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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
Bish flaked/ghosted on me. No text, no call, no follow up explanation... zip, nada, zilch.So... I call the lass up, suggest we go see Dunkirk this weekend, and she's like, "yea cool, that sounds good", but then we get to talking a little bit, and I mention I've started playing tennis. She's like, "ah cool I luv tennis! We should play!". So I say, "okay well what would you rather do - watch Dunkirk or play tennis?".
Bish opts for tennis.
Bish opts for tennis.
Par for the course and I was half expecting it, but still... another reminder of what a crapshoot dating is nowadays.
My dating prospects now sit firmly at nil, so back on dat dere MGTOW time.
07-24-2017, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
It's funny because when I'd talk to girls from online dating and they'll mention stuff we could do in the future dates I'd sometimes say "yeah sure, if we're still talking by then"Bish flaked/ghosted on me. No text, no call, no follow up explanation... zip, nada, zilch.
Par for the course and I was half expecting it, but still... another reminder of what a crapshoot dating is nowadays.
My dating prospects now sit firmly at nil, so back on dat dere MGTOW time.
Par for the course and I was half expecting it, but still... another reminder of what a crapshoot dating is nowadays.
My dating prospects now sit firmly at nil, so back on dat dere MGTOW time.
Every time they'd be like, why won't we be talking by then? I have tried to aware them but they never get it.
And inevitabley the same ones who couldn't understand my uncertainty of if we would still be in contact alsways dissapeared shortly after.
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Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩
Heh, bishes be dumb. And yea, where online dating is concerned ghosting/flaking doesn't really phase me anymore. But since I met this most recent lass face-to-face, I had a little more faith that the interaction would pan out... alas, she disappeared all the same.It's funny because when I'd talk to girls from online dating and they'll mention stuff we could do in the future dates I'd sometimes say "yeah sure, if we're still talking by then"
Every time they'd be like, why won't we be talking by then? I have tried to aware them but they never get it.
And inevitabley the same ones who couldn't understand my uncertainty of if we would still be in contact alsways dissapeared shortly after.
Every time they'd be like, why won't we be talking by then? I have tried to aware them but they never get it.
And inevitabley the same ones who couldn't understand my uncertainty of if we would still be in contact alsways dissapeared shortly after.
Off on a slight tangent:
Does anyone else see some couples nowadays and think, "you fukers clearly met online". It's hard to explain exactly, but I guess what I'm saying is that I often detect an odd mis-match between couples; a mis-match that I feel could only have come about from meeting online.
The other day I was walking behind this couple, and I looked up and realised the dude was 6 foot 3, well dressed, and built; and the lass he was walking hand in hand with was about 5 foot 10, obese and just not a pretty sight from behind.
I was so fukin' curious to see if this guy had a deformed face or something (as that was the only explanation I could think of for him settling), so I sped up and overtook the couple, gained a bit of distance and turned around to take a look at them both...
Omg... the dude was aesthetic as hell, and the girl's face was his equivalent cept on the ugly scale.
I concluded that the guy must be completely brain dead and have an IQ of 70 or something.
07-25-2017, 11:35 AM
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The thirst is so real. All I wanted to do today was lift, clean, get a haircut, and play some games. Yet the urge to go out and try to talk to women is at all time highs. Even though I know Im going to go out and at best get the phone numbers of some randoms that wont even text back.


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[QUOTE=otakutrevan post_id=1513347331]I know Im going to go out and at best get the phone numbers of some randoms that wont even text back.
[img]https://68.media.tumblr.com/2c7e5f753f87bec6bd06b1b27bb71e29/tumblr_onga1vmoKk1r2hy3ro1_500.gif/img][/QUOTE]Pretty similar to my own statements about assured rejection. It's guaranteed, so why bother trying. Even if I could get passed my mental block that prevents me from approaching women, it's 100% assured they'd want nothing to do with me. Damned if I do, damned if I don't. And then there's all of the MGTOW talking points to consider.. Even if I WERE somehow able to overcome my approach anxiety, AND successfully tie down a woman into a relationship, the odds are heavily in favor that she'd leave me and take all my stuff, and rape me in the court system 6-ways to Sunday.
