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post 1695747923 01-02-2024, 09:18 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Ok after the new years party I'm actually pretty sure I could ask out this one girl, she seems to like me. I dont know if I will though I just dont really want to for some reason.

I also got my phone back now.
See? Ain't that hard when you think with a bit of confidence and positivity.

Ask her out , shoot the shot
post 1695747963 01-02-2024, 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Ok after the new years party I'm actually pretty sure I could ask out this one girl, she seems to like me. I dont know if I will though I just dont really want to for some reason.

I also got my phone back now.
Wtf? Volcel detected.
post 1695748753 01-02-2024, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
See? Ain't that hard when you think with a bit of confidence and positivity.

Ask her out , shoot the shot
IDK I feel like a dog that caught the car now. Im not motivated to do it even though I'm pretty sure it would work.
post 1695749113 01-02-2024, 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
IDK I feel like a dog that caught the car now. Im not motivated to do it even though I'm pretty sure it would work.
Yeah, that's pretty much your issue. You did the same thing in terms of obsessing over buying a house, going into theatrics about how your life was over if you couldn't get one, and then just moved on to the next complaint once it happened.

People have said this before, but this is now clear proof. Your fundamental unhappiness has nothing to do with women or inceldom. Find the actual source of your discontent.
post 1695749893 01-02-2024, 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Yeah, that's pretty much your issue. You did the same thing in terms of obsessing over buying a house, going into theatrics about how your life was over if you couldn't get one, and then just moved on to the next complaint once it happened.

People have said this before, but this is now clear proof. Your fundamental unhappiness has nothing to do with women or inceldom. Find the actual source of your discontent.
I dont think thats accurate, I fukin love my house and everything. Of course that didnt mean life is perfect with no complaints.

I think I'm just lazy. If I do this it requires work and I dont feel like it.
post 1695751403 01-02-2024, 10:40 AM
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LOL. "My life sucks and I will eventually rope because I am lonely and never get laid." Moments later: "This girl probably likes me, but it would be work to ask her out, so I'll just stay lonely and not getting laid." Tomorrow: "This is a societal problem. Who is going to fix it?"
post 1695754393 01-02-2024, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
LOL. "My life sucks and I will eventually rope because I am lonely and never get laid." Moments later: "This girl probably likes me, but it would be work to ask her out, so I'll just stay lonely and not getting laid." Tomorrow: "This is a societal problem. Who is going to fix it?"
problem?
post 1695754673 01-02-2024, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
problem?
You complain every day about being an incel and saying girls always reject you immediately based on height/looks, then you find one you think is legitimately interested in you, but you "don't really want to" ask her out. You are choosing to remain in your situation and 100% vindicating all of the people who have told you that your attitude is an issue. Maybe leave the "Fap Until Cum Blood" and "NEETmaxxed" crews, change your mindset, and ask the girl out like an actual man with at least a double-digit test reading.

The societal issue is female-brained "men" with no agency.
post 1695754953 01-02-2024, 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
You complain every day about being an incel and saying girls always reject you immediately based on height/looks, then you find one you think is legitimately interested in you, but you "don't really want to" ask her out. You are choosing to remain in your situation and 100% vindicating all of the people who have told you that your attitude is an issue. Maybe leave the "Fap Until Cum Blood" and "NEETmaxxed" crews, change your mindset, and ask the girl out like an actual man with at least a double-digit test reading.

The societal issue is female-brained "men" with no agency.
I think I hate being incel more than I want to date if that makes sense. it sucks being alone but I also dont think I want to put in the effort of dating.

its over for me
post 1695755083 01-02-2024, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I think I hate being incel more than I want to date if that makes sense. it sucks being alone but I also dont think I want to put in the effort of dating.

its over for me
That's certainly your prerogative, but I would expect under those circumstances that you'd stop posting threads about how much it's over and sucks being an incel. If you have any attraction to a girl who seems interested in you but are basically just too lazy to make a move, you aren't an incel.
post 1695755123 01-02-2024, 12:05 PM
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Lmao @ anyone who reads OP's posts on this page and every bothers responding to these threads again.
Ol' 71st street. The devil that birthed me.

