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Thread: Surprised at how ex-gfs can just forget u and move on like it was nothing

post 1480482511 01-24-2017, 02:01 PM
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Still on good terms with my Ex and we still have conversations about what went wrong, what we could've done better, etc. a very mature break up that we both use as a learning experience. I haven't banged or thought of banging my Ex, not in a year, since I started dating my current GF.

Current GF won't forget me. a) I was her first time b) I always put effort into making her feel as amazing as I can c) my looks d) my D e) I come off as mature for my age/"I have my s*** together" even though that isn't the case all the time, but no problem, I want to exhume confidence and be that solid pillar for her to lean on when she needs.

But I completely doubt our relationship going anywhere long-term, for many reasons. I already have a gut feeling she will want to experience others even if the grass isn't greener. Best thing to do is enjoy the moments in the now, and be emotionally prepared for the expected especially in today's relationship culture.

My grandma's first husband died in a war when she was 19. Then remarried, and my grandparents were married 70+ years since they were both 20. Those were simple times, and perhaps a time when people were happier in general.
post 1480483451 01-24-2017, 02:06 PM
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women are biologically programmed to move on quickly because historically, men die.

Recently in history its not that women move on so quickly, its that they have already moved on by the time you get the news that its over, the monkey has already grabbed and swung from the next branch.
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post 1480483901 01-24-2017, 02:09 PM
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Originally Posted By b7acknwh1t3⏩
that making yourself vulnerable to ANYONE is just about the worst thing you can do.
I think you just need to emotionally invest less than the other person.

But I agree that being emotional as a man is almost always a bad idea and won't help you out in life. Especially with sloots.
post 1480484131 01-24-2017, 02:11 PM
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To me it sounds like youre getting dumped cause youre beta.

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Girls pretty much exclusively leave me for not giving them enough attention/not changing for them. Usually ends with them saying "is that it?" and me saying "ya."

You probably treat em real good though. DUdes like you are a dime a dozen
post 1480484421 01-24-2017, 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
Over the last decade, I've noticed this chit.
Girls seem to have the ability to "erase their memories/emotions" about significant others and trash pics/letters/memorabilia like it was nothing compared to guys who actually will remember them, even bad relationships. There was a study done on this 6 months ago.

Not ranting just want to post a topic. Philosophizing here
Age: 30

Who cares what the fukk they do, they are your ex. You should be north carolining their a$s and be busy with your life.
post 1480484881 01-24-2017, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted By HTDG⏩
Girls pretty much exclusively leave me for not giving them enough attention/not changing for them. Usually ends with them saying "is that it?" and me saying "ya."
Nice.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
post 1480484961 01-24-2017, 02:18 PM
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Some people are good at hiding their feelings even though someone may seem on the outside like they are coping this may not be the case. I for one can hide true feelings well because I have gone through a lot of s** I have learnt to hold this brave face even when I feel like I'm falling apart.

People handle situations differently just because you may act different doesn't mean the other person isn't feeling hurt. Some people find it easier to cope by surrounding themselves with another person in the hope it takes their mind of a painful past.

Also if your partner was a jerk pretty easy to think well screw you I can do and will do better.
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post 1480484991 01-24-2017, 02:18 PM
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if we had 5+ women INHERENTLY hitting us up we'd get over it quick too

key word: inherent
post 1480485061 01-24-2017, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By HTDG⏩
You probably treat em real good though. DUdes like you are a dime a dozen
True, they like it at the start, but then the relationship becomes as exciting as watching paint dry.
post 1480485191 01-24-2017, 02:20 PM
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Only betas remember and hold on to memories of women they stopped seeing years and years ago. It's not a woman thing. It's a people thing.
post 1480485351 01-24-2017, 02:21 PM
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
Only betas remember and hold on to memories of women they stopped seeing years and years ago. It's not a woman thing. It's a people thing.
I hold on to memories of what they looked like with a pint of my warm semen on their faces.

Also hold on to the photographs.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
post 1480485411 01-24-2017, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
Over the last decade, I've noticed this chit.
Girls seem to have the ability to "erase their memories/emotions" about significant others and trash pics/letters/memorabilia like it was nothing compared to guys who actually will remember them, even bad relationships. There was a study done on this 6 months ago.

Not ranting just want to post a topic. Philosophizing here
Bruh an ex of mine dumped me via text. I deleted phone number, ********, and never talked to her or her siblings again while I was getting my phone blown up by her friends saying I should talk to her she is sorry for what happened ect... Unless you count "Who is this?" I don't think I said anything since I said "ok." to her request for time apart. It has been 5+ years


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post 1480485861 01-24-2017, 02:24 PM
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I would never be able to leave anyone, and it would take me years to get over someone. I could never leave my husband, he would have to leave me. I wish I could be different. I don't know what's wrong with me.
post 1480485881 01-24-2017, 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted By krazy33⏩
if we had 5+ women INHERENTLY hitting us up we'd get over it quick too

key word: inherent
That word

I don't think it means what you think it means
post 1480486251 01-24-2017, 02:27 PM
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brb guys, heading to Afghanistan real quick to find some burka'd up HB8+/10 and wife up like 4 of them. Each can cook, clean, suck, f*ck....Ha jk.... Fine ya self a girl with long term goals like ya self.
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post 1480486351 01-24-2017, 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Lol if you break up with then they wouldn't move on quick unless they had people lined up

One of my ex's was constantly talking to a "friend" and being sketch so I ended it. he rejected her a week or two later and went back to his ex. Month after NC she came trying to be back with me and that "she made a mistake" completely trying to dismiss her actions and harsh words we told one another lmao. I rejected her.