[img]https://68.media.tumblr.com/2c7e5f753f87bec6bd06b1b27bb71e29/tumblr_onga1vmoKk1r2hy3ro1_500.gif/img][/QUOTE]Pretty similar to my own statements about assured rejection. It's guaranteed, so why bother trying. Even if I could get passed my mental block that prevents me from approaching women, it's 100% assured they'd want nothing to do with me. Damned if I do, damned if I don't. And then there's all of the MGTOW talking points to consider.. Even if I WERE somehow able to overcome my approach anxiety, AND successfully tie down a woman into a relationship, the odds are heavily in favor that she'd leave me and take all my stuff, and rape me in the court system 6-ways to Sunday.
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07-25-2017, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted By InstantLoser⏩
I will say I cannot feel bad for any man that doesn't even make the attempts to try. That said the game is rigged extremely. I've spoken to hundreds upon hundreds of women irl. Mass messaged and swiped online. Got 1 GF that was by definition obese (decent coke bottle figure though imo), and 14ish low quality smashes. Abysmal numbers.Pretty similar to my own statements about assured rejection. It's guaranteed, so why bother trying. Even if I could get passed my mental block that prevents me from approaching women, it's 100% assured they'd want nothing to do with me. Damned if I do, damned if I don't. And then there's all of the MGTOW talking points to consider.. Even if I WERE somehow able to overcome my approach anxiety, AND successfully tie down a woman into a relationship, the odds are heavily in favor that she'd leave me and take all my stuff, and rape me in the court system 6-ways to Sunday.
The real question is...Do you have player unknown battlegrounds for steam?
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
No, I'm not interested in that type of game really.I will say I cannot feel bad for any man that doesn't even make the attempts to try. That said the game is rigged extremely. I've spoken to hundreds upon hundreds of women irl. Mass messaged and swiped online. Got 1 GF that was by definition obese (decent coke bottle figure though imo), and 14ish low quality smashes. Abysmal numbers.
The real question is...Do you have player unknown battlegrounds for steam?
The real question is...Do you have player unknown battlegrounds for steam?
As for your 1st statement.. You said yourself the results are ****. You either get nowhere, or practically nowhere, and then they flake. You are objectively better looking than me, don't suffer from any apparent approach anxiety (or you've managed to suppress it really well), have friends, etc, and still are failing pretty hard in the dating scene. If you can't make it happen.. and plenty of other guys on this forum who are in as good/better shape than you, with better careers than either of us, and are all around good guys, but also can't get girls..? I have no chance. There's no point in trying something you know is impossible, and again that'd assume I was capable of approaching women to begin with, which I'm not. I'd have to get over about 30 hurdles just to be where you're at: Getting flaked on by fat chicks.
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07-25-2017, 01:44 PM
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Originally Posted By InstantLoser⏩
Well tbh bro your fat so who are you to judge? That said I was once lean and yolked. Still got almost nowhere overall.No, I'm not interested in that type of game really.
As for your 1st statement.. You said yourself the results are ****. You either get nowhere, or practically nowhere, and then they flake. You are objectively better looking than me, don't suffer from any apparent approach anxiety (or you've managed to suppress it really well), have friends, etc, and still are failing pretty hard in the dating scene. If you can't make it happen.. and plenty of other guys on this forum who are in as good/better shape than you, with better careers than either of us, and are all around good guys, but also can't get girls..? I have no chance. There's no point in trying something you know is impossible, and again that'd assume I was capable of approaching women to begin with, which I'm not. I'd have to get over about 30 hurdles just to be where you're at: Getting flaked on by fat chicks.
As for your 1st statement.. You said yourself the results are ****. You either get nowhere, or practically nowhere, and then they flake. You are objectively better looking than me, don't suffer from any apparent approach anxiety (or you've managed to suppress it really well), have friends, etc, and still are failing pretty hard in the dating scene. If you can't make it happen.. and plenty of other guys on this forum who are in as good/better shape than you, with better careers than either of us, and are all around good guys, but also can't get girls..? I have no chance. There's no point in trying something you know is impossible, and again that'd assume I was capable of approaching women to begin with, which I'm not. I'd have to get over about 30 hurdles just to be where you're at: Getting flaked on by fat chicks.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
I was 197lbs in the Army. Bishes were not myron.Well tbh bro your fat so who are you to judge? That said I was once lean and yolked. Still got almost nowhere overall.
