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Thread: Gonna ask out kurdish chad at my gym on Monday (no pics)

post 1542020151 01-27-2018, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Yes because having sex with the same person after session # 2284 is so exciting. Maybe for women.....
You picked the wrong one if it isn't
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post 1542020391 01-27-2018, 03:06 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
You picked the wrong one if it isn't
Considering the honeymoon phase is over, the initial attraction is gone, the lust is gone, it gets repetitive....i doubt it matters
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post 1542020841 01-27-2018, 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Considering the honeymoon phase is over, the initial attraction is gone, the lust is gone, it gets repetitive....i doubt it matters
I found sex just as fun and hot 16 years in even tho we hated each other.

I can't remember getting tired of any of my ltrs.

Strs yes.
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post 1542021051 01-27-2018, 03:14 PM
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post 1542021331 01-27-2018, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Because with someone my age I think it's reasonable to expect a real relationship. If he's not interested enough for that then I'd rather just pass.
That makes zero sense. You could date for a while and see what developes.
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post 1542021461 01-27-2018, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Considering the honeymoon phase is over, the initial attraction is gone, the lust is gone, it gets repetitive....i doubt it matters
You sound like you've never been in a relationship.
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post 1542021771 01-27-2018, 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Because with someone my age I think it's reasonable to expect a real relationship. If he's not interested enough for that then I'd rather just pass.
I just don't think you are into older dudes period. You want a 7/10 younger dude but are probably too shy to approach. Or don't make it obvious enough to them. If you are 45 you could easily get a guy in his mid-late 30s. I just think you are like me and too introverted and shy. And probably have high standards.
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post 1542021781 01-27-2018, 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
You don't have any control over attraction. Noone does. Attraction resides in the human subconscious and being turned on is an automated instinct.

There's no logic to it. There's no making it happen. It's there or it's not.

This is medical and scientific fact. You can't choose to be attracted.
Sorry Leo gotta totally disagree with you here.

There is a “logic” to attraction.

Your childhood and potential trauma/ chaos in your upbringing can totally dictate who you are (subconsciously) attracted to.

Abused as a child= attracted to abusers
Abandoned by your father = attracted to “father figure” (that will abandon you again”
Dad’s an alcoholic = attracted to alcoholics


For anyone that has a chaotic relationship as young adult/ adult, you can trace back the roots of that relationship to an abuse in their childhood.

When you get abused as a child, your “attraction antenna” gets screwed up and you get attracted to the wrong people.
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Originally Posted By meenman83⏩
You sound like you've never been in a relationship.
Been in one for 4 years
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post 1542021881 01-27-2018, 03:23 PM
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post 1542021921 01-27-2018, 03:23 PM
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Feel like everyone should listen to the person with the successful marriage.rabbit. wether then the rest of the people jaded by the struggles of their life.
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post 1542022131 01-27-2018, 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Bigbuster1⏩
Sorry Leo gotta totally disagree with you here.

There is a “logic” to attraction.

Your childhood and potential trauma/ chaos in your upbringing can totally dictate who you are (subconsciously) attracted to.

Abused as a child= attracted to abusers
Abandoned by your father = attracted to “father figure” (that will abandon you again”
Dad’s an alcoholic = attracted to alcoholics


For anyone that has a chaotic relationship as young adult/ adult, you can trace back the roots of that relationship to an abuse in their childhood.

When you get abused as a child, your “attraction antenna” gets screwed up and you get attracted to the wrong people.
Jesus you're equating mental trauma to normal people.

These are abnormal situations.

Attraction isn't about who you have a relationship with or look to have a relationship with.

It's about who you would like to phuck whether you ever act on that thought or not.
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post 1542022391 01-27-2018, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Been in one for 4 years
You're no longer excited to have sex with her?
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post 1542022561 01-27-2018, 03:33 PM
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post 1542022621 01-27-2018, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Hm I don't know. My ex was older than me and I was crazy about him.

I don't know if I have high standards. Really my only standard is physical attraction. Anything else I'll work with.

And I think the guys I like are really goodlooking, but I've spammed misc with pics of my 9/10 ideal looks and most people said he looks average and pudgy lol.
Why did you two get divorced...was it yours or his fault?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Because with someone my age I think it's reasonable to expect a real relationship. If he's not interested enough for that then I'd rather just pass.
I think deep down you'd rather that younger "trophy" chad, all other things being equal with an older dude - whether it's hotter sex or other things he would be more likely to offer in your mind, no?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
He ended it. I was devastated because I was in love with him and thought we would be together forever.
That sucks bby.
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I just turned down a date with a girl that looks just like Gollum from Lord of the Rings politely I said I'm sorry I just don't think we're a match. Now she's asking me why we're not a match I can't tell her can I tell her?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
He ended it. I was devastated because I was in love with him and thought we would be together forever.
How long were you married and why did he end it?
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Is there an update in here somewhere? Did OP get kurdish pregnant
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Originally Posted By PegLegGregx⏩
Is there an update in here somewhere? Did OP get kurdish pregnant
Kurdish Abdullah left her in the wind. She wasn't up to standard.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Do you really think the only kind of physical attraction to exist is instant?

I’m not knocking it ...instant attraction is powerful and fun and can be absorbing but it’s simple lust and can be as easily stated by fukking and disappear as grow into something stronger

Instant attraction is not all there is...that’s why you’re told to give people you like, but don’t feel it in your loins so to speak, a chance
And this is probably one of the reasons why you're married, as opposed to most of the posters in this thread who are either divorced or single. I mean that in a good way.
Originally Posted By YeahImMad⏩
well fml that means I must have done or said something wrong during the date. Funny thing is, we spent the whole time chatting and laughing and getting along really well
Getting along doesn't mean attraction, and saying or doing something wrong wouldn't have made a difference if he was into you. It's not an easy thing to accept, but that's the reality.

To be real with you, if this guy is as masculine as you claimed, he would've made the first move once you showed your interest if he was actually into you. But the reality is that he probably only said yes in the first place because you made the first move. He was likely only looking for an easy smash like I said earlier, and ultimately he didn't think it was worth a second date. This might be a blow to your self-esteem, but think of it this way. Would you really want to be with someone who's not that into you? Though the funny thing is that part of your attraction to him may have been exactly because he seemed unavailable to you.
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LOL you had sex before marriage. have fun with your failing relationships
go no contact NOW
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After reading the past few pages. If youre looking for a smash, shoot for the stars and land on the moon but if you actually expect the guy to stay around stay in your lane. If hes that much more attractive he has options and hes not going to seriously date you and youre going to end up getting hurt The only exceptions ive ever seen to this are people who know each other well beforehand and it developed into something more over time, and even thats still rare. The only other time is when the person who is better off has some deep seated issues and you dont want to go that route anyways because its never a happy ending. Have realistic standards and you wont end up hurting yourself
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Originally Posted By letshavebabies⏩
LOL you had sex before marriage. have fun with your failing relationships
Definitely keep sexors untouched till marriage and deal with if it doesn't work out, sounds smart
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Genuinely curious what constitutes a Chad in opie's mind.

Considering she's nearing her 5th decade and has the facial aesthetics of Peyton Manning.


Congrats though. Hope it all works out well for you.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
You're no longer excited to have sex with her?
No, there's just no thrill anymore. That's the only way to put it. No thrill.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
No, there's just no thrill anymore. That's the only way to put it. No thrill.
Did you change your Avi?

The first time you laid eyes on her did you say to yourself I have to phuck that!
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