This is how it goes, they Always have someone to monkey branch to and if it fails they come crawling back
lol what did she look like? social media has fuked chit up. They can get 40 guys in an hour on tinder
post 1480486411 01-24-2017, 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
bc literally the same day as the break up they got a line of dudes out the door ready to smash
This. lmfao.

Men need to play the field, and have a reservoir of girls they've built bridges with, and fall back on if a relationship doesn't work out. That way you wouldn't really care.

Girls have a reservoir the size of Lake Michigan of guys she could date in literally the drop of a hat if she wanted.

Why do girls have such large dating reservoirs?

Social media, Tinder, POF.

Girls literally have it on easy mode when it comes to dating. Guys throw themselves at them daily.

inb4 water is wet
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
That word

I don't think it means what you think it means
i do..

the inherent value = vagina

at best, for men, it's peak set of circumstances

for instance, if we use the distraught bf after a recent break up = no pussy
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Originally Posted By krazy33⏩
i do..

the inherent value = vagina
And they have that value because men give it to them.

The problem here is men.

If men didn't saturate their IG comment section, swipe right on them, DM them with flirty messages, and be 100% available, girls wouldn't be so heartless srs.
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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Originally Posted By awwchit2⏩
And they have that value because men give it to them.

The problem here is men.

If men didn't saturate their IG comment section, swipe right on them, DM them with flirty messages, and be 100% available, girls wouldn't be so heartless srs.
i dont agree m8. you need to blame testes

that's the reason men want to fuk

maybe a little bit on men, but moreso on biology
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Originally Posted By PepperedAngus⏩
women are biologically programmed to move on quickly because historically, men die.

Recently in history its not that women move on so quickly, its that they have already moved on by the time you get the news that its over, the monkey has already grabbed and swung from the next branch.
Yes
Village/country attacked, husbands killed
The women that took to the conquerors and pleased them were spared and bred with the victors
Viola the gene for moving on quick gets passed on

Seen this after posting, spot on;
Originally Posted By pwoL⏩
It's in their DNA to quickly get over a mate. Back in the day men died all the time hunting or in batte with other tribes. Women needed to get over her man quickly and find a new one asap... as being a woman without a male there for protection/resources was guaranteed death for her and her children. Women are opportunistic lovers and love based on what you offer her at that time. I've heard so many stories of women losing all attraction for and leaving men after they get fired, suffer a serious injury, get depressed, etc..

Look up "war brides", basically women that take the conquering men as their lovers and have their children. You're not going to beat 200,000+ years of evolution as our current form of humans. That shiet is engrained DEEP in our dna. Learn how people work and just deal with it, or put on blinders and try to ignore it.

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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I would never be able to leave anyone, and it would take me years to get over someone. I could never leave my husband, he would have to leave me. I wish I could be different. I don't know what's wrong with me.
This literally makes no sense whatsoever. You are a bare faced liar if you claim you never left a guy.
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
This literally makes no sense whatsoever. You are a bare faced liar if you claim you never left a guy.
Never. I've been married 20 years. I wouldn't be able to.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I would never be able to leave anyone, and it would take me years to get over someone. I could never leave my husband, he would have to leave me. I wish I could be different. I don't know what's wrong with me.
You've never broken up with anyone? So you sit in chit relationships till other person decides to leave?

^^^ wizards

Either way if your being abused you'd stay??
Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
lol what did she look like? social media has fuked chit up. They can get 40 guys in an hour on tinder
She was pretty cute/beautiful but my ego and pride is too big to ever get back with an ex. I know damn well how things would end in the future and idk how people do it. I'd never get back with an ex unless we split due to bad logistics aka one of us moving for work or something. It hurts for a bit then I move on, that's life son. Also yes cute and attractive girls get bombarded by men all day lmao, if she's loyal she wouldn't entertain the idea, the issue is most younger girls will always check if your relationship even has a bit of a rough patch.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Never. I've been married 20 years. I wouldn't be able to.
You have had another boyfriend, another "lover", friend with benefits, or otherwise a 1 night stand or several. You are a liar if you claim you have not. Or that you only had sex with 1 man in your life.

I bet you will also say you never had eyes for another man.

Will be even more impossible to believe if you can actually tell us your age. You're not a unicorn..
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
You have had another boyfriend, another "lover", friend with benefits, or otherwise a 1 night stand or several. You are a liar if you claim you have not. Or that you only had sex with 1 man in your life.

I bet you will also say you never had eyes for another man.

Will be even more impossible to believe if you can actually tell us your age. You're not a unicorn..
I didn't leave them, they always left me.
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In the dim and distant past I've ended relationships because they no longer made me happy. Not once did I stop caring about my previous partner. I've also been the dumped and same thing.

Sometimes you develop this fallacy of no care / forgetting as self protection ...Relationships are worth the potential pain though

Break ups are chit so whatever gets you through

Thank fukk I'll never have to go through that again
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I didn't leave them, they always left me.
Why do I get the feeling that there are a whole bunch of bs reasons as to why it was their fault not yours.
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Didn't read thread, but I've noticed the exact opposite of the OP.

Men seem to be the ones who have the proclivity to do this.
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