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07-01-2019, 07:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
It's always hardest when it's someone like a gym crush or something. She got a phat booty?Just LOL. Those shows can get freaky quick. Those guys are bold there.
Oh and I never went to the bikini bar. I'm might do that later this week though.
Also that chick was at the gym this morning. I was doing incline DB press right next to her. I didn't do goddamn chit
I feel so intimidated and I don't know why. Fuk me.
Oh and I never went to the bikini bar. I'm might do that later this week though.
Also that chick was at the gym this morning. I was doing incline DB press right next to her. I didn't do goddamn chit
I feel so intimidated and I don't know why. Fuk me.I'm back, bitches!
07-01-2019, 07:58 AM
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07-01-2019, 08:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Phat, tight, and joocy lil' cheeks. I think I do have a crush on her.It's always hardest when it's someone like a gym crush or something. She got a phat booty?
07-01-2019, 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
I wish you luck. Phat booty cuties will make you lose your train of thought. Gotta act like they're just some normal chick even though deep down you'd probably let them chit on your chest.Phat, tight, and joocy lil' cheeks. I think I do have a crush on her.
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07-01-2019, 11:17 AM
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Day 2:
Not a “cold approach” but made small talk with hostess and waitress...something I usually don’t do. I’m approaching this in a baby steps kinda way. Can’t go from not approaching women to approaching 10/10s in one day, nomsayin’? These little interactions are teaching me that women are usually pretty open to talking and usually you brighten their day up...like in the OP.
Hostess: I’ve seen her at the gym before and ironically saw her mirin’ last time on stair master. I knew she recognized me so as she was sitting me down i asked her if she went to xx gym and told her that i recognized her and so forth. Nothing too deep and no number but at least next time I see her at the gym, it’ll be easier to open. I guess i planted a seed.
Waitress:
Saw she was wearing an Apple Watch and asked her if she’s closed her rings and told her that I’m sure she closes her rings all the time since she’s a waitress. She opened up about how she always closes them up especially cause of her other job and the exercise ring is the hardest one to close which I agreed. The conversation could’ve gone on especially talking about exercise/gym but she was pretty busy and my mom was in front of me. Lulz.
Start small.
Question:
How would you guys have gotten the number if it was you?
Not a “cold approach” but made small talk with hostess and waitress...something I usually don’t do. I’m approaching this in a baby steps kinda way. Can’t go from not approaching women to approaching 10/10s in one day, nomsayin’? These little interactions are teaching me that women are usually pretty open to talking and usually you brighten their day up...like in the OP.
Hostess: I’ve seen her at the gym before and ironically saw her mirin’ last time on stair master. I knew she recognized me so as she was sitting me down i asked her if she went to xx gym and told her that i recognized her and so forth. Nothing too deep and no number but at least next time I see her at the gym, it’ll be easier to open. I guess i planted a seed.
Waitress:
Saw she was wearing an Apple Watch and asked her if she’s closed her rings and told her that I’m sure she closes her rings all the time since she’s a waitress. She opened up about how she always closes them up especially cause of her other job and the exercise ring is the hardest one to close which I agreed. The conversation could’ve gone on especially talking about exercise/gym but she was pretty busy and my mom was in front of me. Lulz.
Start small.
Question:
How would you guys have gotten the number if it was you?
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07-01-2019, 12:23 PM
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07-01-2019, 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted By chivasregal⏩
"I know you tied up right now, so let's talk about (whatever the fuk rings are or whatever) when you aren't working. Sound good to you? (wait for yes or no)Day 2:
Not a “cold approach” but made small talk with hostess and waitress...something I usually don’t do. I’m approaching this in a baby steps kinda way. Can’t go from not approaching women to approaching 10/10s in one day, nomsayin’? These little interactions are teaching me that women are usually pretty open to talking and usually you brighten their day up...like in the OP.
Hostess: I’ve seen her at the gym before and ironically saw her mirin’ last time on stair master. I knew she recognized me so as she was sitting me down i asked her if she went to xx gym and told her that i recognized her and so forth. Nothing too deep and no number but at least next time I see her at the gym, it’ll be easier to open. I guess i planted a seed.
