Congrats on the weight loss otaku...as for me I fell all the way off since 4th of July, so far it's been a whole week since I hit the gym. Diet has been pretty ****ty too, feels like I'm averaging 1500cals of straight horsesh-t this past week. I definitely need to get my sh-t together.

Started my new job this and for the life of me I just can't understand how I'm doing so bad with women. Based off my performance with women you'd think I'm socially awkward,quiet and beta but somehow everyone laughs at my jokes/ seems to think I'm cool. I'm not even being that funny/outspoken IMO. Miscers are always saying that if you're a normal guy who acts normal you'll get laid, but that's clearly a myth. I was over it but this week really has me wondering wtf is going on considering I meet all of the "requirements". I don't really get lonely anymore though, I'm used to it at this point tbh.

/rant



Lucky you. It's funny you mention the Kobe, cause earlier today I was just thinking about how terrible my luck with women is and the whole miss 100% of the shots you don't take mentality. I saw this girl that reminded me of this hot white girl I met one night...she was laughing at every word I said, being very touchy and when her friend tried introducing her to some other guy she ended up coming back over and continuing the conversation. Ended up losing her that night before I got the number and looked her up on ******** but at the last second I thought it'd be creepy considering I'd recently done the same thing to a couple of other girls and got no response. There's a couple of girls that I hit it off well with, but didn't go through with pursuing because of recent rejections. Maybe they would've rejected me too, but when I think of our interactions I really feel like something decent would've came out of it. I haven't really approached in a while and only (rarely) meet girls through friends... today had me feeling like maybe I should really take 100% of the chances I get.



Lofi is where its at brah...check out atf on soundcloud, he has tons of songs like this. This same station got me through 2 hours+ of finance hwk a couple of weeks ago

I know it's hard to feel like this but from what I remember your face is normal and your not an ugly guy, didn't you have a job where girls would gaggle about you? I feel like it's more of the black guy sounding "white" thing. In my experience girls seem into me until they hear me speak. There are a couple who accept it, but more often then not they want someone with some semblance of being hood

Don't join until that time is in the top 20% brah. You have to take the SFRE first?

How old are you Trevan?

The guys in here should post chest pics ITT like we are in the Female Miscer hip to waist thread. That will cheer everyone up

You just....love attention dont you?



EDIT: BOY IM OUTCHEA YAH FEEL ME!?. Add me on steam if you want these problems. 1st place out of 100 players.

Thanks breh. Trying to join team swole again. Also Im in the exact same boat. Everyone seems to think Im Chad/Jamal. I've said it 100 times on this board but many of my friends ask me for tips and etc. We had a conversation at work and I just kinda broke down and said I cannot wait to leave this city because I've had 3+ years of poor experiences in dating. A few bros inquired, and I outright said I had Tinder,OKC, and POF for 3 years and got literally 2 dates. Then they asked about my IRL game and I said over 3 years I'd have one girl in public that I've hit on go out with me and she showed signs of crazy. They all quite literally acted mind blown. Then a black girl that is in a relationship, but Im 99.9% sure she flirts with me was looking completely mind blown when I was saying this. Feel no need to "fake it till I make it. They asked me a legit question and I answered.

When I worked at a call center I was getting a **** ton of stares. Was at the height of my gym game. However only the fattest women and busted women seemed to be receptive. There was this white girl that was asking about me, but the moment I spoke to her she seemingly lost all interest. Maybe she wanted a black dude that didnt seem "white". Or perhaps Im a social retard and no one in IRL wants to tell me.

brb people seem to think you slay
brb kill job interviews and peoples parents think you're awesome
brb cannot get a date or girlfriend to save your life.


Also lofi and anime/game hip hop remixs are the **** son


PM me and we can talk about what I'll be doing breh.

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Otakutrevan I think I know your problem. is not looks because i see average/ugly dudes with gfs all the time. believe it or not men are way more shallow than women when it comes to looks. men are more likely to value a women exclusively on looks, but notsomuch the other way around. problem is that you are punished for being a “civilized” black dude

Sounds kind of fuked up, but allow me to explain. Basically ever since jews hijacked the hiphop industry and other avenues of “black culture”, black people are expected to be thug swag gangbanger non-intellectual types. So many black women basically expect the “alphas” to act like that. But since so many black guys fit that stereotype you also get the minority of black women who are looking for someone of more substance to swear off black men too.