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07-25-2017, 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted By InstantLoser⏩
Still on the heavy side if you're arent taller and muscular. That said. I feel you.I was 197lbs in the Army. Bishes were not myron.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
Me personally, I guess I hate the fact or rather I get the feeling that it's "all on me" in a sense. Fight the approach anxiety (because if you don't, you die alone. Women don't approach no matter what they tell you. Approaching Chad's don't count) and getting the number is one thing.Still on the heavy side if you're arent taller and muscular. That said. I feel you.
IF THEY DON"T FLAKE:
Pick them up, come up with an idea for the date (and it better be "unique" or be put in the boring category) Be entertaining, engaged (they don't necessarily have to be, you are the pursuer they are the selectors after all) make physical moves at the right time AND be able to read non verbal cues in regards to them wanting you to make a move (because making the first move is hard for them, and you better read that cue right brah)
IF THEY DON'T DISSAPPEAR EVEN AFTER YOU'VE DONE EVERYTHING RIGHT (because they still can, at any time)
You eventually push for a relationship, a marriage, and pray you don't divorce and lose the kids, house, etc.
Do we really put up with and do all of this for sex? Name one other endeavor in life that is basically akin to winning the lottery that we pursue with such fervor?
phuck male biology man.
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Originally Posted By joshewah17⏩
Me personally, I guess I hate the fact or rather I get the feeling that it's "all on me" in a sense. Fight the approach anxiety (because if you don't, you die alone. Women don't approach no matter what they tell you. Approaching Chad's don't count) and getting the number is one thing.
IF THEY DON"T FLAKE:
Pick them up, come up with an idea for the date (and it better be "unique" or be put in the boring category) Be entertaining, engaged (they don't necessarily have to be, you are the pursuer they are the selectors after all) make physical moves at the right time AND be able to read non verbal cues in regards to them wanting you to make a move (because making the first move is hard for them, and you better read that cue right brah)
IF THEY DON'T DISSAPPEAR EVEN AFTER YOU'VE DONE EVERYTHING RIGHT (because they still can, at any time)
You eventually push for a relationship, a marriage, and pray you don't divorce and lose the kids, house, etc.
Do we really put up with and do all of this for sex? Name one other endeavor in life that is basically akin to winning the lottery that we pursue with such fervor?
phuck male biology man.
IF THEY DON"T FLAKE:
Pick them up, come up with an idea for the date (and it better be "unique" or be put in the boring category) Be entertaining, engaged (they don't necessarily have to be, you are the pursuer they are the selectors after all) make physical moves at the right time AND be able to read non verbal cues in regards to them wanting you to make a move (because making the first move is hard for them, and you better read that cue right brah)
IF THEY DON'T DISSAPPEAR EVEN AFTER YOU'VE DONE EVERYTHING RIGHT (because they still can, at any time)
You eventually push for a relationship, a marriage, and pray you don't divorce and lose the kids, house, etc.
Do we really put up with and do all of this for sex? Name one other endeavor in life that is basically akin to winning the lottery that we pursue with such fervor?
phuck male biology man.

I slipped up and text a girl I had cold approached shortly before I made this thread. Said hey. She claimed she was thinking about me. Tried to set up a hang out. Said "oh I have work in the morning". Said cool just hmu when you get a chance. Been about 5 days lol.
Maybe its time to embrace the BBW life.
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Originally Posted By joshewah17⏩
I figured out I was going to die alone before my teens.Me personally, I guess I hate the fact or rather I get the feeling that it's "all on me" in a sense. Fight the approach anxiety (because if you don't, you die alone. Women don't approach no matter what they tell you. Approaching Chad's don't count) and getting the number is one thing.
IF THEY DON"T FLAKE:
Pick them up, come up with an idea for the date (and it better be "unique" or be put in the boring category) Be entertaining, engaged (they don't necessarily have to be, you are the pursuer they are the selectors after all) make physical moves at the right time AND be able to read non verbal cues in regards to them wanting you to make a move (because making the first move is hard for them, and you better read that cue right brah)
IF THEY DON'T DISSAPPEAR EVEN AFTER YOU'VE DONE EVERYTHING RIGHT (because they still can, at any time)
You eventually push for a relationship, a marriage, and pray you don't divorce and lose the kids, house, etc.
