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post 1473553241 12-02-2016, 08:41 PM
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Originally Posted By taf1968⏩
Good luck with your sack-turning-the-color-of-eggplant goals of 2016 over the next couple days. Follow the advice to take it easy.

Good for you, if you are 100%, no doubt about it sure that you never want to have kids.
Originally Posted By Devils⏩
100% you're wife wants kids in 5.5 years when her clock starts ticking, it's powerful stuff and she will pretty much be hormonalally gagging for it
Always a possibility, I'll get her another puppy. She is super career focused.
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Why didn't you get your wife to get her tubes tied so you could keep your manhood?
I'm 100% sure I don't want kids, plus it's supposed to be less intrusive for guys then girls.
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post 1473553351 12-02-2016, 08:42 PM
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I've never understood this.

To each their own, but there's a good 10% of dudes that don't want kids in their 20's, and then once they hit 35 they're starting to lose their minds because they really, really want kids.

Got a mate that's dad got a a Vaesectomy 25 years ago cause he hated kids and said he'll never want them. Ended up knocking my mates mother up a few months after the vaesectomy, and she popped out my friend. Safe to say the vaesectomy didn't go quite as planned. It was still healing or something along those lines I'm pretty sure and the doctors were surprised but said it wasn't that rare to still be able to get someone pregnant within the first few months after the op.
My mate has two brothers and two sisters now as well, who aren't his biological siblings, but were adopted cause the dad ended up wanting more after he had the one, but by the time he realised he wanted heaps of kids, his balls had completely stopped working and the op was complete.
My mate said his dad told him when he was 18 that he was gutted that he only had one biological son, but it didn't impact how much he loves all his kids, just that if he could go back he would never have even thought about the operation.

Food for thought anyways amigo.

All the best my man.
post 1473554221 12-02-2016, 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted By naths⏩
I've never understood this.

To each their own, but there's a good 10% of dudes that don't want kids in their 20's, and then once they hit 35 they're starting to lose their minds because they really, really want kids.

Got a mate that's dad got a a Vaesectomy 25 years ago cause he hated kids and said he'll never want them. Ended up knocking my mates mother up a few months after the vaesectomy, and she popped out my friend. Safe to say the vaesectomy didn't go quite as planned. It was still healing or something along those lines I'm pretty sure and the doctors were surprised but said it wasn't that rare to still be able to get someone pregnant within the first few months after the op.
My mate has two brothers and two sisters now as well, who aren't his biological siblings, but were adopted cause the dad ended up wanting more after he had the one, but by the time he realised he wanted heaps of kids, his balls had completely stopped working and the op was complete.
My mate said his dad told him when he was 18 that he was gutted that he only had one biological son, but it didn't impact how much he loves all his kids, just that if he could go back he would never have even thought about the operation.

Food for thought anyways amigo.

All the best my man.
Supposed to submit samples at 8 & 10 weeks.

Actually spoke to my dad about it. He said he never wanted kids, but wasn't upset that he had them either. Pretty much made it sound like either way was fine. Also feel like parents have to say that so they don't come off as terrible people.
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post 1473554471 12-02-2016, 08:53 PM
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I thought they usually wanted you to have a certain amount of kids or be a bit older in age to make sure that you would not regret the procedure. How did you convince a doctor to do this to you at 29?
post 1473555161 12-02-2016, 08:59 PM
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Got one a few months ago. Pretty much 100% now. I do have one kid
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post 1473555281 12-02-2016, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Courwes⏩
I thought they usually wanted you to have a certain amount of kids or be a bit older in age to make sure that you would not regret the procedure. How did you convince a doctor to do this to you at 29?
In the military I think it was under 26 you had to have your wife's approval (but no husband approval for abortion lol hypocrites)

29 is not that young, considering half of this retarded country has 3 kids before 19.

Doctors don't care, they want money.
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post 1473555321 12-02-2016, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted By woody19⏩
Supposed to submit samples at 8 & 10 weeks.

Actually spoke tomy dad about it. He said he never wanted kids, but wasn't upset that he had them either.Pretty much made it sound like either way was fine. Also feel like parents have to say that so they don't come off as terrible people.
lmao are you ok with your dad basically saying he did care either way if you existed?

I mean think of all the good things in your life, then just think you where never born.
post 1473555981 12-02-2016, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Devils⏩
lmao are you ok with your dad basically saying he did care either way if you existed?

I mean think of all the good things in your life, then just think you where never born.
Honestly doesn't bother me, because I have the same thoughts. He will be lucky to retire at 65. I have already travelled a good portion of the world, have tons of time for hobbies, my profession, my masters, etc.

Then you see my brother or my friends with kids and they look like a zombie 99% of the time. Everything is about their kids. Why do that to yourself? You only have one life, why not do things you want to do a majority of the time?
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post 1473556741 12-02-2016, 09:15 PM
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The more I think about not having a kid and weighing the pros and cons I'm glad I got my boy. It's a lot of time and money to raise your kids properly but I find the reward outweighs the monetary gains. Seeing your seed grow up is worth more then money to me. Not everyone has that mindset though and the freedom of being able to do whatever the Fuk you want for the rest of your life is probably pretty awesome. Sounds like you thought about it for a long time beforehand op so who gives a Fuk about what people with kids say.