Waitress:
Saw she was wearing an Apple Watch and asked her if she’s closed her rings and told her that I’m sure she closes her rings all the time since she’s a waitress. She opened up about how she always closes them up especially cause of her other job and the exercise ring is the hardest one to close which I agreed. The conversation could’ve gone on especially talking about exercise/gym but she was pretty busy and my mom was in front of me. Lulz.
Start small.
Question:
How would you guys have gotten the number if it was you?
Not a “cold approach” but made small talk with hostess and waitress...something I usually don’t do. I’m approaching this in a baby steps kinda way. Can’t go from not approaching women to approaching 10/10s in one day, nomsayin’? These little interactions are teaching me that women are usually pretty open to talking and usually you brighten their day up...like in the OP.
Hostess: I’ve seen her at the gym before and ironically saw her mirin’ last time on stair master. I knew she recognized me so as she was sitting me down i asked her if she went to xx gym and told her that i recognized her and so forth. Nothing too deep and no number but at least next time I see her at the gym, it’ll be easier to open. I guess i planted a seed.
Waitress:
Saw she was wearing an Apple Watch and asked her if she’s closed her rings and told her that I’m sure she closes her rings all the time since she’s a waitress. She opened up about how she always closes them up especially cause of her other job and the exercise ring is the hardest one to close which I agreed. The conversation could’ve gone on especially talking about exercise/gym but she was pretty busy and my mom was in front of me. Lulz.
Start small.
Question:
How would you guys have gotten the number if it was you?
I'm back, bitches!
07-01-2019, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
If you were confident and dressed right. Yes. Why don't you have a beard?do you guys think women would respond positively to my appearance if I approached in the street?
Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
"I know you tied up right now, so let's talk about (whatever the fuk rings are or whatever) when you aren't working. Sound good to you? (wait for yes or no)
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07-01-2019, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted By chivasregal⏩
what does closed ring mean? Srs?Day 2:
Not a “cold approach” but made small talk with hostess and waitress...something I usually don’t do. I’m approaching this in a baby steps kinda way. Can’t go from not approaching women to approaching 10/10s in one day, nomsayin’? These little interactions are teaching me that women are usually pretty open to talking and usually you brighten their day up...like in the OP.
Hostess: I’ve seen her at the gym before and ironically saw her mirin’ last time on stair master. I knew she recognized me so as she was sitting me down i asked her if she went to xx gym and told her that i recognized her and so forth. Nothing too deep and no number but at least next time I see her at the gym, it’ll be easier to open. I guess i planted a seed.
Waitress:
Saw she was wearing an Apple Watch and asked her if she’s closed her rings and told her that I’m sure she closes her rings all the time since she’s a waitress. She opened up about how she always closes them up especially cause of her other job and the exercise ring is the hardest one to close which I agreed. The conversation could’ve gone on especially talking about exercise/gym but she was pretty busy and my mom was in front of me. Lulz.
Start small.
Question:
How would you guys have gotten the number if it was you?
Not a “cold approach” but made small talk with hostess and waitress...something I usually don’t do. I’m approaching this in a baby steps kinda way. Can’t go from not approaching women to approaching 10/10s in one day, nomsayin’? These little interactions are teaching me that women are usually pretty open to talking and usually you brighten their day up...like in the OP.
Hostess: I’ve seen her at the gym before and ironically saw her mirin’ last time on stair master. I knew she recognized me so as she was sitting me down i asked her if she went to xx gym and told her that i recognized her and so forth. Nothing too deep and no number but at least next time I see her at the gym, it’ll be easier to open. I guess i planted a seed.
Waitress:
Saw she was wearing an Apple Watch and asked her if she’s closed her rings and told her that I’m sure she closes her rings all the time since she’s a waitress. She opened up about how she always closes them up especially cause of her other job and the exercise ring is the hardest one to close which I agreed. The conversation could’ve gone on especially talking about exercise/gym but she was pretty busy and my mom was in front of me. Lulz.
Start small.
Question:
How would you guys have gotten the number if it was you?
07-01-2019, 11:16 PM
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Originally Posted By s2hot⏩
It’s a feature in the Apple Watch that measures how many “calories” you burn in the day, how many minutes you exercise for, and how many hours you stand. Each of those three is a ring and each ring is color coded. You set your daily goals for each and if you reach them, you “close” the ring for thatwhat does closed ring mean? Srs?
