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post 1581296031 06-02-2019, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
You're going down a dark hole, gtfo the misc.

Also, didn't you just say a few posts back that you can attract women, just not the ones you want? That's actually the definition of hypergamy--an inclination to date up. If you're a 4, keep working on yourself until you're a 6, or take women who are at your level.
Yeah, I know for me I will eventually be okay as long as I put in the work and effort. If I don't then I will be fukd as well. I have it harder than most guys but I wouldn't say it is impossible for me. But I can admit that for everyone I don't think that is the case. Some guys are just in a tough situation due to their genes. A few mm of bone and 2-4 inches of height can change your entire life.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Lol dude, you know your friend pretty well obviously I just made the point that he could be on online forums and just not have told you.


The conversation with my coworkers, I was actually there..they were silent because they didnt want to come out and say I was right. There was nothing awkward about the moment, I just called out their bs and they didnt know what to say. I also didn't "inject myself in a private conversation ", I was in the conversation. Where the hell did you get that idea from.

My personality online is the same as irl, in the sense that I tell it like it is. Other than that, idk wtf you think is the big issue with my personality. All I do on the misc is call out bs
You made it sound as though they were having this discussion amongst themselves as women and then you simply responded with your comment.

At any rate, it's really not healthy to be discussing your dating woes in that manner with coworkers, try and keep some things to yourself when not around close friends. If a not-so-attractive woman who you didn't know that well made such a comment, you'd rightly think she was pathetic. It doesn't help your situation.
post 1581296611 06-02-2019, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I mean yea it's the culture dude. Its really bad in the USA. Ask otaku. He gets totally different results in the USA than in other countries.
Girls are girls. It doesn't matter if you're in the US, Norway, or fukking sub Saharan Africa. They all like the same few traits in men. So you can either work on developing those traits in yourself, or you can keep coping and blaming everything else for your failures as a man.
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post 1581297261 06-02-2019, 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Kirra⏩
Girls are girls. It doesn't matter if you're in the US, Norway, or fukking sub Saharan Africa. They all like the same few traits in men. So you can either work on developing those traits in yourself, or you can keep coping and blaming everything else for your failures as a man.
Wrong. This is just so fukin wrong because it completely ignores cultural conditioning.

Even within the same country, these things can change over time.

Just ask otaku as an example. Totally different results in foreign countries.
post 1581297641 06-02-2019, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Wrong. This is just so fukin wrong because it completely ignores cultural conditioning.

Even within the same country, these things can change over time.

Just ask otaku as an example. Totally different results in foreign countries.
Keep coping brother.
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post 1581297671 06-02-2019, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
You made it sound as though they were having this discussion amongst themselves as women and then you simply responded with your comment.

At any rate, it's really not healthy to be discussing your dating woes in that manner with coworkers, try and keep some things to yourself when not around close friends. If a not-so-attractive woman who you didn't know that well made such a comment, you'd rightly think she was pathetic. It doesn't help your situation.
I said "yesterday at lunch with coworkers blah blah blah". Nothing in there implied I jumped into some separate conversation.

and I didnt discuss my dating woes, I just made a blanket statement that if being funny is such a big deal I don't see why I can't ever date. Literally one sentence. I'm basically a 28 yr old virgin, I don't think I have much to lose by saying one fuking sentence to coworkers who I'm not interested in
post 1581297711 06-02-2019, 12:58 PM
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Low test epidemic. Estrogen mimicking plastic in all our food/drinks and birth control leeching into the water supply is overly feminizing men and killing their natural desire to pursue women. Low dose estrogen blockers/test enhancers will probably be as standard as vaccination for young males in the next couple decades if the government gives a chit about the growing incel plight.
post 1581297741 06-02-2019, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Kirra⏩
Keep coping brother.
keep being retarded and thinking women in totally different cultures and countries arent influenced into different dating preferences and behaviors
post 1581298121 06-02-2019, 01:09 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
keep being retarded and thinking women in totally different cultures and countries arent influenced into different dating preferences and behaviors
Women EVERYWHERE are attracted to the same few traits. Confidence is attractive no matter what culture you live in. Being able to make women laugh is attractive no matter what culture you live in. Being ambitious is attractive no matter what culture you live in.