Do we really put up with and do all of this for sex? Name one other endeavor in life that is basically akin to winning the lottery that we pursue with such fervor?
phuck male biology man.
IF THEY DON"T FLAKE:
Pick them up, come up with an idea for the date (and it better be "unique" or be put in the boring category) Be entertaining, engaged (they don't necessarily have to be, you are the pursuer they are the selectors after all) make physical moves at the right time AND be able to read non verbal cues in regards to them wanting you to make a move (because making the first move is hard for them, and you better read that cue right brah)
IF THEY DON'T DISSAPPEAR EVEN AFTER YOU'VE DONE EVERYTHING RIGHT (because they still can, at any time)
You eventually push for a relationship, a marriage, and pray you don't divorce and lose the kids, house, etc.
Do we really put up with and do all of this for sex? Name one other endeavor in life that is basically akin to winning the lottery that we pursue with such fervor?
phuck male biology man.
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Otaku, I know you shoot, and I know a lot of other miscers do to, so this my be of some interest:
Palmetto State has a crazy deal on 5.56 right now. $5.79 a box plus shipping, and there's a rebate for a dollar back on every box you buy.
http://palmettostatearmory.com/indep...ds-xm193i.html
I just bought $100 of that this weekend, and am thinking about dropping another $100. Our ARs are all gonna make it.
Palmetto State has a crazy deal on 5.56 right now. $5.79 a box plus shipping, and there's a rebate for a dollar back on every box you buy.
http://palmettostatearmory.com/indep...ds-xm193i.html
I just bought $100 of that this weekend, and am thinking about dropping another $100. Our ARs are all gonna make it.
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Noice. I'll have to look at reviews on that because I hate cheap dirty ammo. Used some Tula 5.56 once and dear god.Otaku, I know you shoot, and I know a lot of other miscers do to, so this my be of some interest:
Palmetto State has a crazy deal on 5.56 right now. $5.79 a box plus shipping, and there's a rebate for a dollar back on every box you buy.
http://palmettostatearmory.com/indep...ds-xm193i.html
I just bought $100 of that this weekend, and am thinking about dropping another $100. Our ARs are all gonna make it.
Palmetto State has a crazy deal on 5.56 right now. $5.79 a box plus shipping, and there's a rebate for a dollar back on every box you buy.
http://palmettostatearmory.com/indep...ds-xm193i.html
I just bought $100 of that this weekend, and am thinking about dropping another $100. Our ARs are all gonna make it.
I think this is going to be my next purchase.

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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
I'd personally rather go with that Kel Tec 22 Mag pistol. It's kinda the same thing, but only $400 on Palmetto, and 30 shots in a pistol is insane.Noice. I'll have to look at reviews on that because I hate cheap dirty ammo. Used some Tula 5.56 once and dear god.
I think this is going to be my next purchase.
I think this is going to be my next purchase.
You can't beat the Counter Strike feels from the Five Seven though.
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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩
lol 197 at 6'3 is on the heavy side? 0.o what? Dude I am 6'4 205 and some still tell me to eat a sandwich.Still on the heavy side if you're arent taller and muscular. That said. I feel you.
This is me around 190 blue tank climbing..

Am I fat man?
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Im mirin that .22 hard af.I'd personally rather go with that Kel Tec 22 Mag pistol. It's kinda the same thing, but only $400 on Palmetto, and 30 shots in a pistol is insane.
You can't beat the Counter Strike feels from the Five Seven though.
You can't beat the Counter Strike feels from the Five Seven though.

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Originally Posted By InstantLoser⏩
I probably make 1/4th of what you make, just started living at 22, am probably the dumbest bro on this forum and I am now with a girl. I didn't have to try, I was just out with a friend and ran into her. I was not out looking for a girl either. I don't have any money, looks or game but still got her somehow. Good sh*t will happen when you least expect it even for unfortunate bros.No, I'm not interested in that type of game really.
As for your 1st statement.. You said yourself the results are ****. You either get nowhere, or practically nowhere, and then they flake. You are objectively better looking than me, don't suffer from any apparent approach anxiety (or you've managed to suppress it really well), have friends, etc, and still are failing pretty hard in the dating scene. If you can't make it happen.. and plenty of other guys on this forum who are in as good/better shape than you, with better careers than either of us, and are all around good guys, but also can't get girls..? I have no chance. There's no point in trying something you know is impossible, and again that'd assume I was capable of approaching women to begin with, which I'm not. I'd have to get over about 30 hurdles just to be where you're at: Getting flaked on by fat chicks.