Then the white chicks that do like black guys usually do because of that same stereotype too of the whole “swag, street, thuglifeyo”. Most white girls that are open to black guys go exclusively for those kind of black guys. If they want normal dudes, they mostly just stick with white guys. not to mention there is more competition for 20something year old nonfat childless whitegirls than any other other demographic. literally every single male aims for this demographic no matter their age, race, w/e. so without status or something that separates you, is tough.

I think a lot of the other races(Hispanics, Asians, Indians, arabss, etc. that are basically westernized, so no fobs) would be less reliant on stereotypes as the two extremes and status of blacks/whites. But then the problem there is that often times they are really close to their fobby parents/family, and these same parents disapprove of blacks more than anyone.

So looks like you get pummeled from all 3 angles. If I were u I’d probably try to find a nerdy black chick(or mixed) or one of those westernized other race woman that isn’t super subservient to her parents. I seem to see a lot of Hispanic women with black dudes, so maybe they don’t have the same stigma there. Pretty sure a lot of Hispanics are part black anyway.

Also lofi and anime/game hip hop remixs are the **** son

Otakutrevan I think I know your problem. is not looks because i see average/ugly dudes with gfs all the time. believe it or not men are way more shallow than women when it comes to looks. men are more likely to value a women exclusively on looks, but notsomuch the other way around. problem is that you are punished for being a “civilized” black dude

Sounds kind of fuked up, but allow me to explain. Basically ever since jews hijacked the hiphop industry and other avenues of “black culture”, black people are expected to be thug swag gangbanger non-intellectual types. So many black women basically expect the “alphas” to act like that. But since so many black guys fit that stereotype you also get the minority of black women who are looking for someone of more substance to swear off black men too.

Then the white chicks that do like black guys usually do because of that same stereotype too of the whole “swag, street, thuglifeyo”. Most white girls that are open to black guys go exclusively for those kind of black guys. If they want normal dudes, they mostly just stick with white guys. not to mention there is more competition for 20something year old nonfat childless whitegirls than any other other demographic. literally every single male aims for this demographic no matter their age, race, w/e. so without status or something that separates you, is tough.

I think a lot of the other races(Hispanics, Asians, Indians, arabss, etc. that are basically westernized, so no fobs) would be less reliant on stereotypes as the two extremes and status of blacks/whites. But then the problem there is that often times they are really close to their fobby parents/family, and these same parents disapprove of blacks more than anyone.

So looks like you get pummeled from all 3 angles. If I were u I’d probably try to find a nerdy black chick(or mixed) or one of those westernized other race woman that isn’t super subservient to her parents. I seem to see a lot of Hispanic women with black dudes, so maybe they don’t have the same stigma there. Pretty sure a lot of Hispanics are part black anyway.

Didn't know many people listen to that stuff.

All I ever listen to is lofi/anime vibe/vaporwave type music, especially the 24/7 live streams on youtube whenever I'm studying, working out, or working in general..... especially Vaportrap mixes. If ever I want video game/anime mixes with elements of trap music, Vaportrap hands down (mainly mixes fromEmotional Tokyo& Soul Wave).

^^

Can't click first link

This 1 million times. I've been saying this on here for months. You have said it far better than I could.

Strong ethnic group to controlling media ratio lol.


I 100% believe that non hood black dudes have it rougher with black women. 25% of blacks live in poverty so many embody the vernacular and mannerisms of the ghetto subculture. And due to the media tons of black women, even educated, seem to think those dudes have sex appeal or are cool. Have had several black women admit this. Even women in my family. Jordan Peele comes to mind. He even said growing up throughout his life black women just seemed to curve him more than other groups of women.

Otakutrevan I think I know your problem. is not looks because i see average/ugly dudes with gfs all the time. believe it or not men are way more shallow than women when it comes to looks. men are more likely to value a women exclusively on looks, but notsomuch the other way around. problem is that you are punished for being a “civilized” black dude

Sounds kind of fuked up, but allow me to explain. Basically ever since jews hijacked the hiphop industry and other avenues of “black culture”, black people are expected to be thug swag gangbanger non-intellectual types. So many black women basically expect the “alphas” to act like that. But since so many black guys fit that stereotype you also get the minority of black women who are looking for someone of more substance to swear off black men too.

Then the white chicks that do like black guys usually do because of that same stereotype too of the whole “swag, street, thuglifeyo”. Most white girls that are open to black guys go exclusively for those kind of black guys. If they want normal dudes, they mostly just stick with white guys. not to mention there is more competition for 20something year old nonfat childless whitegirls than any other other demographic. literally every single male aims for this demographic no matter their age, race, w/e. so without status or something that separates you, is tough.

