Good morning text has nothing to do with anything. Like all women you fixate on the things that don’t matter and you play the games that you don’t want played on you.

You used to be white-trash hot so you could skate by on that when you were younger but that isn’t going to fly any more at your age.

Let’s be realistic.

You’re 40+
Single parent to a teenager
Drug addicted past
Criminal record?

I’m not trying to be mean but you come with a lot of baggage.

On top of that, when a guy that YOU like wants to ask you out, you tell him no for a week and make him initiate every conversation in order to push the envelope to see how low he is willing yo go so you can judge how much he likes you.

If you told a bunch of female friends that that’s what a guy was doing to you, they would tell you that the guy is toxic and to run.

It’s not your fault. You probably grew up in an abusive broken home yourself. Since you never learned what a healthy relationship looks like, the best you can do is mimic the unhealthy ones you grew up with. That’s why you still have daddy issues at your age.

You should bring this up in therapy. You need more open and honest conversations about this stuff.


No disrespect of course

That’s not exactly what happened. He was coming on very strong and I was trying to feel him out. He asked me out on a weekend and I told him I was nervous about dating and I needed more time and he literally already had a girlfriend that same weekend.
So part of the games was me literally picking up on something. I don’t know if it even is games. If I’m catching a bad vibe and decide to go in observation mode. I probably shouldn’t second guess myself . My pattern recognition is also 100%

Also to add/ I didn’t meet dude on a dating site. We were in communications because our children are friends. The date question came out of nowhere and then I just wanted to feel him out for a little bit before going out with him.

100% truth son that was beautiful repped and subbed srs

i always say michelle is a handful and i sometimes need to sugar my advice to her or she goes crazy talks about banning me etc

she is 100% playing games i've said it before i'll say it again she needs to grow up srs




u should trust ur woman instincts srs but stop with the games

unless the men u are approaching are extremely high value man nobody will think u are a SIMP jesus christ

Good morning texts can get annoying when there isn’t anything to talk about

If youre worrying about who's supposed to do what and when

Gonna be a tough ride

Just be yourself

If that isnt enough for somebody

Fuk em

If you have nothing to talk about then you prob shouldn't be dating each other.

Michelle, I was raised that girls shouldn't call boys. They are supposed to call us. It's a tough mindset to get out of. I don't have a problem texting first as long as there is back and forth with it. I won't do all the texting first, they have to put in some effort too. When in a relationship I think the first person awake should text the good morning if you are not physically together.