As for your 1st statement.. You said yourself the results are ****. You either get nowhere, or practically nowhere, and then they flake. You are objectively better looking than me, don't suffer from any apparent approach anxiety (or you've managed to suppress it really well), have friends, etc, and still are failing pretty hard in the dating scene. If you can't make it happen.. and plenty of other guys on this forum who are in as good/better shape than you, with better careers than either of us, and are all around good guys, but also can't get girls..? I have no chance. There's no point in trying something you know is impossible, and again that'd assume I was capable of approaching women to begin with, which I'm not. I'd have to get over about 30 hurdles just to be where you're at: Getting flaked on by fat chicks.
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Originally Posted By Legend1617⏩
Cliffs brah? I've never heard of this.I probably make 1/4th of what you make, just started living at 22, am probably the dumbest bro on this forum and I am now with a girl. I didn't have to try, I was just out with a friend and ran into her. I was not out looking for a girl either. I don't have any money, looks or game but still got her somehow. Good sh*t will happen when you least expect it even for unfortunate bros.
If this is real tea, then that's awesome. It's always good to see FAs make it.
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Originally Posted By joshewah17⏩
This capture's the struggle beautifully...Me personally, I guess I hate the fact or rather I get the feeling that it's "all on me" in a sense. Fight the approach anxiety (because if you don't, you die alone. Women don't approach no matter what they tell you. Approaching Chad's don't count) and getting the number is one thing.
IF THEY DON"T FLAKE:
Pick them up, come up with an idea for the date (and it better be "unique" or be put in the boring category) Be entertaining, engaged (they don't necessarily have to be, you are the pursuer they are the selectors after all) make physical moves at the right time AND be able to read non verbal cues in regards to them wanting you to make a move (because making the first move is hard for them, and you better read that cue right brah)
IF THEY DON'T DISSAPPEAR EVEN AFTER YOU'VE DONE EVERYTHING RIGHT (because they still can, at any time)
You eventually push for a relationship, a marriage, and pray you don't divorce and lose the kids, house, etc.
Do we really put up with and do all of this for sex? Name one other endeavor in life that is basically akin to winning the lottery that we pursue with such fervor?
phuck male biology man.
IF THEY DON"T FLAKE:
Pick them up, come up with an idea for the date (and it better be "unique" or be put in the boring category) Be entertaining, engaged (they don't necessarily have to be, you are the pursuer they are the selectors after all) make physical moves at the right time AND be able to read non verbal cues in regards to them wanting you to make a move (because making the first move is hard for them, and you better read that cue right brah)
IF THEY DON'T DISSAPPEAR EVEN AFTER YOU'VE DONE EVERYTHING RIGHT (because they still can, at any time)
You eventually push for a relationship, a marriage, and pray you don't divorce and lose the kids, house, etc.
Do we really put up with and do all of this for sex? Name one other endeavor in life that is basically akin to winning the lottery that we pursue with such fervor?
phuck male biology man.
As much as it sucks tho, I've accepted that this is the hand most men are dealt... it seems nature intended us to prove our worth.
And the ways of the world won't change anytime soon, so you just gotta find ways to cope with it.
07-26-2017, 04:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Legend1617⏩
at what age? people told me that at 25. 31 now. Will it magically happen at 40?Good sh*t will happen when you least expect it even for unfortunate bros.
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07-26-2017, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Legend1617⏩
Fixed for you brah.Good sh*tcanhappen when you least expect it even for unfortunate bros.
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07-27-2017, 08:46 AM
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Rare situation with women. It seems like the girls I had attracted to me are quite attractive (such as past exes, flings etc.) but other than that small percentage, most women see me as creepy when I approach or don't give me the time of day. I don't know whether cold approach is inherently creepy or there is something that I'm screwing up. I actually do better with online (fb) approaches than in real life so maybe it's just my vibe or something. Kind of perplexing because when most guys have trouble with women, when they end finding someone they are not really attractive but I have the problem with most girls see me as invisible but some really good looking ones really like me. Am I just not reading the signals correctly?