I think a lot of the other races(Hispanics, Asians, Indians, arabss, etc. that are basically westernized, so no fobs) would be less reliant on stereotypes as the two extremes and status of blacks/whites. But then the problem there is that often times they are really close to their fobby parents/family, and these same parents disapprove of blacks more than anyone.

So looks like you get pummeled from all 3 angles. If I were u I’d probably try to find a nerdy black chick(or mixed) or one of those westernized other race woman that isn’t super subservient to her parents. I seem to see a lot of Hispanic women with black dudes, so maybe they don’t have the same stigma there. Pretty sure a lot of Hispanics are part black anyway.

Solid post! I think awhile back Otaku said that white people can pretty much be apart of any sub culture they want to, but the minute a black person subscribes to a sub

culture isn't "black" it's weird.

brb black
brb libertarian/conservative
brb "you are a sell out house negro" to almost 90% + of all black people. Literally dries up vaginas.

The thing is most of my black friends act like me. Some are perhaps less noticeably nerdy or etc, but most of them dress and speak "white" (nonsense term but theres no other way to describe it). Toms, sperrys, polos, above the knee colored shorts, or skate shoes, metal shirts, and etc. Same thing for the Army. Most of the black guys I knew in my job field werent hood/ghetto at all. If they looked up to par? They never had women problems


The ones that pull? usually lean/good faces.
The ones that don't? usually ugly or chubby/fat.


Did a Tinder experiment with one of my black bros photos in my area and this happened in less than 7 days. Many of them messaged first. They just wanted some of that clean cute attractive Jamal. Same thing happened when I used vicks pictures. Why do anything when its obviously all about the face (or money/status if you have a ton of either).

MGTOW is for guys that don't think dating is really worth the effort.

Not hijacking, but Trust me non hood black girls have trouble too. The non-hood black dudes in my city with thatengineer moneyare killing it here. Meanwhile I don't even get looks from non hood black dudes. Not mad, just an observation. Hispanic guys, a few Asians, and odd white guys will give me looks. Black guys not so much.

Not hijacking, but Trust me non hood black girls have trouble too. The non-hood black dudes in my city with that engineer money are killing it here. Meanwhile I don't even get looks from non hood black dudes. Not mad, just an observation. Hispanic guys, a few Asians, and odd white guys will give me looks. Black guys not so much.

The guys on here act like dating is so easy for women and it is for the party type/sorority type of girls, but many who don't fit into that stereotype struggle too.I have heard countless stories from women in their 20s who post dating profiles and get no responses.I'm glad you balance out this forum with real-life talk, and wish that you find a quality man for a relationship

I have a white female friend from college who only dates black men who are more of the "hood" types. I set her up with an black engineer guy her age who was financially stable, intelligent, jacked and ripped (his body looked like a 20 year old and he was 48) as her on-again, off-again boyfriend was 15 years younger and constantly cheating on her in front of me and her when we went out.

But she said the engineer guy seemed "boring" and not as "funny" as her cheating guy, so she politely declined and went back to that hood guy, until he finally left her for another woman.

I blame the media for hyping up the Lil' Wayne, Tupac, that look and find that guys are "sexy" when they have that dress and swag.

Countless stories of 20-something year old women that have dating profiles and get no responses? Those "countless" women are ugly AF, plain, point blank simple. We all know any decent-looking woman in her 20s is gonna get views, messages, matches. Most of the time unless a woman is just completely hideous, you women are gonna have alot of options like beta white knight orbiters and Chads, Tyrones, Jamals, etc. Even if the woman isn't a party girl, it really doesn't matter if she's remotely attractive. Do you seriously believe if a hot woman sends a message to a guy online, she's is not gonna get responses??? You're delusional or retarded if you think otherwise.

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Countless stories of 20-something year old women that have dating profiles and get no responses? Those "countless" women are ugly AF, plain, point blank simple. We all know any decent-looking woman in her 20s is gonna get views, messages, matches. Most of the time unless a woman is just completely hideous, you women are gonna have alot of options like beta white knight orbiters and Chads, Tyrones, Jamals, etc. Even if the woman isn't a party girl, it really doesn't matter if she's remotely attractive. Do you seriously believe if a hot woman sends a message to a guy online, she's is not gonna get responses??? You're delusional or retarded if you think otherwise.

I refuse to believe that you guys actually know women that arent getting approached in real life or online. The universe is set up for that to literally (yes you read correctly) not happen. You can be an overweight boring broke woman and men will still try to get on.