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07-02-2019, 05:24 AM
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Originally Posted By chivasregal⏩
Ahhh got you!It’s a feature in the Apple Watch that measures how many “calories” you burn in the day, how many minutes you exercise for, and how many hours you stand. Each of those three is a ring and each ring is color coded. You set your daily goals for each and if you reach them, you “close” the ring for that
Closed ring was a great opener. As you said, you could have stayed on the topic of gym, asked her if she workouts/what gym she goes to etc, and then progress from there after getting more personal details about her (e.g her Instagram or whatever). Doesn't always have to be a number, sometimes it's good to just get their social media and elevate from there. Plus a social account feels less invasive so girls are often more inclined to give it.
07-02-2019, 05:27 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
heh. I know I wouldGotta act like they're just some normal chick even though deep down you'd probably let them chit on your chest.
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07-02-2019, 05:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
LOL, I'd prolly shamelessly sniff dem cheeks.I wish you luck. Phat booty cuties will make you lose your train of thought. Gotta act like they're just some normal chick even though deep down you'd probably let them chit on your chest.
Well, I thought she brought her boyfriend with her this morning, but I realized it wasn't the same girl. I think. Who works legs two days in a row?
Tomorrow is rest day so maybe I'll see her later this week. Something is telling me it's over for me until I get joocy looking. I'm trying hard to get my numbers up.
07-02-2019, 05:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
I told you that from the start but you acted like a bish and didn't wanna hear the truth. I'm not saying one has to have an elite level look, but just look respectable/decent.?Something is telling me it's over for me until I get joocy looking. I'm trying hard to get my numbers up.
You can hit 2 plates in the next few months if you really put the work in and train hard/smart.
07-02-2019, 08:11 AM
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Originally Posted By s2hot⏩
To be fair you came off like you were trying to start some chit, not offer advice. Clear as day. I can handle criticism. But I'm "not ready" to cold approach because of my body? That's pure chit talk with no intent to offer advice. However it holds some truth with gym sloots depending on how built they are. Ex: YeahImMad.I told you that from the start but you acted like a bish and didn't wanna hear the truth. I'm not saying one has to have an elite level look, but just look respectable/decent.
You can hit 2 plates in the next few months if you really put the work in and train hard/smart.
You can hit 2 plates in the next few months if you really put the work in and train hard/smart.
Funny thing is most guys at my gym are still on one plate. Srs. The same guys I've seen since I first joined. Probably because they aren't consistent much like I was before. It'll be nice to surpass half of the guys at my gym. I'm far from a slob, but I'm no jacked sickunt either.
Body certainly is a big plus, but social skills will take even the average guy much farther. But both? Yeah I'll be slaying. My experience at the bar proves I have potential.
I didn't join a gym until I'd been here a few months. I didn't start getting serious until a few weeks ago. 100% My fault, however I can already see body results from this month alone.
I have a decent amount of lean muscle already, plus good genetics. I could probably get away with just getting my six pack back. That's not enough, I want to get a little bigger and defined.
It can, and will be done. If you're gonna dick around ITT, at least share some real stories of your own. This is what it's about after all.
07-02-2019, 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
fuk that get swolTo be fair you came off like you were trying to bust my chops. I didn't join a gym until I'd been here a few months. I didn't start getting serious until a few weeks ago. 100% My fault, however I can already see results.
I have a decent amount of lean muscle already, plus good genetics. I could probably get away with just getting my six pack back. But I want to get a little bigger and defined.
It can, and will be done.
I have a decent amount of lean muscle already, plus good genetics. I could probably get away with just getting my six pack back. But I want to get a little bigger and defined.
It can, and will be done.
GET FUKKIN SWOL DAWG
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07-02-2019, 11:11 AM
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Originally Posted By s2hot⏩
True. I need to work on that. I liked the closed ring opener especially on waitresses or hostesses. Even at the gym too. It might get a bit old for me eventually but it’s still a good one for anyone to use. I have no social media except twitter and Snapchat. Snap is a great way! It sounds less intimidating than “give me your number”. Plus all you do is take a pic of their username and code and that’s all it takes. The rest I can handleAhhh got you!
Closed ring was a great opener. As you said, you could have stayed on the topic of gym, asked her if she workouts/what gym she goes to etc, and then progress from there after getting more personal details about her (e.g her Instagram or whatever). Doesn't always have to be a number, sometimes it's good to just get their social media and elevate from there. Plus a social account feels less invasive so girls are often more inclined to give it.