606 G0D.
post 1695755313 01-02-2024, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
That's certainly your prerogative, but I would expect under those circumstances that you'd stop posting threads about how much it's over and sucks being an incel. If you have any attraction to a girl who seems interested in you but are basically just too lazy to make a move, you aren't an incel.
Well I know that now, its not like this happened before. Its still over either way
post 1695755403 01-02-2024, 12:11 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I think I hate being incel more than I want to date if that makes sense. it sucks being alone but I also dont think I want to put in the effort of dating.

its over for me
Have you been a troll this entire time? I'm screen shoting this post for the record, and also just lol @ thinking you wouldn't have been an incel in any other era as well. Your problem is entitlement combined with extreme laziness, a combo that would have doomed you even in the 50s.
post 1695755513 01-02-2024, 12:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Have you been a troll this entire time? I'm screen shoting this post for the record, amd also just lol @ thinking you wouldn't have been an incel in any other era as well. Your problem is entitlement combined with extreme laziness, a combo that would have doomed you even in the 50s.
No I'm not a troll, nothing Ive done is even funny how would that be a troll.

Like I said I think I just caught the car and realized its too much work.
post 1695755793 01-02-2024, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Lmao @ anyone who reads OP's posts on this page and every bothers responding to these threads again.
Happy new year dude!! Hope you're doing well
post 1695755853 01-02-2024, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
No I'm not a troll, nothing Ive done is even funny how would that be a troll.

Like I said I think I just caught the car and realized its too much work.
Isn't that something you normally assess after you've asked a girl out? There are plenty of girls out there who don't require an unusual amount of regular effort to keep them interested. There seem to be a number of guys on the Misc with this weird view that going out to do something fun with a girl and having conversations with her is "jestermaxxing." If she agrees to go out and you find that the effort required to get to a more intimate stage is more than you're interested in exerting, then you can always abandon ship. Until you try, you don't know. Maybe she's extremely easy-going.

It sort of sounds like you'd rather play video games, fap, and rot than even put in the minimal effort to suggest grabbing some food together or something. Is that really a bridge too far for you?
post 1695756413 01-02-2024, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
LOL. "My life sucks and I will eventually rope because I am lonely and never get laid." Moments later: "This girl probably likes me, but it would be work to ask her out, so I'll just stay lonely and not getting laid." Tomorrow: "This is a societal problem. Who is going to fix it?"
Win lose or draw shoot the shot

He's pussying out

Wether 6'2 or 5'2 u got to shoot the shot
post 1695756483 01-02-2024, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I think I hate being incel more than I want to date if that makes sense. it sucks being alone but I also dont think I want to put in the effort of dating.

its over for me
Then what r u on here complaining about ?

Good things in life require effort .


That's another reason u can't find a girl ...pure lazy.

U know how many fking dates I went on in 2023 ?

Luckily I've been seeing one solid girl 4 months tho..but it all starts with the bullchit walk in the park , etc .
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Your mindset and personality are your biggest obstacle. It was obvious
post 1695761723 01-02-2024, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
Isn't that something you normally assess after you've asked a girl out? There are plenty of girls out there who don't require an unusual amount of regular effort to keep them interested. There seem to be a number of guys on the Misc with this weird view that going out to do something fun with a girl and having conversations with her is "jestermaxxing." If she agrees to go out and you find that the effort required to get to a more intimate stage is more than you're interested in exerting, then you can always abandon ship. Until you try, you don't know. Maybe she's extremely easy-going.

It sort of sounds like you'd rather play video games, fap, and rot than even put in the minimal effort to suggest grabbing some food together or something. Is that really a bridge too far for you?
The thought of even the first step is difficult. Its not really have about her being a lot of work, its more that I'd rather just rot and not have any obligations or make any changes. I think i want to just stay NEET.
post 1695761883 01-02-2024, 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Then what r u on here complaining about ?

Good things in life require effort .


That's another reason u can't find a girl ...pure lazy.

U know how many fking dates I went on in 2023 ?

Luckily I've been seeing one solid girl 4 months tho..but it all starts with the bullchit walk in the park , etc .
I only just realized this now. Never even had any options before but now that this apparently exists idk, I think I like the idea of it more than the reality
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So it turns out that it was really just the individual and all those well sourced graphs and obscure articles were not fact.

I am shocked at this twist
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At least we know not to take BBMG seriously now.
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