07-27-2017, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted By dimitri1013⏩
you are probably intimidating the less good-looking chicks, and only hot chicks feel they can match youRare situation with women. It seems like the girls I had attracted to me are quite attractive (such as past exes, flings etc.) but other than that small percentage, most women see me as creepy when I approach or don't give me the time of day. I don't know whether cold approach is inherently creepy or there is something that I'm screwing up. I actually do better with online (fb) approaches than in real life so maybe it's just my vibe or something. Kind of perplexing because when most guys have trouble with women, when they end finding someone they are not really attractive but I have the problem with most girls see me as invisible but some really good looking ones really like me. Am I just not reading the signals correctly?
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Originally Posted By dimitri1013⏩
I think there might be something to be said for some people possessing very polarising looks....Rare situation with women. It seems like the girls I had attracted to me are quite attractive (such as past exes, flings etc.) but other than that small percentage, most women see me as creepy when I approach or don't give me the time of day. I don't know whether cold approach is inherently creepy or there is something that I'm screwing up. I actually do better with online (fb) approaches than in real life so maybe it's just my vibe or something. Kind of perplexing because when most guys have trouble with women, when they end finding someone they are not really attractive but I have the problem with most girls see me as invisible but some really good looking ones really like me. Am I just not reading the signals correctly?
On the whole... I'd say most women look right past me, but akin to yourself I occasionally have some absolute stunners look at me with doe eyes.
There's an Eastern European housekeeper where I work who can't take her eyes off me, and she's way hotter than any girl I've dated and at least 4 points hotter than any girl who's taken an interest in me online. Frankly I woulda' made a move by now but the bish always works alongside her brother.
The 19 year old who I was gonna take out for tennis was hot as fuk too, but I guess in this case her interest wasn't THAT high cos she did ghost.
One pattern concerning myself though is that these girls are ALWAYS exotic... I can only ever recall 1 hot white English girl who clearly found me attractive.
Fuark I swear I gotta leave this country ;/
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Brahs I just don't get how my luck is so bad and how guys like this are getting laid while in the past before I essentially gave up, I had to stress over 5/10s. Not really jealous, I'm just confused as to how things like this happen while I struggleThe other day I had to help a coworker move in and his roommate was their with his gf. As soon as I saw them I almost audibly wtf'ed. The roommate himself is about 5'7 140lbs soaking wet...and that's me giving him the benefit of the doubt. Now the girl isn't exactly a 10 or anything, but she's about 20 years old with big boobs on a slim build...definitely bangable. The more time we spent with them the more I realized this guy is a straight beta. As we were moving things he was doing the least amount of work possible and his gf knew more about getting the mattress hooked onto the roof. Later that night he just walked around while his GF put up the frame. Not to mention the fact that my co-worker was ridiculing him right in front of his gf. Basically he's the ultimate beta... I thought maybe he has money, but the man is a janitor at a golf club. Also I'm not gonna bag on my co-worker but he's nothing to write home about...he's tall, and although he's somewhat muscular, he's more fat than he is swole...like an offensive linemans build. Either way, she thinks he's the best thing in the world and is willing to bang him even though his fiance lives with him and her bf is there too....I'm not sure about the validity of this story by him though.
I just don't get how guys who are shorter,more beta, and uglier are getting laid...otaku and psycho have said this and I thought they were being over the top at first, but the truth is some of us are just being trolled in the dating game and just have the worst luck ever. Somehow I ended up going to a school/college where about 85% of the girls don't even like me and always work at places where the women are married or ugly as sh-t. Now I'm not gonna jump to conclusions or anything because I'm sure that this guys gf would probably let me hit, but if she doesn't I'm just permanently giving up...this is a joke.
I just don't get how guys who are shorter,more beta, and uglier are getting laid...otaku and psycho have said this and I thought they were being over the top at first, but the truth is some of us are just being trolled in the dating game and just have the worst luck ever. Somehow I ended up going to a school/college where about 85% of the girls don't even like me and always work at places where the women are married or ugly as sh-t. Now I'm not gonna jump to conclusions or anything because I'm sure that this guys gf would probably let me hit, but if she doesn't I'm just permanently giving up...this is a joke.
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