Closed ring was a great opener. As you said, you could have stayed on the topic of gym, asked her if she workouts/what gym she goes to etc, and then progress from there after getting more personal details about her (e.g her Instagram or whatever). Doesn't always have to be a number, sometimes it's good to just get their social media and elevate from there. Plus a social account feels less invasive so girls are often more inclined to give it.
Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
True true. Thanks for the advice"I know you tied up right now, so let's talk about (whatever the fuk rings are or whatever) when you aren't working. Sound good to you? (wait for yes or no)
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07-02-2019, 09:52 PM
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I came across this video on youtube and thought it would help you guys out in your journey
07-03-2019, 09:13 AM
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^^^ good stuff, bruh. Owen’s other coaching videos are pretty good too. He’s not even that good looking, but his attitude towards this is amazing. I’m definitely subscribed to him. He’s not a PUA. He just stresses to live our lives, be happy and pick up girls in a way that doesn’t distort your journey to reach your personal goals.
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07-03-2019, 09:45 AM
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Day 3:
Yesterday I made no approaches. Made eye contact with this short Latina girl as we were walking towards the elevator. I had seen her before and she has such a nice booty. I felt so confident to talk to her, but as we walked into the elevator there were other people there. She was even wearing an Apple Watch so I could’ve used my Apple Watch Activity Ring opener Lulz. In general, I feel weird having convos in elevators with others around. So no approach but next time I am going to do it...she was very welcoming. The 3-second rule is amazing. Don’t think about it too much. Just approach! Stop playing every scenario in your head cause you don’t know where it’s going to go. Once you wait 5 seconds, you start to convince yourself not to do it. Most people would love to have a conversation or would love to he approached! Even a simple “hey have a great day” will brighten someone’s day. Come on fellas!
Just got back from a coffee shop here in downtown (me and coworkers walked to it) and made conversation with a family who had a dog. It was a lady (40s), her daughter, it might’ve been the lady’s dad and another girl. Ended up talking to the 40 year old lady for a bit about her dog (lady was actually pretty hot. I thought I’d be talking to the whole family, but she’s the only one that stayed as the other ordered coffee). We talked about how they moved here from Colorado and how well-behaved the dog is on trips. It pretty simple, but something I’ve never really done before. Again, this is just for my building-confidence-up journey. Not every one of my interactions is going to involve a girl whose number I want to get. It’s about opening up to people in public so that when a girl i want to talk to is there, it’ll feel more natural to talk to her. This will involve dudes (no homo), janitors, baristas, and of course women. I think it’s an effective strategy. Baby steps!
Yesterday I made no approaches. Made eye contact with this short Latina girl as we were walking towards the elevator. I had seen her before and she has such a nice booty. I felt so confident to talk to her, but as we walked into the elevator there were other people there. She was even wearing an Apple Watch so I could’ve used my Apple Watch Activity Ring opener Lulz. In general, I feel weird having convos in elevators with others around. So no approach but next time I am going to do it...she was very welcoming. The 3-second rule is amazing. Don’t think about it too much. Just approach! Stop playing every scenario in your head cause you don’t know where it’s going to go. Once you wait 5 seconds, you start to convince yourself not to do it. Most people would love to have a conversation or would love to he approached! Even a simple “hey have a great day” will brighten someone’s day. Come on fellas!
Just got back from a coffee shop here in downtown (me and coworkers walked to it) and made conversation with a family who had a dog. It was a lady (40s), her daughter, it might’ve been the lady’s dad and another girl. Ended up talking to the 40 year old lady for a bit about her dog (lady was actually pretty hot. I thought I’d be talking to the whole family, but she’s the only one that stayed as the other ordered coffee). We talked about how they moved here from Colorado and how well-behaved the dog is on trips. It pretty simple, but something I’ve never really done before. Again, this is just for my building-confidence-up journey. Not every one of my interactions is going to involve a girl whose number I want to get. It’s about opening up to people in public so that when a girl i want to talk to is there, it’ll feel more natural to talk to her. This will involve dudes (no homo), janitors, baristas, and of course women. I think it’s an effective strategy. Baby steps!