I can go on and on but it would be a waste of time because you are too busy being a victim to understand this. So keep coping and shifting blame away from yourself bro, idgaf.
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post 1581298271 06-02-2019, 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Kirra⏩
Girls are girls. It doesn't matter if you're in the US, Norway, or fukking sub Saharan Africa. They all like the same few traits in men. So you can either work on developing those traits in yourself, or you can keep coping and blaming everything else for your failures as a man.
what traits are those?
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post 1581298341 06-02-2019, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Kirra⏩
Women EVERYWHERE are attracted to the same few traits. Confidence is attractive no matter what culture you live in. Being able to make women laugh is attractive no matter what culture you live in. Being ambitious is attractive no matter what culture you live in.

I can go on and on but it would be a waste of time because you are too busy being a victim to understand this. So keep coping and shifting blame away from yourself bro, idgaf.
i don't want to be a victim anymore and am a 33 year old virgin. I am starting to get tired myself of reading all these incel threads.
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post 1581298421 06-02-2019, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Kirra⏩
Women EVERYWHERE are attracted to the same few traits. Confidence is attractive no matter what culture you live in. Being able to make women laugh is attractive no matter what culture you live in. Being ambitious is attractive no matter what culture you live in.

I can go on and on but it would be a waste of time because you are too busy being a victim to understand this. So keep coping and shifting blame away from yourself bro, idgaf.
False. Did you know in some countries/cultures the men like fat chicks?

And in others, they'd rather eat puke then bang fat chicks.

Same goes for women. Some places women dont care about height that much for example.
post 1581298751 06-02-2019, 01:17 PM
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lol at being over 25 and caring about being a virgin or females at all. it's already done, ur a 25 y/o virgin going on 30 y/o virgin, just get over it. i don't even care anymore myself
Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
Low test epidemic. Estrogen mimicking plastic in all our food/drinks and birth control leeching into the water supply is overly feminizing men andkilling their natural desire to pursue women. Low dose estrogen blockers/test enhancers will probably be as standard as vaccination for young males in the next couple decades if the government gives a chit about the growing incel plight.
pursuing women is the problem. they're put on the pedestal. men should not give two ****s about women aside from wanting to **** them
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post 1581298871 06-02-2019, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
False. Did you know in some countries/cultures the men like fat chicks?

And in others, they'd rather eat puke then bang fat chicks.

Same goes for women. Some places women dont care about height that much for example.
Lmfao, in what culture do chicks not like funny, confident and ambitious men?
Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo⏩
what traits are those?
Confidence, humor/being funny, ambition, being a leader, being decisive, not being a whiny bitch, etc.
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post 1581299161 06-02-2019, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
and I didnt discuss my dating woes, I just made a blanket statement that if being funny is such a big deal I don't see why I can't ever date.
Not sure if serious. What you just described is literally discussing your dating woes. And it's not about whether you're interested in those coworkers, it feeds into a general mentality that can be unhealthy.

Our back and forth isn't amounting to much though. I truly do hope you get a bit more successful at dating. I would recommend that you drop the red pill toxic mentality, if only for your own emotional health.
post 1581299241 06-02-2019, 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Kirra⏩
Lmfao, in what culture do chicks not like funny, confident and ambitious men?



Confidence, humor/being funny, ambition, being a leader, being decisive, not being a whiny bitch, etc.
Meh, he's actually got a point, there are cross cultural differences in superficial beauty standards. And peasants in Haiti don't really care much for 'ambition' if you know what I mean.

Of course, this shouldn't stop him from finding one chick who likes him in the US, regardless of the culture.
post 1581299351 06-02-2019, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Kirra⏩
Lmfao, in what culture do chicks not like funny, confident and ambitious.
A lot of them. The kind of personality that's attractive is not the same everywhere. I've been to some African countries where they just like really serious men, not all this being funny nonsense.
post 1581299421 06-02-2019, 01:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Not sure if serious. What you just described is literally discussing your dating woes. And it's not about whether you're interested in those coworkers, it feeds into a general mentality that can be unhealthy.

