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post 1447057003 06-11-2016, 03:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
aw ain't you a big boy.

misc talks all day every day about how amazing chad is, how all they wanna do is fuk heaps of chicks, how their life is not complete because they cannot acquire females. i'm posting the other side of the coin. problem, *******?
Lol no need get butthurt little buddy. Im sure you can find some virgins on here who think you're cool.
post 1447057053 06-11-2016, 03:10 AM
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mini relationships are the goat, coupled with a harem of about 5 on the side.
post 1447057193 06-11-2016, 03:12 AM
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Originally Posted By icedonkey6⏩
mini relationships are the goat, coupled with a harem of about 5 on the side.
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post 1447057303 06-11-2016, 03:14 AM
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Originally Posted By wildchild11⏩
i dont understand how people post getting sloots is fulfilling / unfulfilling. youre supposed to find meaning in other things, like hobbies, starting a business, bodybuilding, whatever.

sex is just a basic human need, once you get your nut off, you go elsewhere and resume your life.

OP it sounds like youre having too much sex. everything in moderation..dial it back.
"Meaning in other things, like hobbies, starting a business, bodybuilding, whatever."

Whatever also includes relationship, family, building a home and a future.

You can compartmentalise sex as much as you like, treat it as an "activity" to achieve orgasm ...but for most that becomes empty, momentary pleasure resulting in post-orgasmic dissonance (that feeling after when you just want to get the fukk out of there and almost regret that last conquest cos the fun was in the chase and conquest)

Sex in a good relationship is different, you feel better after and it enhances your life.

But if you don't get that you won't get that ...well not until you do
post 1447062103 06-11-2016, 04:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
(that feeling after when you just want to get the fukk out of there and almost regret that last conquest cos the fun was in the chase and conquest)

Sex in a good relationship is different, you feel better after and it enhances your life.

But if you don't get that you won't get that ...well not until you do
honestly, most of the time lately there hasn't even been a sense of chase and conquest. just happens.

and yeah, you're right. have been in some decent longish relationships, have been single for the past 2 years.
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post 1447062433 06-11-2016, 05:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
honestly, most of the time lately there hasn't even been a sense of chase and conquest. just happens.

and yeah, you're right. have been in some decent longish relationships, have been single for the past 2 years.
True story bro- the older you get, the easier it is- put yourself in the right environments and they come to you. Banging multiple girls in a weekend is overrated- you just end up fukkin tired and with a sore dick haha (not to mention STD worry/risk etc).

It's always better with someone* you have feelings for- you definitely don't want to get out of there after and you don't feel like you've just wasted a whole heap of time unproductively (rather you've just strengthened your relationship a little more).

*- may be multiple someones lol... it's hard to love just one.
post 1447065013 06-11-2016, 05:53 AM
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OP is right, smashing randoms does get boring after a while. Bringing girls home from the bar and stuff is fun for a while, but eventually when you want to do something "couple like" you have no one to do it with, and since youve been banging randoms all this time, most girls view you as "a male sloot" and want nothing to do with you
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post 1447065883 06-11-2016, 06:11 AM
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Condomless sex with someone you're close >>>>> fapping >>> condom sex with randoms

Srs how the fuk do you guys smash randoms? I assume you use condom, that means you can't feel chit. What's the fuking point..
post 1447066193 06-11-2016, 06:14 AM
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Op go for quality instead of quantity. No man ever said i got tired of phucking 9/10s constantly.
post 1447066363 06-11-2016, 06:17 AM
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post 1447066533 06-11-2016, 06:19 AM
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ITT: OP cracked and banged two 1/10s over the course of 6 months and deemed it unfulfilling.
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post 1447067543 06-11-2016, 06:36 AM
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Originally Posted By HomerJThompson⏩
Op go for quality instead of quantity. No man ever said i got tired of phucking 9/10s constantly.
Except thousands of guys have 100% said that (not per se but through their actions).

Look at all the athletes, ultra successful entrepreneurs, trust fund babies, actors etc. that could bang a steady stream of 9/10s indefinitely, yet they get married.

There is no arguing that the novelty doesn't wear off. You'd have to have the emotional maturity of a monkey to be happy with banging mindless sloots until you die.
post 1447074533 06-11-2016, 07:54 AM
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I agree OP. I got out of a 4 year relationship and felt the need to make up for lost time so went through a 2 month period where I ended up smashing like 15 girls. Didn't enjoy it at all and actually felt dirty.

Much rather be with one girl I like for a month than smash a bunch of randoms.
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I have been slaying dragons since being single in late January, smashed 12 girls or so. Mostly one nighters but a few repeats and one I'm casually dating now. Banging the randoms only made me feel more empty but it wasn't until I met quality women that I could connect to on an emotional level that I started to get over my ex.