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Procedures I’ve had. Feel free to ask about them:
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- Septoplasty (2018)
- Gum Graft (2019)
- Gynecomastia/Liposuction (2021)
07-03-2019, 09:56 AM
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Originally Posted By chivasregal⏩
Das it brahDay 3:
Yesterday I made no approaches. Made eye contact with this short Latina girl as we were walking towards the elevator. I had seen her before and she has such a nice booty. I felt so confident to talk to her, but as we walked into the elevator there were other people there. She was even wearing an Apple Watch so I could’ve used my Apple Watch Activity Seinfeld opener Lulz. In general, I feel weird having convos in elevators with others around. So no approach but next time I am going to do it...she was very welcoming. The 3-second rule is amazing. Don’t think about it too much. Just approach! Stop playing every scenario in your head cause you don’t know where it’s going to go. Once you wait 5 seconds, you start to convince yourself not to do it. Most people would love to have a conversation or would love to he approached! Even a simple “hey have a great day” will brighten someone’s day. Come on fellas!
Just got back from a coffee shop here in downtown (me and coworkers walked to it) and made conversation with a family who had a dog. It was a lady (40s), her daughter, it might’ve been the lady’s dad and another girl. Ended up talking to the 40 year old lady for a bit about her dog (lady was actually pretty hot. I thought I’d be talking to the whole family, but she’s the only one that stayed as the other ordered coffee). We talked about how they moved here from Colorado and how well-behaved the dog is on trips. It pretty simple, but something I’ve never really done before. Again, this is just for my building-confidence-up journey. Not every one of my interactions is going to involve a girl whose number I want to get. It’s about opening up to people in public so that when a girl i want to talk to is there, it’ll feel more natural to talk to her. This will involve dudes (no homo), janitors, baristas, and of course women. I think it’s an effective strategy. Baby steps!
Yesterday I made no approaches. Made eye contact with this short Latina girl as we were walking towards the elevator. I had seen her before and she has such a nice booty. I felt so confident to talk to her, but as we walked into the elevator there were other people there. She was even wearing an Apple Watch so I could’ve used my Apple Watch Activity Seinfeld opener Lulz. In general, I feel weird having convos in elevators with others around. So no approach but next time I am going to do it...she was very welcoming. The 3-second rule is amazing. Don’t think about it too much. Just approach! Stop playing every scenario in your head cause you don’t know where it’s going to go. Once you wait 5 seconds, you start to convince yourself not to do it. Most people would love to have a conversation or would love to he approached! Even a simple “hey have a great day” will brighten someone’s day. Come on fellas!
Just got back from a coffee shop here in downtown (me and coworkers walked to it) and made conversation with a family who had a dog. It was a lady (40s), her daughter, it might’ve been the lady’s dad and another girl. Ended up talking to the 40 year old lady for a bit about her dog (lady was actually pretty hot. I thought I’d be talking to the whole family, but she’s the only one that stayed as the other ordered coffee). We talked about how they moved here from Colorado and how well-behaved the dog is on trips. It pretty simple, but something I’ve never really done before. Again, this is just for my building-confidence-up journey. Not every one of my interactions is going to involve a girl whose number I want to get. It’s about opening up to people in public so that when a girl i want to talk to is there, it’ll feel more natural to talk to her. This will involve dudes (no homo), janitors, baristas, and of course women. I think it’s an effective strategy. Baby steps!
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07-03-2019, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Possibly the way I worded it came off wrong, was just trying to give some tough love and be a realist. I speak very candidly and don't beat around the bush.To be fair you came off like you were trying to start some chit, not offer advice. Clear as day. I can handle criticism. But I'm "not ready" to cold approach because of my body? That's pure chit talk with no intent to offer advice. However it holds some truth with gym sloots depending on how built they are. Ex: YeahImMad.
Funny thing is most guys at my gym are still on one plate. Srs. The same guys I've seen since I first joined. Probably because they aren't consistent much like I was before. It'll be nice to surpass half of the guys at my gym. I'm far from a slob, but I'm no jacked sickunt either.
Body certainly is a big plus, but social skills will take even the average guy much farther. But both? Yeah I'll be slaying. My experience at the bar proves I have potential.
I didn't join a gym until I'd been here a few months. I didn't start getting serious until a few weeks ago. 100% My fault, however I can already see body results from this month alone.
