAUSE I'M ALPHA AS FUKKKK", my bet is you're middel/upper middle class and actually 'soft'. Ayyy
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1. All in the game.
2. But who was angular artery?
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroc****
Yeah I'm aware of my surroundings at night. There's a difference between going places where bad stuff is known to happen, but being alert and just walking without giving anything regarding your safety a mere thought.

Where you live/used to live when you grew up, could very well be a big reason for why you're aware or not aware or your surroundings.
If you replied "I DON'T BECAUSE I'M ALPHA AS FUKKKK", my bet is you're middel/upper middle class and actually 'soft'. Ayyy
Yeah.. true. I grew up in the richest suburb in the USA. I always thought people were *******s for being scared about walking around at night and stuff.

I recently moved to a city and that flew out the window after I got mugged and almost stabbed. Luckily I'm a guy and was able to fight this scumbag off. A woman would have gotten her **** stolen and stabbed 4-5 times in the chest.

I'm definitely aware of my surroundings now.

The worst part though is that I was raised to be non-racist and absolutely non-biased towards anyone of any race. That's also flown out the window as I've realized that racism is the most efficient way to screen my surroundings and keep myself safe at night. It sucks but that's real life and virtue signaling doesn't keep you safe. In my case, it almost got me killed.

I also ignore bums now. I don't give them money. I'm a coldhearted, sociopathic, paranoid racist bastard now but I have to do it to stay safe
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Originally Posted By webcam
exactly, no way to do this unless they weren't armed or they had no real intention of harming you at the time (ie just trying to rob you).
Stun guns are the go to choice here. They might hurt but you're not seriously wounding somebody that you don't even know was going to hurt you.
Except tasers often just get stuck in peoples' clothes and don't do anything or just don't work at all. It's not safe to rely on them if you feel that your life is in danger.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
Y'all a bunch 'o paranoid fux ITT.
This. There's not a rapist or murderer lurking around every corner waiting to prey on a defenseless woman.

This is such garbage.
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Originally Posted By AmIGoodNuff
I had a friend thats been maced. He might cosign on this.
I bought some pepper spray for fun to play around with. I sprayed it to see how far it would travel without thinking of the wind and it blew it all right back into my face. So, I've been maced too!
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
what the f*ck???

brb getting shanked cause all I thought I had to do was walk up and say hi

Serious response to OP, women are f*cking delusional. I'm sure some of them feel the need to do that stuff or feel threatened but the reality is odds are pretty good no one wants to rape 99% of the girls out there walking to class.

But all women have such an ego they think they are a prime target for such an attack.
You don't walk up and say hi to people at night. If you put someone into fight or flight mode, you'll get what's coming to you. I didn't understand this when I lived out in the suburbs but people that live in dangerous areas HAVE to take any possible threat seriously before it becomes a threat, or they'd have been dead a long time ago.

Go walk around saying hi to random people at night in the city. You'll get shanked and, in my opinion, it will be justified.

I think this right here is why there was such a huge disconnect in different parts of the country on the Zimmerman/ Trayvon Martin shooting. I used to side with Zimmerman. After living in the city, I now side with Trayvon. It someone's following you around in a van at night and you're alone, then he gets out to confront you, you have to take out the guy in the van BEFORE he takes out you. If you assume the best intentions of the other guy stalking you in that kind of situation, you're going to eventually get killed.
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My 4'10" big sister used to live solo in the hood. The real hood. Where there's decibel detectors on street lights to geo-locate gun shots, etc. She would walk home late after work every day and not a single **** was given. Early morning, too. Unarmed, not paranoid. I guess she's lucky, but honestly creepy people are -everywhere- and living paranoid seems absurd and perpetuates victim culture. Yes, people actually get attacked. this is a fact. Everybody who has ever been to university, or lived in the world, knows this. But.. people who are so paranoid... that's just sad. I wish you'd get over yourselves. I promise, you're not that important. The majority of people walking by you are not, in fact, thinking of violently taking advantage of you. (fact)
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Originally Posted By MillennialBum
This. There's not a rapist or murderer lurking around every corner waiting to prey on a defenseless woman.

This is such garbage.
In densely populated areas, yes there are actually people all over the place that are waiting to rape or murder defenseless women.
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Originally Posted By TrotonKat
I still do not think female would be able to defend themselves with a knife.Yes they probably could if the guy was weak but I have seen a guy in a fight with another guy with a knife and the guy with the knife got one chance to stab him, made this pathetic cut on his arm before he got knocked out.

Really depends who is attacking you and if you will have half a chance. Me personally I would probably turn around take my chance with out running him than try and fight. I play fight with my husband he doesn't even use half his strength he still pushes me around like a kitty with no hope in hell of pushing him over.
What about without? Okay with out that knife and no access to my gun all I have left is my fist, and they're tiny like rat claws, so if running is not an option I'd rather have that knife than my fist.
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Maybe I'm naive but this stuff just doesn't cross my mind when I'm out, not to some of the extremes ITT anyway. Granted I don't walk through the hood at 2 in the morning or anything and I'm not walking around oblivious to everything; I'll be 'aware' but I don't feel the need to keep a pen knife on me or look out for the nearest escape routes whenever I'm out alone
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Originally Posted By MajesticLion
1. All in the game.
2. But who was angular artery?
R u trolling? Lol good luck targeting a specific body part, let alone a ****ing artery or a tendon, in the middle of a fight.If you could do that, guys in the UFC would be using 1 finger death touches against the body's weak points to win fights.
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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646
What about without? Okay with out that knife and no access to my gun all I have left is my fist, and they're tiny like rat claws, so if running is not an option I'd rather have that knife than my fist.
Nobody can take your fist off you and kill you with it.
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