You can still blast right? Or when you cum is it just poofs of smoke?
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post 1473557211 12-02-2016, 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Jibt3ch⏩
The more I think about not having a kid and weighing the pros and cons I'm glad I got my boy. It's a lot of time and money to raise your kids properly but I find the reward outweighs the monetary gains. Seeing your seed grow up is worth more then money to me. Not everyone has that mindset though and the freedom of being able to do whatever the Fuk you want for the rest of your life is probably pretty awesome. Sounds like you thought about it for a long time beforehand op so who gives a Fuk about what people with kids say.

You can still blast right? Or when you cum is it just poofs of smoke?
Can't bust for another 4 days or so, but apparently a very small percentage of cum is actually made up of sperm, the rest is just the precum fluid.

Yeah to each their own. Just seems like so many friends get trapped with kids and them cope for 18yrs. But I do have some who you knew from early on that they would be really good parents.
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post 1473557471 12-02-2016, 09:23 PM
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post 1473557591 12-02-2016, 09:24 PM
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post 1473557621 12-02-2016, 09:25 PM
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Originally Posted By woody19⏩
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Atta Boy!...

Are you planning on using the vasectomy as your final trump card?

I know I did all the time...I'd sit back and watch the horror on their faces when they'd try to pull the ''I'm pregne...' argument on me.
post 1473557661 12-02-2016, 09:26 PM
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Originally Posted By woody19⏩
Slightly touchy topic lol. Definetly more so for me not wanting kids. But we both have the same mindset towards our free time and retirement, so it was illogical to have a kid.
First, kudos for having so much maturity and responsibility and not wanting to overpopulate the world with kids. Second, it can be reversed should you feel the paternal/maternal instinct somewhere down the line.
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post 1473558221 12-02-2016, 09:33 PM
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I'm 50/50 about it. I have 1 kid and shes great. But you are right... it takes over your life and sometimes you wish you could just pack up and travel which I can't. On the other hand, I'd love to have children to talk to etc when I'm 50-60 years old. I know a few people that didn't have kids, now in their 60's, retired, and they are the loneliest people I have ever met.
post 1473558561 12-02-2016, 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted By RH709⏩
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Atta Boy!...

Are you planning on using the vasectomy as your final trump card?

I know I did all the time...I'd sit back and watch the horror on their faces when they'd try to pull the ''I'm pregne...' argument on me.
Just excited to avoid all the "I'm late" scares
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First, kudos for having so much maturity and responsibility and not wanting to overpopulate the world with kids. Second, it can be reversed should you feel the paternal/maternal instinct somewhere down the line.
Thanks bra, yeah I like my dogs more than most people anyways, so I think I will always be good as long as I have my puppers.
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post 1473558681 12-02-2016, 09:37 PM
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Curious if you were always for marriage? Never understood why people get married if they don't want kids.
post 1473559091 12-02-2016, 09:41 PM
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Why do you think white people don't want to have kids anymore?
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Originally Posted By mar_angry⏩
I'm 50/50 about it. I have 1 kid and shes great. But you are right... it takes over your life and sometimes you wish you could just pack up and travel which I can't. On the other hand, I'd love to have children to talk to etc when I'm 50-60 years old. I know a few people that didn't have kids, now in their 60's, retired, and they are the loneliest people I have ever met.
Heard that a bunch, but most likely my kid would be a selfish ******* like me, only calling is father every other month when he is,forced to by his better half.
Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Curious if you were always for marriage? Never understood why people get married if they don't want kids.
Made sense for the military and moving jobs/bases. But aside from that, I was anti marriage.
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So what exactly is your life goals that couldn't include even one kid?

Seems solely based on financial freedom and comfort. Ok you save a lot of money, have fun, travel....than you get old ...and old. Our minds change so much as we age but good for you I guess.
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Did you have a good family life growing up?
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is there a reversible procedure?
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Originally Posted By BigBlueCouch⏩
Why do you think white people don't want to have kids anymore?
Logical decision, it's fiscally and socially irresponsible to have kids imo. I also don't think affluent people aren't having kids, they are just having a responsible number at a responsible age. Instead of having 5 kids when you can't support yourself.
Originally Posted By clodoveo1⏩
So what exactly is your life goals that couldn't include even one kid?

Seems solely based on financial freedom and comfort. Ok you save a lot of money, have fun, travel....than you get old ...and old. Our minds change so much as we age but good for you I guess.
You get old either way, my hope is my 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s, are filled with doing whatever the fuk I want to do. If I want fly to vegas at age 31 no reason not to, age 43 want to go to napa for a 3 day weekend no problem, 54 want to go to my cabin and fish for a month why not.
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Originally Posted By 8282⏩
Did you have a good family life growing up?
Yeah pretty normal mid class life.
Originally Posted By Prose⏩
is there a reversible procedure?
Yeah, not 100%. Probably not pleasurable either.
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Def gonna get this, one kid is enough for me. Im sure a lot of people didnt care if they had kids or not when they have it, its just not politically correct to say you regret having kids even though a lot do regret it.
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apparently it costs up to 10k to get it reversed and the success rate is 55%

also its impossible to know if your wife is gonna want kids in 5-10 years
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Originally Posted By Enemy12⏩
apparently it costs up to 10k to get it reversed and the success rate is 55%

also its impossible to know if your wife is gonna want kids in 5-10 years
There's a cost to everything, and no certainty to anything. Such is life.
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sure of roll bread but now im confused. Ppl actually do this **** to themself? Gj cuck
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