I have a decent amount of lean muscle already, plus good genetics. I could probably get away with just getting my six pack back. That's not enough, I want to get a little bigger and defined.
It can, and will be done. If you're gonna dick around ITT, at least share some real stories of your own. This is what it's about after all.
Funny thing is most guys at my gym are still on one plate. Srs. The same guys I've seen since I first joined. Probably because they aren't consistent much like I was before. It'll be nice to surpass half of the guys at my gym. I'm far from a slob, but I'm no jacked sickunt either.
Body certainly is a big plus, but social skills will take even the average guy much farther. But both? Yeah I'll be slaying. My experience at the bar proves I have potential.
I didn't join a gym until I'd been here a few months. I didn't start getting serious until a few weeks ago. 100% My fault, however I can already see body results from this month alone.
I have a decent amount of lean muscle already, plus good genetics. I could probably get away with just getting my six pack back. That's not enough, I want to get a little bigger and defined.
It can, and will be done. If you're gonna dick around ITT, at least share some real stories of your own. This is what it's about after all.
As you said, one should have both social skills and looks to really excel. Sounds like you have the drive to get there, so I'm sure you will do fine once you start putting yourself out there.
I will post stories in the future and try to offer more constructive criticism and be more diplomatic, I do like the idea of this thread a lot.
Originally Posted By chivasregal⏩
you're doing well man, but don't worry about others judgement. You really have to rid yourself of what others think and do what's best for you. Anyone with some modicum of intelligence isn't going to think little of a guy shooting his shot with someone, or even making friendly conversation. It is only when someone comes off as aggressive or sleezy that people take issue, just don't fall into that category and you have no worries. But good stuff man.Day 3:
Yesterday I made no approaches. Made eye contact with this short Latina girl as we were walking towards the elevator. I had seen her before and she has such a nice booty. I felt so confident to talk to her, but as we walked into the elevator there were other people there. She was even wearing an Apple Watch so I could’ve used my Apple Watch Activity Seinfeld opener Lulz. In general, I feel weird having convos in elevators with others around. So no approach but next time I am going to do it...she was very welcoming. The 3-second rule is amazing. Don’t think about it too much. Just approach! Stop playing every scenario in your head cause you don’t know where it’s going to go. Once you wait 5 seconds, you start to convince yourself not to do it. Most people would love to have a conversation or would love to he approached! Even a simple “hey have a great day” will brighten someone’s day. Come on fellas!
Just got back from a coffee shop here in downtown (me and coworkers walked to it) and made conversation with a family who had a dog. It was a lady (40s), her daughter, it might’ve been the lady’s dad and another girl. Ended up talking to the 40 year old lady for a bit about her dog (lady was actually pretty hot. I thought I’d be talking to the whole family, but she’s the only one that stayed as the other ordered coffee). We talked about how they moved here from Colorado and how well-behaved the dog is on trips. It pretty simple, but something I’ve never really done before. Again, this is just for my building-confidence-up journey. Not every one of my interactions is going to involve a girl whose number I want to get. It’s about opening up to people in public so that when a girl i want to talk to is there, it’ll feel more natural to talk to her. This will involve dudes (no homo), janitors, baristas, and of course women. I think it’s an effective strategy. Baby steps!
Yesterday I made no approaches. Made eye contact with this short Latina girl as we were walking towards the elevator. I had seen her before and she has such a nice booty. I felt so confident to talk to her, but as we walked into the elevator there were other people there. She was even wearing an Apple Watch so I could’ve used my Apple Watch Activity Seinfeld opener Lulz. In general, I feel weird having convos in elevators with others around. So no approach but next time I am going to do it...she was very welcoming. The 3-second rule is amazing. Don’t think about it too much. Just approach! Stop playing every scenario in your head cause you don’t know where it’s going to go. Once you wait 5 seconds, you start to convince yourself not to do it. Most people would love to have a conversation or would love to he approached! Even a simple “hey have a great day” will brighten someone’s day. Come on fellas!
