what a bargain....

I'm in a huge market (Miami) and Im finding that the majority of girls are spread across these apps as well. I have bumble and tinder and I'm seeing a bunch of girls I used to match with on Tinder also on bumble.

Also a reminder that you shouldn't take these girls too seriously. Imagine being a chick and having hundreds of options through multiple apps..

Absolutely haram

[QUOTE=SUPERDUKE1290 post_id=1588085501]what a bargain....

[img]https://i.imgur.com/U0xVTvv.png[img][/QUOTE]Way back in this thread somebody predicted that there would be a super boost in the future.

[QUOTE=Briisk post_id=1588035681]So tinder apparently plus and gold are different now. They want 60$ for 6 months of plus, and then another 90$ for 6 months of gold to see your matches.

I have 20 matches lined up and have never matched with them, surely they can't be wanting me to buy gold version.

Seems like bumble is the better app nowadays?[/QUOTE]Bumble seems to depend a lot on your location. Where I live, it is not very active, which explains why they do a lot of IRL marketing. Handing out stickers, merchandise, etc, and I see their beehive stickers posted up in random places.

i take back my recommendation of hinge… it seems they may also use the newbie boost tactic, the differences being theirs lasts for a few weeks instead of a few days, and theres not even a way to pay to boost to regain visibility. weak. gonna try to confirm with customer support

I swiped so damn much I'm still receiving matches from 2 years ago no lie.



How is ******** dating treating everyone?


I'm doing horrible on there, the women are Plenty of Fish atrocious so i say no to 90% of the women. It's going to take some time since so many people are worried about being exposed on ******** but it's going to eventually overtake Tinder as long as it remains free. I do wish it had options for preferences like Hinge.

just matched with a chick who has a pic with a sloth and mentions in her bio that shes a sloth lover. i thought of this thread and lold

Been having tons of no-response matches. I understand that there are plenty of girls on here who never check their Tinder anymore, but the ratio of responses to matches that I am getting 1:5, so I feel like a lot of matches are wasted. I'm skeptical of pick-up lines because that's not my personality and just prefer to call something out in their pictures.

Take a look at some of the no-response examples below. I can understand I messed up on the one with the diner girl because I said too much. What would you have said instead for all of these? Any help is appreciated.

Also, my profile pics are on the next post - appreciate feedback on new types of photos/videos I should try, etc. I have Smart Photos turned on so they are in this order.

Here are my profile pics, in this order. 4th one is a video of me dancing.

And here's one where the girl initiated, wanted to make plans, I give her my number, she never hits me up. Could I have done anything different here?

I just want to figure out a way to get more responses, improve my ability to continue and progress convos and deter them from not responding / flaking.

well it lasted 8 months. we moved in together last month and on the first night of our lease, while running errands and leaving my phone behind, she got on it and looked in my recent visited websites (which i never even knew a phone had) and found my googlevoice, where a can of worms had been opened. in it , she saw me having multiple convos with women during the course of our relationship, some even sending nudes (yes, she saw them too). i was 100% physically monogamous throughout the course of our relationship to her, but, emotionally speaking, i had clearly checked out at times and of course she read way into it. we broke up the day she found out, for a week or so, and tried again for a couple weeks, under the conditions i'd get rid of the bad habits and be on a better path. well, was making gradual progress, got rid of all of the enablers that had sucked me into this mess (tinder, bumble, googlevoice), but was not to her liking of pace and then an argument, reflecting on my progress, one morning, ensued and set both of us off, and she's been out of my life for 2 weeks now. it hurts. don't do the same mistake i made. not worth it, despite the rush you may get from it. she was a good one. put me #1 - would do anything for me, gave up/delayed her post college plans to be with me, her background on her phone was a pic of us, would let me use her phone whenever i wanted, password and all, good up bringing with loving parents, family oriented, telling me she wanted my babies and wanted to wear my ring someday (both said after she had gone through my phone, in between retrying and the current breakup) etc. and I fkd it all up, clearly taking her for granted. have heard she's leaving the door open for me down the line, from a neighbor of hers, but it's like i cannot wait forever either on when/if that will ever come to fruition. now i feel lost and alone, not seeing myself being compatible with nor wanting to meet anyone else. this coming from a man that went from sleeping with over 45 women a year to just 1. her. my first love.

edit: there are signs of life, 3 weeks later

then i didn't respond (and she hit me up again the next day)

[QUOTE=SaintPatrick317 post_id=1589217911]And here's one where the girl initiated, wanted to make plans, I give her my number, she never hits me up. Could I have done anything different here?

I just want to figure out a way to get more responses, improve my ability to continue and progress convos and deter them from not responding / flaking.

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[URL=https://imgbb.com/][mg]https://i.ibb.co/MsMR1bb/Dance-Moves3.png[/img][/URL][/QUOTE]Goes to show everyone gets flaked on these apps. What is your routine for swiping? Go through a couple swipes at night, once a week, multiple times per day?

This app is full of girls linking their insta pages for followers. Those are the very attractive girls who don't use the app for anything other than follower/ego boost.

What have you guys found to be the best strategy for scheduling multiple dates with different people on the same night?

If you hit it off with the first girl and you blow off the second girl then you just lost out on the second girl.

I would swipe usually close to the 100 max/day, only on profiles I like, not just random swiping.

I think you're right about a lot of that.