Variety is amazing, but being close and bonding with someone who cares about you feels so much better (no homo)
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What's your height OP , also do u meet these sloots on tinder or something?
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Originally Posted By Atlas_Army⏩
Im 2 weeks off. Ready to meet someone at this point, been on a tear this year and it honestly makes me sick just how much time im wasting and how little I care about these girls after I bust. I mean theyre good people I just dont want to hang out with them.

The one girl I fell in love with was a girl I wasnt that attracted to but I was so fked up from having banged chicks for the past 3 years I wasnt READY BREH. I Wasnt ready.

But im 2 weeks off now, seeing only one girl im pretty cool with and I get the urge to call in chicks to fk but im resisting. Focusing myself on **** that matters. The only way I stop myself is by telling myself that I KNOW ill be miserable after I bust so I just jerk off and im good.

No advice brah, all this to say I know those feels, will not go back.



Your relationship might have been **** though. Or it could just be the grass is greener thing, my rotation was fairly high as well but it felt like a waste of time. You never felt like fkin these broads was a waste of time.
It was definitely going downhill and I started to realize I know I was gonna cheat on this girl, especially when I was with her for 3+ years. I'm not ready for the whole marriage thing and she wanted it to happen soon.

Don't get me wrong I definitely don't want be doing this for the next couple of years but at the current time I'm just enjoying myself while it lasts.
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srs how are you brahs meeting these randoms. feels like whenever i go out i never see any sloots and when i do there always with family or friends. even at bar down street they always come with their own group of 3-5 friends and all leave together.

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post 1447154003 06-11-2016, 06:38 PM
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If smashing randoms were unfulfilling then prostitution wouldn't be the oldest profession in the world.

So it's not the smashing that's unfulfilling. It's the whole song and dance you have to do before smashing (and quite often after as well) that's unfulfilling.
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Dunno bout you OP but I love it, makes nights out 10x better too because you know 50 percent of the women in the city.
Originally Posted By DHamiz3Z⏩
srs how are you brahs meeting these randoms. feels like whenever i go out i never see any sloots and when i do there always with family or friends. even at bar down street they always come with their own group of 3-5 friends and all leave together.
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Clubbing, I have a friend who will literally cold approach groups of girls as they walk past us, 50 percent of the time they reject him 50 percent of the time they come meet us later on in the night and give him their number.

It's all about not giving a **** whether they say yes or no.
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In my opinion having a loyal Gf (What are the chances lol) who you teach how to suck your dink the way you like and everything you like is soooo much better then smashing random sloots who dont know what you enjoy.
so TL;DR : - Having a GF who knows what YOU like > smashing random sloots.
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Only being happy from inside will make you happy, smashing randoms ain't that bad it's a lot better than wasting time in relationships that go nowhere
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Originally Posted By Laconises⏩
If smashing randoms were unfulfilling then prostitution wouldn't be the oldest profession in the world.

So it's not the smashing that's unfulfilling. It's the whole song and dance you have to do before smashing (and quite often after as well) that's unfulfilling.
People generally don't go to prostitutes for fulfillment, they're like next-level masturbation. There's no expectation of anything more on either side.
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
fukn lol if you think it will make you happy

of course, it's something that we naturally want to do, and i can't fukn stop.

at first, sure it's good for your ego. after a while it's worse than being celibate (srs)

source: generally slay 1-3/week



any other legit perspectives on this?
add me on skype man. i tried making threads in the past to get like-minded people together to talk to.

its alot of drama..

i swear man bitches are a hassle.. they die for your attention.. and when they dont get it, they get mad @ YOU.. its friggin retarded.. and then stop trying to respond to texts and **** and calls for a while until you get their mutual friend to convince them ..

i got 2 girls mad in the same night once .. and why? because they were both over analyzing chit.. they thought i was being passive and trying to ignore them.. had me scratching my head like .. wth i was having af un night..

so gotta be careful what girls u bring around what girls

infact some of my chicks dont even let me chill with other chicks that are their friends..


anyone else relate to any of this, pm me your skype
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Originally Posted By 4Adz4⏩
Dunno bout you OP but I love it, makes nights out 10x better too because you know 50 percent of the women in the city.



Clubbing, I have a friend who will literally cold approach groups of girls as they walk past us, 50 percent of the time they reject him 50 percent of the time they come meet us later on in the night and give him their number.

It's all about not giving a **** whether they say yes or no.
repped will try this. what other places besides clubs for acquiring hole?
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