Just got back from a coffee shop here in downtown (me and coworkers walked to it) and made conversation with a family who had a dog. It was a lady (40s), her daughter, it might’ve been the lady’s dad and another girl. Ended up talking to the 40 year old lady for a bit about her dog (lady was actually pretty hot. I thought I’d be talking to the whole family, but she’s the only one that stayed as the other ordered coffee). We talked about how they moved here from Colorado and how well-behaved the dog is on trips. It pretty simple, but something I’ve never really done before. Again, this is just for my building-confidence-up journey. Not every one of my interactions is going to involve a girl whose number I want to get. It’s about opening up to people in public so that when a girl i want to talk to is there, it’ll feel more natural to talk to her. This will involve dudes (no homo), janitors, baristas, and of course women. I think it’s an effective strategy. Baby steps!
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^^true. I guess it’s just part of me...even if the approach goes well, i always feel like I’m being judged, but that’s something I need to get rid of.
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07-03-2019, 05:28 PM
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Originally Posted By SiIverBack⏩
No, EOD is ded serious.Lol I repped him because I thought his post was funny, no need to get all cut about it, it’s obviously jokes
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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07-05-2019, 05:02 AM
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Can confirm gym crush has bf. Looks like a fukn Timothy.
I know it's not a direct rejection, but my self esteem feels like it took a hit. Been an overall chitty gym session this morning. Bad nights sleep, plus my head just wasn't in it. Not to mention I realized my squat form needs work. Gonna leg press and head out. Almost late for work.
I know it's not a direct rejection, but my self esteem feels like it took a hit. Been an overall chitty gym session this morning. Bad nights sleep, plus my head just wasn't in it. Not to mention I realized my squat form needs work. Gonna leg press and head out. Almost late for work.
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Got off early and decided to hit this bar on the way home. Most of everyone is chatting it up. No interactions, but this type of place is far out of comfort zone. Think hooters, but prettier women with bigger butts.
These working girls are cold. Not even gonna try it.
These working girls are cold. Not even gonna try it.
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
You hit the bar by yourself? Bruh...that takes balls i don’t care what anyone says. Unless you’re an experienced cold approacher, hitting bars up alone deserves praise. Typically people obviously go in groups.Got off early and decided to hit this bar on the way home. Most of everyone is chatting it up. No interactions, but this type of place is far out of comfort zone. Think hooters, but prettier women with bigger butts.
These working girls are cold. Not even gonna try it.
These working girls are cold. Not even gonna try it.
As for your gym “crush”...dude at least you know now she has a boyfriend instead of wondering, nawmsayin’? Forget about her for now. I always like to assume the girl is unhappy and she wishes she wasn’t with the guy (as bad as that sounds) and i consider myself the better guy and make myself the prize. It’s not worth to let that ruin your workout or day man. Just know you’re on deck. You’ll be alright! There are about 3 cute girls I know of, especially a co-worker (lulz) that have boyfriends but I just play it cool. I tell my stories of my life and make it known I’m living life for me and I love to have fun. I can tell my coworker is pretty intrigued (her bf seems boring), but I’m also not gonna be a home wrecker cause I believe in karma. I’m just living life for me and wait my turn...and I will Cold approach when I don’t feel like waiting my turn.
Day 4 (i believe):
No Cold approaches yesterday. Volunteered at church and “approached” 2 girls and 2 dudes at this huge 4th of July party celebration. They were volunteers there too and I went up to those and introduced myself and chatted a bit. Again, not a “cold” approach but still an approach.
Will be heading to my University’s gym today for the first time in 6 months. Didn’t go for a while cause ex-wife was going there too during her last semester of school. She graduated in May so now I can go again without feeling of paranoia. I got my bachelor’s in 2013 and I’m already a professional engineer working full-time, but i went back to grad school Fall 2018. Feels good making good money around college girls.
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07-05-2019, 03:38 PM
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Didn't read the thread at all cos boring asf but I'm assuming so far:
- No one ITT got a girls number
- No one ITT got laid with a girl from cold approach
I.e. entire thread is a circlejerk.
Am I wrong?
- No one ITT got a girls number
- No one ITT got laid with a girl from cold approach
I.e. entire thread is a circlejerk.
Am I wrong?
07-05-2019, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Fortunamera⏩
Didn't read the thread at all cos boring asf but I'm assuming so far:
- No one ITT got a girls number
- No one ITT got laid with a girl from cold approach
I.e. entire thread is a circlejerk.
Am I wrong?
- No one ITT got a girls number
- No one ITT got laid with a girl from cold approach
I.e. entire thread is a circlejerk.
Am I wrong?
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