With that said, the ones who implied they were down to meet up just disappeared. I have countless other ones like that, but also plenty that did end up meeting up. I just want to find a way to improve the yield without social media or anything time consuming like that.

can anyone recommend any apps for iphone that are explicitly only for hooking up? too many women use tinder, bumble etc for relationships now. need to cut thru the fluff. most apps that show up when u search for "hookup" look like complete scams

meanwhile, hinge fixed a visibility bug on my account so i'm receiving matches/likes again. but pretty much everyone on hinge is looking for a serious relationship as the app is designed and advertised that way :/

Just be chad. That way you can just be direct with women on any app you use and ask them for sex directly and some will accept. It won't matter whether it's hinge or tinder.

thing is only a minority of women seek casual sex at any given time so this has been a surefire way to get reported and banned on these apps no? at the least, most will ghost/unmatch so its wasted effort and matches should i pursue something else later. its best to use an app that is explicitly casual

tried feeld and pure already… occasional success from pure but otherwise mostly scams and too few legit users in either to warrant subscribing. wondering if there are any worthwhile casual apps out there among the mass of scammy ones. prob not

edit: btw does anyone else notice their tinder matches dropping in batches? it drops by like 3-5 every few days or so, in bulk. when i reported this a few months ago they said theres a bug and gave me 2 free boosts, not that they're much use on free. i've gradually lost hundreds of matches possibly due to this glitch. wow what a ****ty app

[QUOTE=SaintPatrick317 post_id=1589217911]And here's one where the girl initiated, wanted to make plans, I give her my number, she never hits me up. Could I have done anything different here?

I just want to figure out a way to get more responses, improve my ability to continue and progress convos and deter them from not responding / flaking.

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[URL=https://imgbb.com/][img]https://i.ibb.co/MsMR1bb/Dance-Moves3.png[/img[/URL][/QUOTE]Good lord. You are a turbo chad and literally your own worst enemy with your lack of texting skill.

1.)Lose the 2 pictures of you with women and the one with your corvette. There is a reason they are your bottom 3 if you are using smart pictures.
2.) Stop saying hood.
3.) Be more creative with your statements. They are boring as ****.

IE: Dinner girl - "Agreed. You ever been to XXX? It's amazing. We'll get a booth, so we can sit next to each other.[img]//assets.bodybuilding.com/forum/images/smilies/wink.gif[/img]"

IE: Tiger lady - "What's a cat like me gotta do to get a back scratch by you. ;P"

IE: Dance Girl about losing the shirt- "Too bad. You looked sexy as hell in it. The pressure is on. Don't disappoint... our future depends on it.[img]//assets.bodybuilding.com/forum/images/smilies/wink.gif[/img]"

I don't care what anyone says, when you are flirting, use winkie faces. Bishes love winkie faces. Just don't overdo it.

The key is, CHALLENGE her to step up.

So much effort just to get a used up hole. Allow it.

met up with my ex last night. hadn't seen her in over 3 weeks. she just needed someone to talk to. we talked. she said how she was sad it was all over. she cried in my arms. we still managed to make out in the end, perhaps sparking something to come again.


edit: we fkd the next night. i slept over. we fckd again. she made me breakfast.

donno why tinder is so sht for me.
if i get a match, they NEVER talk.

I did meet some girl who just came to toronto from spain though and she was teaching me spanish and sht.
fun in bed too and I think she actually wants a relationship.
The first time a girl has seemd to push for that with me

have a decent group of girls i am focusing on now

ideally id like to just see 1..
its too much energy and not enough time

Lol thanks man, I appreciate the advice. The "make her step up" makes sense and I will try that. And my smart pics remained the same as what I originally put up, so those last two pics were not put towards the end by the app.

I can’t use tinder since I’m perma banned on there a while ago, I use bumble but it’s basically been pointless. No matches at all. I can’t understand it. Even if I take a new pic and I think I look less ugly it still changes nothing. No matches. It’s been completely dead for like a few weeks now. I know I’m not good looking but it was never this bad before. Wtf is going on?

It's only high effort to those that don't know how to play the game.

If it were easy to do, everyone would be good at it. There is a reason only 1% of the population can play sports at an elite level.

Tfw running tinder in a major city and getting matches but being unable to convert

brb DSLR quality pics
brb good job

Feelsbadman.jpg

Being a brown male, not even once

Back in boyos, whats the consensus on paying for tinder plus these days? When it first came out it was pretty good for me in getting alot more matches than I usually would (boost was included as gold wasn't out yet), im guessing there is not much point getting boost now as only gold has the boost feature. Is the boost giving you brahs any success with increased matches?

Boo fking hoo

Tinder is a scam, someone should take these fckers to court.

Bought the prime boost for $40 this past Friday. Ran it from 730-1030, the night before Halloween. Yielded 3 potential matches, and no matches because the 3 were bots/fat. Requested a refund, and they are refunding me atm. Did a regular boost yesterday, yielded 7 matches. Coincidence? Shet is a timely scam that tries to lure customers. FYI I do have success off tinder, but this just goes to show you how bullshet it is.

great sex last night with a girl i met off hinge. way better than my estranged wife. she's successful too. hinge even gave me a few extra months free premium after i reported a bug. this app aint too shabby

Wait so they gave you a refund because you didn't get any matches? Lmao. I might apply for a refund then.