Our back and forth isn't amounting to much though. I truly do hope you get a bit more successful at dating. I would recommend that you drop the red pill toxic mentality, if only for your own emotional health.
Saying one off hand sentence is an entire discussion? Ok dude
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Meh, he's actually got a point, there are cross cultural differences in superficial beauty standards. And peasants in Haiti don't really care much for 'ambition' if you know what I mean.

Of course, this shouldn't stop him from finding one chick who likes him in the US, regardless of the culture.
Thanks for some common sense
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page 2 got me like
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2 Timothy 2:22
So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.

1 Thessalonians 4:3-5
For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God

Jude 1:7
Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding cities, which likewise indulged in sexual immorality and pursued unnatural desire, serve as an example by undergoing a punishment of eternal fire.
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fukking lmao. If you are truly ugly, you will just marry a 2/10 even back in the days. What makes you think that you will marry an attractive female back in the old days?

You can still marry a 2/10, you just refuse to date them.

Modern or not, you are just an unattractive mother fuker. Deal with it, and lower your standard. You are not an average looking dude, expect your future partner to be below average as well.

You are fukking pathetic to blame anything but yourself. FIST YOURSELF SRS.
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Originally Posted By tyn89⏩
fukking lmao. If you are truly ugly, you will just marry a 2/10 even back in the days. What makes you think that you will marry an attractive female back in the old days?

You can still marry a 2/10, you just refuse to date them.

Modern or not, you are just an unattractive mother fuker. Deal with it, and lower your standard. You are not an average looking dude, expect your future partner to be below average as well.

You are fukking pathetic to blame anything but yourself. FIST YOURSELF SRS.
Not always true. I would settle for banging a 2 but they don't want me dude. I have no standards, still nobody interested, theres not always anything you can do
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Not always true. I would settle for banging a 2 but they don't want me dude. I have no standards, still nobody interested, theres not always anything you can do
Have you ever done cold approaching before? Like cold approaching the 2/10 bishes? Just curious
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Not always true. I would settle for banging a 2 but they don't want me dude. I have no standards, still nobody interested, theres not always anything you can do
Unless you have a deformity it's pretty easy to looksmaxx and attract at least average looking girls

- Aesthetic haircut
- Good skin
- lean body fat
- Good style / clothing

just by doing the above will put you infront of a lot of men
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alot of guys complaining vs no one suggesting tips advice or help

purchased that tool of the trades book pretty good
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Originally Posted By samosajoe⏩
Personality matters, game matters, and all those other things matter. The thing is, it only matters if the bitch finds you to be attractive in her eyes. For some guys they have features that make them unattractive to almost all woman. The same personality on a different body would lead to drastically more success with woman.

It sucks but for a lot of guys the vessel that their soul is contained in is just not pretty enough for the modern young woman.
That's a defeatist attitude. If you think this way, surely it rubs off in social settings and women can pick up on it. Anyone can spot fake confidence.

Just look at all the threads about people bitching about seeing hot women with "ugly out of shape cucks". You're overthinking it.
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Originally Posted By samosajoe⏩
Have you ever done cold approaching before? Like cold approaching the 2/10 bishes? Just curious
Yes, no success
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Originally Posted By Desimus20⏩
Unless you have a deformity it's pretty easy to looksmaxx and attract at least average looking girls

- Aesthetic haircut
- Good skin
- lean body fat
- Good style / clothing

just by doing the above will put you infront of a lot of men
Not when you're 5'3, African and ugly
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Originally Posted By KramericaInd⏩
alot of guys complaining vs no one suggesting tips advice or help

purchased that tool of the trades book pretty good
Being a Chad isn't complicated, just very hard/impossible for most. Be wealthy, attractive, and socially connected.
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